What kind of children will a loveless family bring up?

I'm like this!

1. Very independent. I will do a lot of things, but Dont Ask For Help is absolutely Dont Ask For Help.

2, very insecure, always want to catch a rely on. But it is clear that we can only rely on ourselves, so we are always entangled in contradictions.

3. Sometimes the heart is strong, sometimes it is weak. I will think too much and worry at night, but if I think too much, I will end up saying, fuck it, love it, and I won't die anyway.

4. Be relatively tolerant of the next generation. Because I know, I am merciful. I am very tolerant of my daughter and seldom scold her.

first, I am very independent. I do everything by myself. I don't ask for help, and I don't know whether to ask for help or not.

second, I don't like to owe anything, to be alone, or not to be intimate with people, and not to trust outsiders easily.

Third, the introverted and indifferent personality looks more honest. Stay

Fourth, feel inferior, not cheerful, will not enjoy life, and save money desperately. Insecure.

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When I see this question, I think of my mother. She was raised in a loveless family. I don't think it is appropriate to use the word training.

My mother was born in a small mountain village in Yimeng Mountain area in the 196s. There are already three older sisters on her, and my grandfather's family has passed on for three generations. Before my mother was born, the whole family hoped that she would be a boy, so as to carry on the incense for his family and carry on the family line.

As soon as my mother was born, her grandparents decided to throw her away that night when they saw that she was a girl. I think if she was really thrown on the road outside the village like that, in such a cold winter, she could only freeze to death and starve to death. My grandfather is a dutiful son, and he didn't dare to resist. Maybe he couldn't make up his mind himself. At that time, he didn't make a statement. My grandmother just cried that although she was a girl, it was the meat that fell from her body, but she thought she had given birth to another girl. I'm sorry that people didn't even have the right to speak, so she didn't dare to stop sending my mother out.

At this time, only my aunt cried when she saw my grandmother crying. She was unwilling to die, and she fought and cried her eyes out. After several hours, they finally decided not to send her away, but to keep her first.

In the second year, grandma finally gave birth to a son for his family, and my mother also had a younger brother. In the 196s, everyone was poor, and grandma's family had a large population, which was even worse. My mother already had three older sisters who could do some work, and there was a younger brother who was regarded as a treasure by the whole family. She was the most unloved and redundant person at home.

My mother told me that when she was a child, she was often hungry and seldom had enough to eat. What made her sad most was that once she was so hungry that she secretly went to someone else's vegetable field to pick an eggplant to satisfy her hunger, but she didn't eat a bite, so she was caught and found a family. At that time, Grandpa didn't ask indiscriminately, but it was a beating to catch my mother, and my poor mother couldn't get off for days.

Mom didn't go to school for a few days, and she could only recognize some simple and commonly used words, which would not add up to more than 3 words. At that time, their family thought that it was useless for girls to go to school. It was better to do some work at home if they were raised by others in the morning and evening. Therefore, mother was naturally arranged to do housework, mow the grass in the mountains, feed the tender rabbits, and cook for the older ones.

Because of malnutrition when I was a child, my mother was very thin, her hair was yellow, and she never weighed more than 8 kilograms. Later, when she married my father, she gained a few kilograms.

My mother grew up in that year and environment, but I still want to thank my grandmother for giving birth to me. I think she is the kindest, most hardworking and greatest mother in the world.

My mother can't recognize a few words, and she has had enough suffering from illiteracy. When I was still ignorant, she lit a fire and used a small wood stick to draw words on the ground to teach me. She was my first Chinese teacher.

My mother is not strong. Because my father is ill all the year round, she shouldered the burden of the whole family with her thin shoulders, and used the money she earned from her blood and sweat, even her life, to provide me with education, and enabled me to receive higher education and realize her wishes and dreams.

My mother is very kind. She tears when she sees people suffering on TV. She is always ready to help others in the village. There is no one in the neighborhood who doesn't praise her. Now that I have worked, my mother is old. I won't let her suffer too much. I want her to live a happy old age.

This is the child raised by a loveless family, my mother.

I am particularly independent and will not ask for help. I firmly believe that I am self-reliant, I am independent in everything, I am not good at complicated interpersonal communication, and I feel insecure. No matter whether it is economic or emotional, it is difficult to establish trust with others.

My neighbor, when she was six years old, her mother died of illness. Soon after, her father got married again and rarely asked about her life.

When she was seventeen years old, she was often with a boy. They spent a winter secretly in an empty abandoned house. I don't know why they broke up.

Later, she married our neighbor and gave birth to her daughter five months after marriage. Her daughter grew up exactly like her. When she was in junior high school, she became pregnant. Her mother scolded her, "You are going to die!" Her daughter really drank the pesticide and saved her life after being rescued, leaving a serious sequela-stomach trouble.

People asked her how she brought up her child like this, and when the child had no choice, she said, "I didn't know how to grow up and what it was like to be loved, so I didn't know how to love my child."

It is difficult for a family that lacks love to cultivate a child who understands love.

Home is the harbor of mind and body, the soft hands of mother and the broad shoulders of father, the paradise for children to spoil and the haven of love.

