Half-life is over, be happier.

Half my life has passed, and we should be happier. In our life, when it comes to classic essays, I believe many people like to enjoy a classic essay slowly in their spare time and enjoy the beauty of life quietly. The following is a classic essay I shared for you, I hope you like it!

Half my life has passed, so I should be happier. Life has been rushing for decades, and we have all tasted the ups and downs.

Time flies, the sun and the moon fly, we often remember that things are difficult, but forget how to find happiness.

Wang Guozhen once said, "If you are not happy enough, don't frown. Life is too short, so why penance? "

Life is too short to leave too many regrets. In the rest of my life, may you and I be happier.

Don't be more than money, less than mood, ok?

Nowadays, people always feel too stressed. Blinking is all kinds of troubles: house, car, seat, ticket. ...

Afraid of falling behind others, afraid of being despised, chasing after me, panting.

When we are poor, we feel happy to have a luxury car; After having a luxury car, I feel that being worshipped is happiness; Finally, I got fame and fortune, but I still feel far from happiness.

Everyone wants to compare money and status with others, but rarely wants to compare happiness with others. Man's desire is like a bottomless pit. Getting it won't double happiness, losing it will only increase sadness.

Read such a short story:

There is a low-income person who wants to own a car very much. One day, he spent 10 yuan to buy a lottery ticket and won the grand prize at once. He was ecstatic and immediately bought a luxury car with the bonus.

After having a car, he polished it spotless and went out for a ride humming a tune every day. Unexpectedly, his car was suddenly stolen a few days later.

Afraid of his discomfort, all his friends came to comfort him. Unexpectedly, he said cheerfully, "What's the big deal? There are so many smallpox just now 10. I really earned it! "

Happiness is sometimes difficult, and the more you want it, the less you can get it; Happiness is sometimes simple. From another angle, the world will become pleasant.

Li Yinhe once said: "All those people who are unhappy in life, in the final analysis, don't really want to be happy."

In fact, there is never a lack of happiness in life, but a feeling of happiness.

Life has ups and downs, and when you are proud, you have the happiness of reaching the top; When frustrated, there is also the happiness of idle clouds and wild cranes. Worry is better than liberation, and sadness is better than happiness. If you can do this, life is full of scenery.

Take a good step and cherish the people in front of you.

Carnegie, a famous psychologist, once said, "Happiness is contagious. Only by making others happy can you make yourself happy. "

Unhappy people are often alone, while happy people always have family and beautiful girlfriends around them. Scientific research points out that harmonious interpersonal relationships are more likely to make people feel happy.

Some people always feel that their lover is not intimate, their children are disobedient, their friends are unreliable, and there is no one around who can make them happy.

Don't complain that people around you don't love you, think about whether you have loved them well.

The film "Family Suffering" tells a story like this:

An old couple who were about to get married suddenly divorced.

It turns out that in these decades of marriage, the wife has been enduring her husband's rudeness, insanity and male chauvinism, while the husband has never cared about his wife's feelings. Finally one day, the sad wife broke up.

Fortunately, in the end, the husband understood his wife's difficulties, began to correct his own problems, and took the initiative to make his wife happy, so that the family could get back together.

Life is like this. When happiness is before us, we always don't know how to cherish it. Wait until you lose it before you regret it.

People have lived for half their lives, and they should always know what is fleeting and what can really bring us happiness.

After all, fame and fortune are external things, and true feelings are the source of happiness. Get rid of your temper, put on airs less, be kind to people around you, let each other's feelings deepen, and even bitter days can become sweet.

From now on, be more considerate to your lover, spend more time with your children and be more tolerant to your friends, and your life will be happier.

Pleasing yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

A person who can make others happy must be very kind; A person who can make himself happy must be very smart.

As He Jiong said, "Making others happy is compassion, and making yourself happy is wisdom."

In the adult world, we are always living for others, but we forget how to make ourselves happy.

After marriage, my friend Xiao Nan became a full-time wife. Every day, she does housework, takes care of children and waits on her in-laws.

She once complained to me that her husband was getting colder and colder, and her in-laws suspected that she didn't make money. Even the children say that she is not as good-looking as her classmates and mother.

