Girlfriend said. Do you think I am fair to you? Then she said, just say something and let me think for myself. What should I do?

Doesn't she love you? Can only say that love is equal. If she doesn't know how to cherish you until she loses it, you really have to think about it. Concessions and compromises will only make her pay less and less attention to your feelings.

In other words, she is suspicious of your indifferent attitude. If necessary, put a little pressure on her, occasionally make some demands on her and express your inner feelings, so that she will feel that you are seriously interacting with her.