What do you think of "the poor don't go to their relatives' doors, and the poor don't look at their parents' doors"?

Literally, we can see the meaning: when people are poor, they don't often visit relatives, less relatives, and have married daughters. If you are not rich at home, you should go back to your parents' home less. In fact, this old saying is a bit contemptuous. Although there are many people in today's society, most people still attach importance to feelings and friendship. My personal experience can explain the problem. My husband's family was poor, and at that time I felt that I seldom went back to my family. Don't let the neighbors say that my daughter came to her house to collect things. However, my parents' brothers often tell us to go home, eat together and work together. Besides, my husband works hard and is skilled. Although the economic conditions were not very good at that time, they were not discriminated against and looked down upon. Instead, they began to get to know each other. We give full play to our strengths and strive together no matter what happens, but the relationship is getting better and better.