I glanced at Xiao Nan, with dark skin, plain face and old clothes from a few years ago, at least ten years older than his actual age.

I reminded her that it was time to pay attention to her image, but she asked, "I am at home every day." Who am I dressed so beautifully for? "

I told her: "Dress yourself up, not to show anyone, but to make yourself happy."

Later, Xiao Nan made up her mind to find a job and dressed beautifully every day. When she is free, she will make an appointment with her best friend to travel, get together, or report to class for self-study, and she will be more confident in speaking at home.

She said that she used to live in other people's faces every day and always felt depressed; Now I live the life I want and do what I want, and my life has become much happier.

Ah, you didn't come to earth to be a supporting role for others, but to make yourself happy.

Dress up not to show others, but to make yourself happy; Read more books not to make parents happy, but to enrich themselves; Working hard is not to satisfy the leaders, but to make yourself stronger.

It is better to please yourself than to please the world. Live well for nothing but to make yourself happier.

If you find life boring, make yourself interesting. If you think life is too hard, add some sugar yourself.

As San Mao said, "Eat a candy every day and tell yourself-today is really sweet."

There is such a passage in Anne of the Green Gables:

One day, I will grow old, too. Time has covered up my enthusiasm, but it can't erase my happiness. My wish is to be a happy girl now, a happy aunt in middle age and a happy old woman in old age-in short, have a happy life.

Life is like a mirror. If you are sad, it will be cloudy. If you smile, the sun will shine brightly.

Happiness has nothing to do with age, money and status. If you want it, you can get it by raising your hand. I can't reach it even if I don't want to.

Starting today, be a happy person. Let go of what doesn't belong to you and leave what really matters; Love the people around you and love yourself more.

I wish you every day in the future, don't dwell on the past, and smile more for the rest of your life.

Half-life is over, be happier. Classic English 2 0 1

People are always so contradictory.

When we were young, we longed to grow up. Happiness is a very easy thing. A game, a gift, a compliment from parents and a play between friends can all make us happy.

When we really grow up, we find that we have the freedom that we didn't have when we were children, but we also have too much happiness that we can easily get.

Because we want more and more things, we are more and more uneasy about the status quo, everyone is eager for the Great Leap Forward, and the standards of secular judgment are becoming more and more harsh. Looking back, we find that we have been fighting for fame and fortune all our lives.

Just like this journey of life finally reached the desert, we are reluctant to put down our heavy bags and have to struggle forward in a deep and shallow journey.

Because most people go this way, if not, they will fall behind.

02

Looking back, half my life has passed.

In fact, most of people's entanglements in this life can't escape the words money and affection.

The more you want, the less you get. The more you cherish it, the easier it is to lose it.

They are like a rope. The tighter you pull it, the easier it will break.

On the contrary, sometimes you relax and concentrate on your own actions, instead of asking you to achieve the inevitable goals in the secular world, so it is easier to get surprises.

Looking at the world from another angle, you will find that you have been busy for the first half of your life, constantly spinning in the entanglement, and there are too many beautiful scenery that you can't see clearly.

In fact, life is not lack of happiness with growth, but lack of feeling happiness with growth. Facing the sea, we can have spring flowers, facing the sun, we can have a sunny heart.

03

Put the gun down.

Let go of those people you can't get no matter how hard you try, and no matter how hard you pay, you can't gather feelings. When you have seen the results of this journey for your feelings, don't lie to yourself again. Just be a fool for once. In the later life, you will meet better people and know how to cherish your feelings.

Let go of those endless greed and useless complaints. What is needed to change the status quo is persistence and forbearance. Only by sticking to the direction you choose in a dull life can you meet real luck, instead of just talking and not practicing, just listening and not thinking.

Let go of the past regrets and regrets, let go of the present troubles and entanglements, half my life has passed, and I am happier.

Too much money and too little affection are not as important as your own mood.

San Mao said, "Eat a candy every day and tell yourself-today is really sweet."

Starting today, being a happy person, making life sweet and making yourself happier is the most important thing in life.