Should I tell my sister that I don't like her?

If you don’t like it, just tell her directly. Don’t procrastinate, as the consequences will be more serious. In fact, whenever she complains to me or tells me that life is difficult, I always come up with suggestions and help her with my own meager power. Sometimes I use my own living expenses to give her things she likes and wants (my living expenses are still quite considerable). But we have been fighting since childhood and have a good relationship, but we always quarrel.

Tell your sister to study seriously and don’t think too much. You can work part-time, but it can’t affect your studies, otherwise there will be no point in studying. I sincerely hope that my sister’s life will have a different glory. Studying is a very important thing. An undergraduate degree is completely different from a junior college degree. Even if you borrow it, you still need to let your child go to an undergraduate degree. Don't think about saying that you hope your sister will repay you. It's good to repay her, but don't take it too seriously if you don't. Doing good deeds is for your own inner peace.

If you give advice and practice it well, if you don’t get it, then stop, and you will be humiliating yourself. What Confucius meant was that when others do something wrong, you should give them good advice. If they are unwilling to accept it, forget it. Don't bring shame on yourself. I think you should talk to your sister. If you don’t say anything because you’re afraid she’ll be unhappy, that’s selfish and not for her good. But if she doesn’t listen, then don’t say anything. Everyone has their own life, so just don’t give in to suggestions. Think about change.

There are thousands of kinds of emotions in the world, many of which cannot be summed up by the word love. If you really don't like her, then protect her from the perspective of a brother, instead of saying that because the sister is very good, because the sister is not related to me by blood, so I don't want to be with her if I don't like her. Do what you should do, and don't do anything that shakes your sister's life and feelings just because of it.

You let her choose her own future. If you will never be together in the future, no matter how many times you go around or how many people you meet, you will tell yourself in your heart that yes, this is the person. Only then will it be a mature relationship. At what time, what should be done.