The children's shopping mall "lost his temper" and the father and daughter stood face to face for three hours. Netizen: They are all vicious people.

For the current "4+2+ 1" family, children are not only the parents' treasures, but also the "heart meat" of the whole family. It is no exaggeration to say that if a family is compared to a pyramid, then the status of children must be at the top of the pyramid.

It is also in this "all-round encirclement" way that more and more "little emperors" and "little overlords" have emerged. These children lose their temper easily and are regarded as "Xiong Haizi" by others.

Some time ago, there was a video about Xiong Haizi on the Internet.

In the picture, a little girl stands in front of the counter selling Barbie dolls in the shopping mall and wants her father to buy her a doll. But the father told his daughter that there were many such toys at home and immediately refused the child. After that, the little girl suddenly burst into tears and shouted, "I don't care! I want it! " This has also attracted the attention of many passers-by.

The father looked at the little girl calmly and said nothing. It's useless for the little girl to cry. She simply "doesn't do two things at a time" and lies in front of the counter. Her two calves keep pedaling and crying, "I want it, I want it."

If you are other parents, you should either take your child home or buy something for your child to stop this "farce". However, the father in the video stood calmly and looked at his daughter. He takes out his mobile phone to play from time to time. The confrontation between father and daughter lasted for three hours.

When the video came out, it was madly forwarded and commented by netizens.

Netizen A: The father and the daughter actually scolded each other for three hours. It was really themselves. This stubbornness and persistence are exactly the same! In front of so many people, I can still lie on the ground calmly for three hours, and then I will be "successful".

Netizen B: I seem to see my Xiong Haizi. Every time I don't buy anything, I can't wait to find a crack in the ground when I cry in public. I think the father did the right thing, but he was indifferent to his daughter for three hours. He is a cruel man!

Netizen C: I think it is not enough to say that people are cruel. In this environment, they all spoil their children like everything. It's hard to say. They can't touch it either. Who can let their children hang in the market for three hours? Children are "vicious people", and fathers are a little more vicious. He is a werewolf.

There are more and more comments from netizens, and many of them share the "tragic experience" that was also cheated by "Xiong Haizi".

1) rejected.

In modern family structure, because parents are mostly busy with work, children are taken care of by grandparents or grandparents. But grandparents love each other more and more, and they can't wait to pick all the stars in the sky for their grandchildren.

In this "generational" environment, due to excessive "doting", it is easy to appear overbearing, unreasonable and grumpy "Xiong Haizi".

Therefore, when taking care of children, we should grasp the "sense of proportion", refuse unreasonable demands, and never spoil children endlessly in the name of love, because excessive doting equals harm.

2) Establish a family style

In the process of children's growth, what kind of atmosphere and family style is very important for children's character building.

It is not difficult to find that families with strict family style have a much higher chance of excellent children than families without family style. But the family style here is not to "restrain" children with the framework of dogma, but to set psychological "tracks" for children with the intangible power of family style, so that they can know what to do and what not to do.

While establishing a good family style, parents should also clearly stipulate to their children that violations of family style will be punished. This practice can make children have a sense of responsibility earlier and shape their disciplined and responsible character.

3) Teaching by examples

There is a saying that "if you want to train your child like this, parents must first become like this." In the process of children's growth, their enlightenment to everything begins with imitating their parents, and their every move reflects the real situation of their parents.

Therefore, in front of children, parents should set an example, help children to establish contact with everything in the world, help children learn to pay, be grateful and love imperceptibly, pay attention to their words and deeds in front of children, and remember not to use "violent strategies" even if there are contradictions and unpleasantness.

Raising children is a process of "moistening things quietly". Was your child a bear when he was a child? How did you handle it? Come and comment!