The husband took his mother-in-law to the city to take care of his son. Mother-in-law: It is difficult to take care of his grandson, but it is not difficult to take care of his grandson. What should I

The husband took his mother-in-law to the city to take care of his son. Mother-in-law: It is difficult to take care of his grandson, but it is not difficult to take care of his grandson. What should I do? My name is Zhang Xiulin, and I am the mother of a 3-year-old boy. I have been married to Liao Lansheng, the father of the child, for almost five years. At that time, after giving birth to the child, my own mother was responsible for the confinement and taking care of the child. On the one hand, my home is close, on the other hand, my mother is a teacher herself. On the other hand, my mother-in-law is an authentic rural woman in the countryside and doesn't know many words. I don't think it will do much good to her children's education.

However, some changes have taken place in the current situation. My mother is in poor health. As the child grew older, she became quite naughty. She can't stop for a moment every day, and she has great strength. My mother has no energy to take care of him. Later, my husband said that his mother didn't take care of the child after birth and felt that he owed something. After he finished the phone call, my mother-in-law immediately took the initiative to ask Wang to help us "watch the cows". After listening to it, I felt that my child was going to kindergarten anyway, and I didn't need mother-in-law education, as long as she took good care of my son's life, so I agreed.

My son's nickname is Shengsheng. The closest person born in this world is his grandmother, that is, the mother who took him to the age of three, but she is no stranger to grandma. After all, we usually take him to visit the elderly in the countryside when we are free, and my mother-in-law will visit her grandson in town from time to time. Different from the big bags and small bags that came to town in the past, this time my mother-in-law also brought her own luggage. The sage doesn't know that his life manager has changed, but he is still running around the house. My mother-in-law is much more energetic than my mother. When it is time to do it, she will do it. I will go crazy with her when I am free, saying that a boy should get sick if he is not crazy. But when it comes to eating and solving the problem of defecation, she will rush up like a chicken and carry my son who has repeatedly refused to listen.

Seeing my mother-in-law's rude education model, I couldn't adapt for a while. Just say to her, "Mom, now that the sage is older, you can reason with him at ordinary times and he will understand. Forming a good habit of observing and knowing the rules is good for him to enter kindergarten in the future. " As a result, my mother-in-law said with efficiency, "I would rather give orders three thousand times than do it for a while." She said that she used to teach her children this way, but now it has become material.

After listening to this theory, although I am dissatisfied, I can't say anything. In addition to taking care of saints, mother-in-law also consciously undertakes daily housework at home, such as washing clothes, cooking and cleaning, and is very diligent. To tell the truth, we have relaxed a lot since the old man came.

There are just a lot of unaccustomed places. For example, she is used to getting up early every day, preparing breakfast for her family before dawn, and then starting to wake us up for dinner. Usually it's ok, but we were busy for a week. When we finally slept in on Saturday and Sunday, she called us as usual. I also told her that there was no need to do this, and it was not too late for us to get up and do it ourselves, but the old man said that how can young people be healthy if they don't eat well? Eating is bigger than the sky, be firm. There is also feeding my son, always afraid that the child will not have enough to eat and try his best to stuff it. She has only been here for more than two months, and my son has put on weight. I think the child's obesity is not only a symbol of Fu Tai's good health, but may have some adverse effects, so I told her not to let the child eat hard, which will cause trouble in the future.

As a result, my mother-in-law said, "I don't live a hard life like before. Children don't even have enough food, how can they grow up? "

Besides, it is a very practical problem. My mother-in-law speaks their local dialect and now leads my son astray. From time to time, she popped out a few incomprehensible dialects, which was very grounded. I have to say that my mother-in-law's education still has some influence. Looking at the pictures on the wall, my son proudly said to me, "Mom, I know many animals. This is a stun, this is a moth, this is an old gung, this is ... "I have fainted to the ground. Then communicate with the mother-in-law and ask the old people to pay attention to teaching their children the scientific names of these things. Mother-in-law not only lamented: "It is difficult to raise grandchildren, but it is not difficult to raise grandchildren."

Everyone said, am I too picky and demanding?