Speak through human nature

You don't want to associate with people if you see through human nature.

You don't want to associate with people if you see through human nature. There is a saying that the more you grow up, the more lonely you become. When I meet some things, I will let TA grow up and look down on some things. To share an article about seeing through human nature and not wanting to associate with others. Welcome to reading.

You don't want to associate with people if you see through human nature. 1 The more people know about human nature, the less they like to associate with others. The poorer you are, the more sociable you are, and the more lively you like. Some people regard curiosity-seeking as fun, and what their friends tell them as gossip, and spread it at will to get some unknown pleasure. Show one's true colors and become a shit-like character. Find pleasure in these vulgar tastes.

Find his sense of superiority among vulgar and boring people.

Find what he calls a sense of value that stands out from the crowd.

Relatively speaking, the richer a person is, the more he likes peace and leisure.

Like a person's quiet and simple, don't want to be disturbed in life. ...

Not being an enemy of human nature is a kind of life wisdom.

Don't judge, don't cater, don't flatter, don't be persistent, and be free and easy.

You don't want to associate with people if you see through human nature. There is a popular movie line called "only children can distinguish right from wrong, and adults only look at pros and cons", and there is a quotation that points directly to the bottom line of human nature. "There is no betrayal, often because the temptation is not enough." These two sentences are not negative energy. It is natural that they are popular and recognized by people. Their essence is human nature and people's desire for advantages and avoidance of disadvantages. In fact, as early as more than two thousand years ago, the sage Guiguzi pointed out in The Art of Making Love that it is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. What is sex? See profit "take it", see harm "slap it out"!

Guiguzi thinks that people are advanced animals that seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. For many people, advantages and disadvantages are still more important than right and wrong. Even if it is right or wrong, they will look at the pros and cons first. This is human nature, the will of the people, and there is nothing to blame.

I once read a news that a wealthy Japanese businessman traveled to a place in Xiangxi, Hunan. When he left, he thought it was too much trouble to exchange foreign currency in the bank, so he threw some RMB into his hand from the car, which led to robbery. The scene happened to be photographed with a camera and uploaded to the internet, which caused many netizens to criticize and condemn these people for their lack of personality, which was really shameful.

But in fact, if we know a little about the idea of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, we will find that it is completely unnecessary for this issue to rise to the national level. In fact, the problem is not the people who pick up money, but the psychology of some netizens. They can't accept the advantages and disadvantages of human nature, and blindly judge one thing by right or wrong. I hope everyone is noble and selfless. But in fact, when these netizens face such scenes and choices, I believe that most of them will put aside the so-called face and moral concepts and reach out to pick up the money on the ground!

Some people may be dismissive, thinking that they will definitely not do that, but if the ground is 10000, 10000, or even 100000, or even more money, will he still be dismissive? Therefore, human nature is indeed pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages. Many times there is no betrayal, just because the temptation is not enough.

Coincidentally, similar things happened in Britain. On the highway, a truck carrying cash had an accident and millions of pounds were scattered all over the place. As a result, what did the British, who are famous for their gentlemanly manners, do? Instead of calling the police and giving help, they rushed up like hungry wolves and quickly took the money.

It can be seen that the essence of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages is regardless of country and nation. He is thirsty to drink water, hungry to eat, sleepy to sleep, which is an important reason why people are human. If a person doesn't have the nature of pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages, or he restrains and suppresses this nature, then he is either a loyal man or a villain, and there may be a dirty purpose behind his nobility and selflessness.

On the other hand, the nature of pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages often leads people to choose betrayal in the face of enough temptations, because this temptation is enough to destroy a person's strongest belief and make him desperate for benefits and temptations, which is caused by many corrupt officials.

Maybe you are a determined person, and you can stand firm in the face of no matter how big the temptation is, but you must be on guard, because some people around you may betray you at any time because of some temptations.

In life, there are many friends who seem to have good relationships, but when you are in big trouble and ask him for help, such as borrowing money, he may immediately give you the cold shoulder, like a stranger. When you are rich and powerful, many people around you will crowd around you, and there will always be people who flatter you and curry favor with you. But once you are down and out, your friends and relatives may want to leave you and avoid you, and you will suddenly feel that the world is cold and human feelings are warm and cold ... besides being wary of these things, you should relax, because they are only the embodiment of human nature's pursuit of advantages and avoidance of disadvantages.

In addition, in Guiguzi's view, we should not only know how to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, but also make good use of this. In interpersonal communication and doing things, we should be good at doing what we like, or show advantages or disadvantages, so as to achieve our goals.

You don't want to associate with people if you see through human nature.

First of all, the monologue of flatterer

In most communication situations, there is one kind of person who is harmless.

But it's particularly annoying,

Such people are called flatterers, and their behavioral characteristics,

That is, actively cater to or flatter people with high status and loud voice in the group,

For example, in a company, you flatter your boss.

In the interest circle, we will cheer for big bosses and people with deep qualifications.

At the same time, the "best" among them will ask others to be like themselves.

Flattery is regarded as the capital of showing off and the exemplary behavior of propaganda.

Although everyone hates this flatterer,

But few people will find out their behavior,

This is because people have scruples or respect for the objects they flatter.

This is also the core of flatterer behavior:

They know that the silent majority will not affect their "play".

Even being a clown and being looked down upon by others,

Will not be spurned and rejected in person,

Maybe some of them who are a little smarter will know,

Everyone looks down on themselves behind their backs and won't agree with their actions.

But they don't care,

Because they know that some words can't be said,

Some things, as long as you are not embarrassed,

Sorry, it's someone else.

Second, the choices are matched.

If we find a group, except the opposing group,

If the attitudes of those neutrals are considered to be matched,

We will find some interesting phenomena,

For example, if one party gets this match,

They won't really cut off the fire,

Instead, he will show off his "victory" to the opposite side.

Look, I have matches in my hand.

With matches, it means I can have what you don't have.

Matches mean I can have a flame,

Are you scared?

But usually, people who own matches don't "use" matches.

Because matches don't choose to set themselves on fire to prove their status,

And people who have matches in their hands often can't strike this match.

They set themselves on fire because of fear.

People have very contradictory positions on the existence of fire.

On the one hand, they hope to keep warm by fire and heat food with fire.

But at the same time, I am afraid that the flame will devour me.

So they always think that although there is fire in their hands,

But fire can never be a "reliable ally":

A neutral game is often very clear about its state.

So, they didn't burn themselves, but they kept telling others,

I will burn, I will burn,

No one can control it.

And those matches that don't know their status,

Often in order to become a "qualified tool" in the hands of others,

Burn yourself and please others.

Third, Qi Tiansheng reached Bi Marvin

Monkey King, with a resounding title,

Bi Marvin, that sounds a little bleak.

When you are invincible, the Monkey King is a frightening voice.

When you face the environment and rules and choose to compromise,

Bi Marvin is the best guarantee for your survival in this world.

In society, we are particularly small.

This is not to say that all our great landscape achievements are meaningless.

It's just our grades. Under different conditions,

There are usually different performance requirements,

However, no matter what we are in the eyes of others,

Or what you have become, or what you have achieved,

In our hearts, there is always a symbol that represents our true meaning.

This symbol has accompanied us through the eighty-one difficulties.

Accompany us through the heaven of life and the hell of human nature,

We will never change because of the opinions of those monsters,

And will not compromise because of the attitude of those heavenly soldiers and generals,

You will always be Wukong in your heart:

If you put your mind on the sea, you can catch people's hearts.

Sharp eyes can see through human nature.