After a long time, I am unhappy, can there be a precursor to depression?

Yes, because people are dominated by emotions, few people can avoid facing everything rationally. If you are always unhappy, people will inevitably be affected by negative emotions, and gradually the whole person's state will tend to be negative, and the thinking and methods of dealing with problems will be more extreme, and psychological problems will arise after a long time.

My sister is a good example. Because I didn't go to school after graduating from junior high school, I went out to work at the age of sixteen. After nearly ten years, my sister missed the best age for her to get married, because when she was about twenty years old, she didn't even think about getting married or even falling in love, but my parents kept urging her to get married because girls her age had already got married and had children in the countryside.

Therefore, in those years, during the Chinese New Year, the family was not very peaceful. My parents have been planning to give her a blind date, but she didn't like any of them, so they quarreled. My sister cried several times, but the marriage has never been decided. It was not until she was twenty-five that she began her first love.

At that time, because both of them were not young, and the other seemed to be a very energetic guy, their marriage was settled, but after marriage, the true colors of the other party were revealed. He only knows how to play mobile phones, and he doesn't want to make money at all. He earns two or three thousand yuan in a small electronics factory, which is even a problem to support his family. Later, after having children, it didn't change.

My sister, who was originally a particularly cheerful girl, was actually turned into an dissatisfied wife by such a life, complaining in a circle of friends every day. I am really afraid that one day she can't bear such a mentality.