Will you regret having only one girl in the future?

Whether you will regret having only one girl in the future depends on your personal living environment and cannot be generalized.

We will explain it in two aspects: regret and no regret:

1. No regret

1) When you give birth to a daughter, you can dress her up well. How comfortable it is to buy all kinds of princess dresses, kawaii headdresses, and bows to dress your daughter up like a little princess;

2) Daughters are their parents’ “caring little cotton-padded jackets” and know how to Say "Mom, Dad, I love you" to your parents; when I get home from get off work, I will rush into your arms and say "Mom, Dad, thank you for your hard work, I miss you", and then lie in your arms and act like a baby, and you will instantly feel that the fatigue of the day is gone. completely disappeared;

3) When my daughter grows up, she will buy various gifts in large and small packages for her parents after work, and she will always remember her parents in her heart;

4) Nowadays, the ratio of men to women is imbalanced, and a large number of young people will pursue a girl. But if a boy is born in China, you must at least provide him with a good house, and you also need to work hard and improve your overall soft power to marry a wife;

5) When you get old, your daughter will take care of your sick parents without taking any clothes off, and ask for their welfare. It’s not that your son is unfilial, but men and women have different natural sensitivity systems and physiological structures, so they won’t be so like daughters. Handle all aspects of internal affairs.

2. Regret

1) According to the traditional Chinese view of favoring sons over daughters, when giving birth to a daughter at the beginning, especially men of the older generation will be more or less reluctant. Loss, this is an undoubted fact, but most people only regret it for a moment, and later they will be relieved when they look at their daughter’s delicate face;

2) There is a joking saying recently circulated on the Internet: Raising a daughter is like planting a pot of rare and famous flowers. You have to be careful and take care of them in every possible way. You are afraid of the sun on sunny days and the rain on rainy days. You are afraid of the heat in summer and the cold in winter. It breaks your heart and makes you look forward to it. Finally, when the flower blooms, it is amazing. Four people, but they were taken away by a weakling named son-in-law! "When my daughter got married, the reluctance, the entanglement, and the regret came all at once, and there were so many emotions;

3) There are also objective reasons. For example, after giving birth to a daughter, it is impossible for most daughters to accompany their fathers to watch football games, basketball games, tennis games and other sports events. They should try to follow the standards of a rough man. Most daughters will go shopping with their mothers. At this time, the father will also be disappointed and regretful. Of course, this kind of regret is fleeting, but it also reflects a feeling of regret. ;

4) In addition, in their twilight years, most Chinese people are filial and kind. When you are seriously ill and watch your only daughter running around to do your filial piety, When there is a mid-life crisis behind you - a crisis in work, managing children, and relationships between husband and wife, you can't help but wonder why I didn't have another child to lighten the burden on my daughter, so that she wouldn't be so tired.

In fact, giving birth to a child or a daughter is the same. There is no regret or not. It is normal for people to have certain emotions and feelings in certain circumstances. When you see the faces of your children, most of them will My parents were still very pleased and filled with infinite love.

(Pictures come from the Internet)