I am a sloppy person. Will a person like me not be happy no matter who I marry?

Just because you are sloppy does not mean that you will not be happy when you get married. Being sloppy is just a part of married life, not the most important thing, nor the whole thing. So I believe that as long as you are responsible and responsible after marriage, Heart, if you correct your sloppy habits after marriage and work hard to maintain a good family, you will have a happy marriage.

Sloppy people generally refer to people who don’t care about their external image and don’t pay attention to their appearance. For example, they don’t like to take a bath, don’t like to change clothes frequently, don’t like to clean up the home, dress casually, and don’t like to trim their clothes. Nails, etc.; the degree of sloppiness is greater, the impact on life will be greater, but some small details and minor problems that are less sloppy still do not affect daily life.

I have a colleague who is a sloppy person. The degree of sloppiness is medium, but he is a very responsible person. He is very good to his colleagues and customers, and there is a good relationship between colleagues and customers. When faced with problems, he always has the courage to take responsibility and is very responsible.

He is usually a very casual person in life. He had sloppy habits before getting married. He never cares whether the clothes have been ironed or whether they look beautiful. His leather shoes are always dirty. Damn, we have known each other for 10 years, and apart from the fact that the leather shoes he wore were clean when he got married, we have never seen him clean again; his hair is always disheveled, and his face is always unshaven. The inside of his dormitory was almost like a garbage dump, and we once said that he could not find a wife.

But to his surprise, he found one, and she is still a teacher; his wife is not a capable person, but she has not reached the level of sloppy, maybe because both of them are relatively casual people. , so both can accept each other. And after getting married, my colleague is not as slovenly as before, his unshaven face never appears again, and he never wears unironed clothes again. Later, I talked with him about his changes. He said that after he got his wife, she would usually urge him to take care of himself. And since he had a wife, someone would take care of him. Instead, there were some changes. They have been together for 10 years now. He also has a son and has always been happy.

Through this incident, I believe that there are degrees of sloppiness, and sloppiness also has an impact on life, but as long as it is not severely sloppy and you are a responsible and responsible person , you can also find problems and correct your sloppy habits, and you will be happy when you get married. Just choose someone who can accept your bad habits when choosing a mate. This is my opinion, what do you think? Discuss together in the comment area.