I am confused and annoyed about the issue of breaking off my engagement. Please answer!

You are a responsible boy! It is commendable that you can consider each other's feelings and influences! Indeed, love must not be forced! Especially when you are not married, your feelings are gone, so end it as soon as possible! It is good for both sides and the future. Please tell both parents-"It's not too late to end now, but it's over when you get married and then divorce!" Having children and getting divorced will do more harm to children! It hurts more! Let the injury end in the least time! "Parents will certainly understand! Marriage is a life-long event. Getting married now means getting divorced in the future. Why not make the best choice when you have the chance? For her-and she knows what a marriage without love means-you tell her clearly that you have no love with her! Her reputation, now, how many virgins are there? Appropriate compensation-just don't pay back the money-you didn't rape her, it was voluntary; Tell your family what's good for everyone once! It's getting worse and worse! Say it now! This is not shameful!