What does it mean for a middle-aged woman to "not be greedy for three emotions, not see three people, and not gather for three parties"?

The so-called three love affairs are old love, one-night stand and extramarital affair. Three people refer to old lovers, snobs and unfilial people. Buju Sanhui refers to no gatherings of attentive people and no gatherings of attentive people. Gather a gathering of strangers, but not a gathering of bad friends.

When people reach middle age, they have many things to do, strong feelings, and great pressure. This is the age when they are not allowed to go astray. No matter how reluctant you are to give up, you can't stop the passing of time. Even if you are unwilling, you must understand the mission of middle-aged people. Replace sighs and regrets with calmness, replace impulse and enthusiasm with indifference and tranquility.

The first is extramarital affairs among the three loves. When a woman reaches middle age, she will undergo great psychological and physical changes. Her husband Because you are often busy with your career and not around, if you cannot withstand the temptation and have an extramarital affair, it will destroy the family you have built. It is normal for middle-aged people to often suffer from the emptiness and loneliness of couples who are busy with their careers. Nowadays, everyone is under great pressure, so they are often tempted by the wonderful stimulation of extramarital affairs, and have a bit of an urge to have sex, but once it happens In such a relationship, you will slowly become addicted to it and enjoy the exciting feeling. It is easiest to lose your mind at that time, and when you wake up, it is irreversible. Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, you must not provoke extramarital affairs and must exercise restraint. own desires.

One-night stands are more secretive than extramarital affairs, and are no less harmful than extramarital affairs. When middle-aged women, they may feel tired of their ordinary marriage, so they try to find love outside marriage, but Marriage is originally from novel to dull. Women of this age group should take good care of this dull marriage. Having a one-night stand will make people addicted and lose their calmness in the past. Once the door of ethical betrayal is opened, people will be burdened with spiritual shackles for a lifetime. In reality, there are countless cases of one-night stands that turn into extramarital affairs. Once the gap in the soul is opened, it cannot be filled. One-night stand is There is essentially no turning back from the denial of one's own feelings and the people who accompany them, because one-night stands are unacceptable to normal families. Some women who have one-night stands are used as blackmail by the other party to have repeated relationships, which directly leads to the occurrence of extramarital affairs. They think that they will not be It was discovered, but you often walk by the river without losing your shoes. Once discovered, it will directly lead to the breakdown of the family. Therefore, one-night stands must not be attempted, and the bottom line must be adhered to.

Among the three emotions, old love has the greatest damage to the family and has the greatest psychological impact. No one has ever been young, and no one has a story to tell, but when people reach middle age, they must learn to control themselves and not think about rekindling old dreams with their old lovers. Old relationships will make women think about them constantly, especially when they are dissatisfied with their current life. They will recall the good times with their old lovers every day, and they have betrayed them in their thoughts. Under such circumstances, the probability of cheating is particularly high. If even their thoughts have been cheated, Then there is no turning back, and the only way after cheating is divorce. Therefore, when people reach middle age, they should clarify their position, know their responsibilities, and don't think about messy things, even if these messy feelings did bring good things in the past.

The old lover in "The Missing Three Lovers" and the old love in "The Three Lovers Are Not Greedy" express the same truth. For the ex, missing it is already the end. The choice has been made at that time, and any hindsight will not be known later. Feeling unwillingness and expectations are superfluous, and using impulse to make up for so-called regrets will only lead to greater regrets. Maybe your ex is not a bad person, but you still have to stay as far away as possible. When you reach middle age, you have already passed the age of longing for love. Being ordinary is the real thing. If you can't see your former lover, you will disappear.

It is best not to meet snobs, regardless of gender or age group. People need to be reciprocal and mutually beneficial. One-sided long-term benefits will not last long. Snobs will only become passers-by in life and will not truly become friends and intimates. After all, you can know who the other person is during the relationship. If the other person is a snob, it's best to stay away from such a person. Selfish people are generally narrow-minded. In their calculated lives, if you make them feel uncomfortable and suffer a loss, they will definitely hold a grudge and try to find ways to make up for the loss, so they may stab you in the back. This is what they want. The scary part.

Unfilial people often have weak feelings. They can even let down their closest relatives and those who love them most. Then such a person can do anything. A person who is not even filial to his parents. , will not take others seriously. Meeting and interacting with such people will bring endless hidden dangers.

Middle-aged women have to live their own lives and socializing is very important, but you can’t go to all parties, they are all gatherings of strangers. Life is not easy for middle-aged people, so there is no need Create trouble for yourself. By middle age, you already have real friends. Most of the friends you have now are purposeful, and at gatherings of strangers, there is a mixed bag of people, and there are all kinds of people. If there are some people with ulterior motives who have designs on you, it will be impossible to guard against them. When a woman reaches middle age, it is the time when she has feelings and desires, and it is easy for her to have extramarital affairs. In order to avoid unnecessary trouble, I won’t go to such a gathering if I can’t.

If you don’t gather to show your courtesy, you will have a certain social status when you reach a certain age. When your own value is high, there will be some people who are not as valuable as you to show your courtesy. If you are constantly being courted, you will easily lose yourself. , often associating with low-value people is a behavior that reduces one's own value. It is difficult for these people to generate actual value. After all, being attentive often positions themselves well, and mutual benefit is rare among these people.

It is best not to attend gatherings that harm your friends. If you think of your past classmates or friends, you will go to the gathering. As a result, the gathering will be filled with comparisons and showing off. If it doesn’t bring you memories or happiness, it can easily ruin your mood for the day. Life is not easy. Being happy and happy is the most important thing. There is no need to keep yourself from being happy