Is it stupid to almost be cheated by a married man?

Most women like mature men, and their charm is fatal attraction. Just like when I watched Dwelling House, many people said that although they knew it was wrong, they just thought that seaweed could meet a Song Siming. Many women said that if they were given a Song Siming, they might be unable to resist.

What's on this man? It's a feeling that makes women feel safe. No matter what problems you encounter, as long as he is around, you don't have to worry. They don't panic at first, and then criticize endlessly, just like boys of the same age. Many times, they even need you to carry it.

They won't be as playful as little boys, and they will make you feel desperate on your mobile phone every day. They know how to make you happy and how to satisfy you.

Of course, the best thing about such a man is that he can provide you with high emotional value and let you surf in the ocean of emotions that are sometimes happy and sometimes sad. How can the little girls stand it and give up after a few rounds?

But girl, you know, such a man also comes from a little boy and is cultivated by a woman with her youth. He has been through so much that he is invulnerable. When you were in love, he was actually enjoying hunting. When you put your heart and soul into it, he has already started to shrink back. When you were a moth, he had retired.

You can't win this relationship. In the end, he returns to his family unscathed, but you may lose everything and have nothing. Therefore, in the face of such feelings, be rational, ask yourself more if it is worth it, and let your little feelings that are eager to move slowly run. After all, if a woman makes a mistake in emotional issues, she may miss her life.

Just like the heroine Lin Xiao in our story today, she said that she had a disgraceful experience. At that time, she was possessed, and that stupidity also laid the biggest hidden danger for her life.

I hope all women can learn from this story after reading it.

02

Lin Xiao is 29 years old this year. In the eyes of the old people, she is old enough to get married, but she still thinks she is a girl.

In fact, Lin Xiao will not get married at this age, because she is excellent, beautiful and capable of working, so there are not many men who can really enter her eyes.

Just like her current boyfriend, Li Feng, who is seven years older than her, is a vice president of a company and a successful bachelor. But Lin Xiao just thinks that this man is not romantic enough, handsome enough and tall enough. It's not perfect anyway

A woman is a very strange creature. She always pursues a feeling called pounding in her feelings. If this man can't make her feel her heart beat faster, then no matter how good it is, but on the contrary, if this man can make her feel that her life is lit up, then nothing else matters.

Just like this man named Wei Qi, when Lin Xiao first saw him, he felt his heart skip a beat. That kind of feeling, he has lived for almost 30 years, and it is really the first time.

Qi Wei is Li Feng's college classmate. Lin Xiao has never seen him before. I just heard Li Feng often talk about this man, saying that he is a school grass. Many girls like him and say that he is very capable in all aspects. He has a project to cooperate with his company recently.

With this curiosity, Lin Xiao and Qi Wei met. He was dressed in a gray leisure suit that day, with a height of 1.8 meters and just the right figure, which made him exude a mature charm. Once a woman has a good impression on a man, she will pay special attention. After a meal, Lin Xiao found that this man is very talkative, but also very cute.

In this way, Lin Xiao felt that he had fallen. She always wants to see Qi Wei, so every time Li Feng gets together with him, Lin Xiao has to find an excuse to go. Li Feng also joked that Lin Xiao was really uneasy about herself recently and always wanted to follow the inspection. Lin Xiaoxiao smiled and said nothing. In fact, she knows exactly what she is doing.

After several times, Lin Xiao and Qi Wei became familiar with each other, added WeChat to each other, and became like friends. In fact, Lin Xiao really wants to communicate with Qi Weiduo, but she dare not. She can only look through Qi Wei's circle of friends over and over again, looking at those few photos, letting the little bud in her heart invade at will.

03

In fact, Lin Xiao is a sensible woman. She knows what to touch and what not to touch. Especially after she saw the photos of Qiwei with his wife and children, she knew that she must be rational. However, when she wakes up at midnight and hugs Li Feng, her heart will still pass the smiling face of that man. It must be comfortable to hug his solid chest. The smell he gives off is disturbing to think about.

Every time I think about this, Lin Xiao feels shameless, but I still can't help but think of Qi Wei. She even felt that if she could have a vigorous experience with Qi Wei, there was nothing to regret.

But ah, Lin Xiao is really thinking. After all, she couldn't see what Qiwei was doing to herself. Although she thought he would care about himself and have other things in his eyes, Lin Xiao was really afraid that it was just her own romantic feelings. Also, Lin Xiaoyou has another concern, that is, Li Feng, who is no longer a little girl, understands that it is not easy to meet such a man. If she makes a move, she may end up losing both sides.

In this way, the days passed by. One day, Li Feng suddenly said that she would go abroad to do a project, which would take more than three months. After Lin Xiao heard it, he didn't know why he first thought of Qi Wei. She held back her heart and said to Li Feng, "Well, I will take good care of myself." Li Feng went on to say, "If you have anything, you can ask Qi Wei for help."

Hearing this, Lin Xiao felt his heart skip a few beats, and his face turned red in an instant. She quickly said, "Why bother others?" She bit the word "others" so tightly that she didn't know what crime she had committed.

After Li Fenggang left, Lin Xiao arranged many things for himself. She hopes to enrich her life and not let herself have any bad ideas. What she didn't expect was that Wei Qi took the initiative to send a message to herself: "Little girl, if you have anything, remember to look for me and don't mention it."

Lin Xiao felt numb and his heart beat faster. At that moment, she knew she was really finished. It is such a sentence that can make her so reluctant to stop. She thought for a long time and replied, "All right."

