Don't be too clever Tell me about it.

People are not afraid of not being smart, but they are afraid of being too smart.

If you are too brave, you will become reckless; When integrity goes too far, it becomes pedantic; If you are too alert, you will become smooth; If you pay too much, you will become a beggar; When greed goes too far, it becomes corruption; If you are too persistent, you will lack your mind; Too much goodwill has turned into weakness; If you are overbearing, you will become overbearing; If you go too far, you will walk into a dead end; If you brush the screen too much, you will lose your audience.

1. If you want to catch a fish, you must think like a fish. If you like strawberries again, the fish will not pay attention; The fish won't take the bait until it eats its favorite earthworm.

When a beautiful woman shows off her beauty, she begins to become ugly. When a wise man shows off his cleverness, he begins to become stupid! A talented person, when showing off his talents, begins to become worthless!

3. If the profit of 10% is reasonable, you could have got 1 1%, but 9% is still the best policy, because only in this way will there be a steady stream of follow-up business.

People who mix in officialdom must be careful and always pay attention. Even if you have been honored for most of your life, if you finally make a big mistake, your life may be ruined. Life is so wonderful. Being a man is like farming, and the final harvest is the standard of evaluation.

5. There is a classic formula: Desire-strength = degree of pain. When desire far exceeds strength and cannot be realized in any case, it is the most painful time for a person, and it is also easy to be possessed.

6. The human nature of being too poor and loving the rich promotes social development. If everyone likes being poor and backward, who wants to do manual labor? Who wants to engage in creative thinking? Where do you get food, clothing, use and shelter? In this way, society will stagnate or even go backwards! Therefore, we should regard being too poor and loving being rich as a normal social phenomenon.

7. On some special occasions, some smart people will take the initiative to give the leading role to others, and they are willing to be supporting roles. This is not a failure, even a strategic victory. He gave up only the name of a protagonist, but he won tangible benefits.

8. There is a saying: "The requested thing is gone." Although China people advocate the golden mean, they go to extremes everywhere in real life. For this reason, now the country advocates a harmonious society, the core meaning of which is the golden mean, so that the world should not be extreme and extreme.

9. For a China person, how precious life is and how precious face is. If you give him enough face, he will give you everything! But if you hurt his face and self-esteem, he will hate your guts and push you to him completely!

10, don't criticize others emotionally, pay special attention to the facts and avoid evaluating others' personalities, interests and family upbringing. If you can put forward solutions when criticizing, you will be more constructive and you will not forget to affirm the advantages of others. In addition, if humorous language can be used in criticism, the effect will often be better.

1 1. Listening to sweet words is everyone's weakness, no matter who they are, they are easily fooled. Almost all women in the world like to listen to sweet words, and many women marry the wrong person because of men's sweet words.

12, the clearest emotional investment skill is to give timely help, not icing on the cake.

13. Let your subordinates know your ability at first, and then slowly relax the standards so that they can appreciate your concession and easygoing. This is the management wisdom of CEO.

14, no matter how ugly the other person's words are, let the other person finish and listen to what he really wants to express.

15, most relatives and friends can only share joys and sorrows, but can't * * * enjoy happiness. Between bosses and employees, most of them can only share happiness, but can't suffer.

16, people are not afraid of not being smart, but they are afraid of being too smart. If you are too smart, you will be blind, arrogant, ignorant and get carried away. At this time, people who seem smart are actually half fools! The vast majority of people who have suffered disasters in ancient and modern times are smart people. People nowadays are afraid that they are not smart enough. This is stupid.

17, benefactor, don't worry, don't praise others publicly, so even a bucket of millet can be rewarded. A person who helps others with property and always asks others to return, then even if he pays two thousand gold, it is difficult to have a penny of merit.

18, there are no eternal friends and enemies in the world, only eternal interests. The essence of interpersonal communication is actually the exchange of interests. If you don't understand the principle of interest exchange and take all the benefits for yourself, then no matter how powerful the talents are, they can only become useless blank paper!

19, "take, take; Take it, take it; If you take it, you will get nothing. " In other words, if the initial expectation is first-class, the final effect may be only the middle; If the initial expectation is only the middle stream, the final effect can only be the last stream; If expectation is only the last stream, you may get nothing in the end.

20. The eagle seems to be asleep when standing, and the tiger seems to be seriously ill when walking. In fact, this is a clever way for them to eat and eat people. Therefore, a really smart person should not show off or show off his talents, so that he can do great things.

2 1, some things in life don't need to be cared about, and some things must be emptied. Let go when it's time to let go, so that you can free your hands and grasp the happiness and happiness that really belongs to you. Trees put down their yellow leaves and grow beautiful spring. When the gray clouds fall from the sky, the sky will become bright and sunny. Let go of the heavy depression and you will have a happy life.

22. Affection is a kind of depth, friendship is a kind of breadth and love is a kind of purity. Affection is an unconditional and unrequited sunshine bath; Friendship is a powerful bank of understanding and can live safely; And love is a mysterious and boundless soul, which can make songs forget. Unfortunately, life, affection, love and friendship are missing one; Poor is three missing two; If the three are indispensable, life is worse than death.

23. People who live a confused life are easy to be happy; People who live a sober life are easily troubled. This is because sober people look too real, too real, and there will be troubles everywhere in life; However, a confused person, he seldom cares, because his simple and rough life has found the great taste of life.

24, men will say that they will not do it, and they will say that they will not do it. I promise to get married every day, and nine times out of ten I won't really get married. The person who really marries you doesn't talk at all. He just takes you to see your parents regularly, shows you the house and lets you go to his house for the New Year. Those who vowed not to break up all day, basically broke up. If you really don't break up, write your name on the real estate license, let you manage the money, and even urge you to register. The more you talk, the less you do. The more you do, the less you say. This is man's nature!

25. It is a level to speak when it is time to speak, and it is a kind of cleverness to be silent when it is time to be silent. Hard work is a kind of ability, and giving up is a kind of accomplishment. Performance is a kind of wisdom, and concealment is a kind of talent. Roaring is a kind of dignity, and tact is a strategy. Flexibility is a kind of maturity, and peace of mind is a kind of temperament.

Editor's Note: All the things we have done, the people we met, all the joys and sorrows will be condensed into a very sad word-the past. Happiness and pain are all over, only memories, can't go back. But sometimes, we always have a hard time with the past and indulge in the aftertaste and decadence of the past. Life should look forward. Only by liberating yourself from the past can there be a way ahead.