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First, don't chase horses, use the time of chasing horses to plant grass, there will be a number of good horses for you to choose from when spring blossoms; Don't curry favor with a person, use the time when you have no friends for the time being to improve your ability. When the time is right, a group of friends will accompany you. Friends made with human feelings are only temporary, and friends attracted with personality are long-lasting. Therefore, enriching yourself is more powerful than pleasing others.

Second, there is no perfect choice once and for all in this world. You can't have both flowers and fruits. You can't get all the benefits. You should learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can get something. You should learn to accept the deformity and sadness of life, and then, be calm. Because this is life.

Third, as many people like you, there may be as many people who hate you. No one hates you, which may mean that you have nothing to recommend. Distinctive personality often makes the person you like and the person you hate completely different. This is human nature: Excellence will inevitably lead to jealousy. All you have to do is move on. If you stop trying to prove yourself to them, you will lose your scenery.

Fourth, after a long walk, there is still no hope, so change direction; One thing, after thinking for a long time, is still entangled in my heart, so choose to let go; Some people, together for a long time, feel insincere, so they choose to leave. A living method that persists for a long time and still doesn't feel happy, then choose to change. Let go of the past and let the heart return to zero. ...

Don't ask why others don't like you, ask why others like you. How realistic this world is! Time, energy, resources and good mood are all so limited. If you can't give people spiritual pleasure and provide practical help, why do others like you? It's realistic, direct and cruel, but believe me, it's true.

6. Nothing can bind your hands and feet forever; No one can belong to you forever. So, as long as you have the ability to do what you want, don't wait and don't be afraid of failure; The love you want to give, as long as you think you can, do it boldly and don't leave regrets. Whether you like it or not, you must write, read, write and read the book of life.

Seven, mentality determines the realm, and mentality determines fate. It doesn't matter where you come from, what matters is where you are going. The most important thing in life is not where you stand, but the direction you want to go. People will never lose themselves as long as they don't lose their way!

Eight, you must remind yourself: let go of impetuousness and calm down to study; Let go of your greed and you will get what you lose; Let go of inferiority and believe in yourself; Let go of vanity and don't be self-righteous; Put down the seductive eyes and listen to your heart; Let go of your selfishness and learn to be grateful; Let go of your laziness, it's time to work hard. Encourage together!

In this world, good people are always bullied by bad people. You are sincere to others, but even so, we should not change ourselves. We can't lose our kindness and conscience. Life, whether poor or rich, is important for character and virtue. Even if you are rich, it is not for winning, but for peace of mind. The bad guys win, but the conscience loses.

Ten, this life, not for face, not for others, not for money, not for material, not for enjoyment, not for possession, not for work. It's for yourself. Only if you live a full, happy and happy life, then you will not walk into the dust with regrets when you die.

1 1. Really beautiful people seldom take selfies. Really rich people basically don't show off their wealth. Really loving couples don't need to show their love and send screenshots. When they really have fun, they don't have much time to send photos. People who are really happy don't need to show off their lives to others.

Twelve, when you feel that some things don't make sense, please tell yourself that you are just going the wrong way, just quit your job and go another way. When you feel unfair, please tell yourself that it is all kinds of unfairness in the world that will make you stronger. When you feel helpless, please tell yourself that what you need is not material help, but warm care. Nothing in the world is impossible. It's really impossible Take a step back.

Thirteen, the heart is only one punch, don't think too much. If you are wrong, you will not be able to suppress business. Many people are busy every day and accomplish nothing, but pay too much attention to trivial details. Rice can be eaten and sand can build a house, but the two are mixed together and have no value. To be pure, you can be happy.

Fourteen, the mood of this kind of thing, not because of things, but because of people. It is also suffering. It is very tiring to suffer alone, and it is sweet to suffer with the person you love. It is also rich, and it is very happy to have money with family members, and it is very sad to have money with people you hate. So it doesn't matter what you meet, the key is who is with you.

15. Life is not about compromise. The farther back, the smaller the breathing space. Life is not for making do. The more humble you are, the farther away some happy things will be from you. Some things, you don't have to put yourself too low, you should actively strive for what belongs to you; In front of some people, you don't have to tolerate it again and again. Don't let others trample on your bottom line. Only by standing up straight can the world give you more feedback.

Whatever happens, don't give up. Keep going, there will be unexpected scenery. Maybe it's not the road you originally wanted to take, nor the top of the mountain you originally wanted to climb, but another road has another kind of scenery, and different tops will also have beautiful sunshine. Don't forget the original road.

Seventeen, trouble yourself as much as possible, don't trouble others. Bear the joys and sorrows as much as possible and don't complain. Talent is not worthy of ambition, calm down and work hard; If you are too sad to control, then turn your attention to what you like. Don't talk big, don't seek a sense of existence, don't get along with yourself, you learn to get along with the world. -Lu Sihao