My son looks down on my father.

Hehe, the situation at home is similar to what you said. There are many such people, but it's a pity that they are our parents.

Generally speaking, they are deeply insecure (deep down, not the part controlled by rational intelligence, but the subconscious. For example, if you don't listen, he will get angry unconsciously. This kind of person has a low social status and can't find a good way to make himself confident (this kind of person is especially polite and honest when dealing with outsiders). So once someone touches their poor self-esteem, they need to get back their confidence by losing their temper and bullying people who are weaker than themselves. For example, their wives and daughters are ideal objects, and once you have an argument with them, you will be labeled as unfilial. Read the newspaper. Some men are useless. When they are bullied at work or can't make money, they drink to relieve boredom, and then go home to beat their wives and children to vent. The next day, they faced their boss and became turtle grandchildren.

Don't expect to change this bad temper. For example, there used to be a leader in Taiwan Province Province named Lee Teng-hui. When he grows up, he is afraid of poverty. When he grew up, he worked very hard and had extremely sophisticated social experience, and became the head of Taiwan Province Province. Later, it can be said that money is rolling in high spirits, but deep down, it is afraid of poverty. When he saw countless gold in the treasury, he wanted to take it away. The worst time was to transport the gold in the vault abroad in four flights, and move it box by box. Finally, he was sentenced to life imprisonment and was about to die in prison. His normal income can be used by his children and grandchildren, so there is no need to take the risk. As a result, he did it because he was a child.

So, you don't have to hate your father. Why do you say that? Because some people in society are extremely gloomy and flatter you, and finally you are sold by him and still counting his money, and the ending is even worse. If you still do this openly, dad will be more alert to you. Just treat it coldly. There is no need to fight for him. When he realizes that he can't get benefits from you, he will stop. There is also that you leave this environment early, and when you can be independent, he will not threaten you, so stop here.

Finally, if you go out on your own in the future, don't confuse you because of this kind of thing, treat men as absolute dependence or don't care about boys, and think that finding a man will hurt you, then there is no need to be yourself, financially independent and respected.