When you are tired from work, you can relax at home. When you are wronged outside, you can go home and tell. Because, there are your parents at home to shelter you from the wind and rain!

A warm home gives children a sense of security, acquisition and happiness! The child's young mind is no longer lonely, and the young mind has attachment. Imagine a family without love, what will happen to children?

This reminds me of scenes ...

My nephew met a girl. My nephew is a hairdresser and the girl is a beautician. After two months together, the girl got pregnant and got married like lightning. Less than a month after marriage, two people began to quarrel, three days a big quarrel, two days a small quarrel, children in the parents' blood shed, in the mother's womb home gradually grow up. On the day of delivery, because of dystocia, the child was deprived of oxygen and stayed in the incubator for two months. At this time, my nephew and niece were afraid, and they didn't quarrel for two months.

The good times didn't last long. After the child was discharged from the hospital, the two men returned to normal. The little grandson grew up in the quarrel between his parents. He has a very bad temper. At a little time, if it didn't suit his heart, he would roll around and cry endlessly. I couldn't find anything. I threw things, jumped high, stamped my feet ... I couldn't send them to the kindergarten, and I cried for a whole month. I finally sent it in, playing small partners in small classes, and I didn't fit in.

My nephew said that he hoped that he would grow up quickly, so he would be sensible when he grew up. As everyone knows, children's growth is subtly influenced by their parents. Parents don't talk well, but they make a hullabaloo about as long as they talk. Couples do this, especially for children. How can children have a gentle voice? Nephew and niece don't realize the seriousness of their quarrel, and feel nothing. This family will always be smoky, without any warmth, warmth and happiness!

The child graduated from kindergarten in a large class, and the nephew and niece divorced, and the child was awarded to the mother. The child and mother have been renting a house outside for a year. Children become speechless, where to stare, cold, like a hedgehog, you can't get close to him, even if it is good for him, it hurts people.

The child is going to primary school at the beginning of the summer vacation, and his mother is taking care of him alone. I feel really out of control and I feel like I'm going to collapse! Mom and dad got remarried. After a year's separation, the two men were very happy to form a family again. My nephew redecorated the house, put up wallpaper, and my niece bought a beautiful chandelier and started her married life ... < P > I pray every day that their family will live with Meimei and never quarrel again.

The child is in the first grade, and he has to do homework every day. His mother's patience is running out again, and she starts to quarrel and scold her son. Dad couldn't stand it, so he and his mother started quarreling about their children again. The 7-year-old child began to resist, beating his mother, beating his father and swearing. Watching cartoons, he said that when he grew up, he gouged out his father's eyes, and he said that he didn't like his parents. They all beat him. Children are becoming more and more difficult to control, and they easily lose their temper, curse and cry.

nephews and granddaughters-in-law have no choice but to send their children to private schools once a week and let others take care of them.

Children accept their mother's emotions and emotions from their mother's womb home until they are 7 years old. All they feel when they grow up is the pain of their parents' cones and emotional language. But I can't feel the warmth of home, the care of love, and what kind of "cold" the child's young mind bears!

when my nephew, niece and I of each party complained to our little grandson, it was so difficult to control, so difficult to control, and there was really nothing I could do, my heart ached, and they all earnestly said to them, "If you want your children to be better children, you two should change yourselves. Be yourself first, and then take care of your children in the mode of love, especially talk to your children in a gentle voice. Let the children feel the warmth of home and the love of their parents. He lacks love too much! "

If nephews and granddaughters-in-law change themselves and warm their children's hearts with love, their children will be better. If they haven't realized how important they are to their children's growth, what will the children be like when they hit and scold like this? What kind of person will you be in the future?

American psychotherapist Parker pointed out: "Most mental diseases are caused by misunderstanding of team love or confusion of ideas. Love is not only the cause of many mental diseases, but also a good medicine to cure these diseases. " He went on to say: "The experience of family life often determines a child's view of the world. Children who grow up in a warm and loving family often regard the world as a warm and loving place. " Children who grow up in indifferent and hostile families "often regard the world as a place full of indifference and hostility".

Family is the place where the strongest, truest and most indestructible true love can be cultivated! However, the turmoil and disintegration of the world's families have left a painful legacy on many parties, especially children.

have you ever thought about the responsibility of "home" after we formed a new family?

dear reader, what kind of children will a family without love bring up? What do you think?

A loveless family brings up a child with a cold personality.

Parents are children's first teachers, and many children's behaviors are imitating their parents' behaviors. Children lack love in the family, that is to say, parents care less about their children, so children will not take the initiative to care for others.

A family lacking love is in the psychological conflict period when children establish basic trust and distrust. Whenever a child encounters difficulties or hunger, without the help and care of the family, the child will not have trust in family members, and he will go to the society in the future. He is suspicious of others and it is difficult to establish trust with others.

Every family should pay more attention to their children and let them grow up healthily!

What kind of children will a loveless family bring up? This situation varies from person to person. Children's personalities are acquired. Some children study harder and strive to change their fate, but some children can take the road of crime. The reason is that I am a single-parent family and lack care. In fact, some people think this is not the reason. Internal cause is the basis and external cause is the condition.