After sending it out, she felt her face burn, which really sounded like a spoiled little girlfriend.

04

After that day, Lin Xiao began to rack his brains to find an excuse to get close to Li Feng. Are you sick? Dating for dinner is too melodramatic? There is no reason. Is the home appliance broken? Too deliberate. How can I look casual but just right?

Finally, one day, Lin Xiao accompanied his client to dinner, and the client kept asking Lin Xiao to drink. She wanted to refuse, but suddenly she thought of Wei Qi. So, that day, she let go and had a drink. At about the same time, she sent a message to Qi Wei saying that she was drunk by a client. Can you put him on the phone?

A few minutes later, Wei Qi's reply came: "Find me and I'll be there soon." This sentence makes Lin Xiao feel warm. When everyone walked out of the hotel together, the customer wanted to cater to Lin Xiao, who saw Wei Qi not far away at a glance. She trotted over and stood beside him. Everyone joked with Lin Xiao: "Who is this handsome guy?" Lin Xiao, why didn't you introduce it earlier? "

In everyone's booing, Lin Xiao got on the car of Qi Wei. She secretly glanced at the man around her and suddenly hoped that he could really rely on himself.

Lin Xiao downstairs, Wei Qi stopped the car. Lin Xiao blushed and said, "Thank you. Do you want to go up and sit for a while? " She felt Qi Wei stunned, then smiled and touched her head and said, "I'm still in a meeting. I'm off duty. You go first and call me if you need anything. "

It's Lin Xiao's turn to be cold. She suddenly wakes up a lot and is ashamed of her impatience, but Qi Wei's actions and words make her unpredictable.

Looking at Wei Qi's car leaving, Lin Xiao's heart is very complicated. She doesn't know what Qi Wei thinks of herself, whether she thinks she is a particularly casual woman, or what Qi Wei thinks of herself. Is it just the affair of a dissolute son? She had a sleepless night after she went back.

Lin Xiao originally thought about not contacting Wei Qi, but he couldn't help sending him a message the next morning: "Thank you for last night. Invite you to dinner some day. "

Wei Qi immediately replied with a hug expression pack.

05

More than half a month passed, and Lin Xiao didn't contact Qi Wei again, but when having dinner with some friends, I heard them mention Qi Wei's name.

Those friends don't know the relationship between Lin Xiao and Qi Wei, but only say that famous men in this circle are merciful everywhere, especially hooking up with women. It is said that what he is best at is talking to women in all kinds of intimate tones, asking you all kinds of questions, and he especially likes sex, which makes you want to stop. He also said that many women around him were on the road, abandoned after his success, and even paid the price for him.

Lin Xiao felt a twinge of tightness in his heart. Yes, Wei Qi's "girl" is really fatal to her. He touched his hair and said that "call me casually" was also the cause of Lin Xiao's destruction. She didn't want to believe this man, because he rejected himself when he could have succeeded that day, but she had to believe everything everyone said.

After returning home, Lin Xiao was in great pain. Just then, she received a message from Qi Wei: "Are you free this weekend?" A friend invited me to visit XXX Resort Hotel. Would you like to relax with me? "

This message confirms Lin Xiao's thoughts. This man is really playing with himself. Now, irrepressible, he will start to pick up the line. It was love rat who didn't take the initiative and refused to be irresponsible, so the slag didn't leak a trace.

Lin Xiao replied to him: "Forget it. When Li Feng comes back, you can take your wife and we will go together. " After receiving this news, Qi Wei also quickly replied: "Ha ha ha, well, let's talk about it later."

At that moment, Lin Xiao had no desire for this man. She just wanted to slap herself, because she was so shameless that she had an idea for a married man and almost fell into the trap of love rat. Fortunately, she heard those rumors in time, otherwise she would not only lose Li Feng, but also make herself a bitch that everyone spurned.

06

Since then, they haven't contacted each other, and Li Feng will come back soon. He brought a big diamond ring to Lin Xiao and proposed to her. Lin Xiao promised him excitedly. She was glad that she didn't slip into Wei Qi's trap, nor was she stupid enough to let Li Feng know about it. She feels really lucky to have such happiness today.

Soon, Lin Xiao married Li Feng, but Stephy didn't come. Lin Xiao doesn't know why in his heart, but he is particularly uneasy. One day after marriage, she happened to see Li Feng chatting with another friend on the mobile phone.

The friend asked, "What do you think, knowing that your woman is interested in him, can you still fulfill it?" You are really selfless. "Li Feng replied," isn't this just a chance to test? This test is just right before marriage. "

Lin Xiao saw a cold sweat. She finally understood that she had seen through his intention of uniting Wei. He also knows that Wei Qi is just a love rat. Instead of exposing him, he tried to lure himself into a trap. If something happens between himself and Wei Qi, he will definitely not want himself again. With his conditions, it is ok to turn around and find another woman, but if he doesn't, he can rest assured that he is a self-controlled woman.

Lin Xiao was frightened by Wei Qi's wily calculation. She felt as if she had been stripped naked and embarrassed, but now she is riding a tiger. Lin Xiao especially regretted being so stupid and thinking of posting a married man. She should know that those amorous married men just want to take advantage.

What worries Lin Xiao most now is that she doesn't know if Li Feng really loves herself, so she doesn't care, or because she is the most sensible about her feelings. What she fears most is that in the later days, Li Huifeng will retaliate against herself for this matter, or at some point, take it out. Lin Xiao dare not think, also don't want to think. All she knows is that she will spend her whole life making up for her mistakes, which are her own sins and deserve it.

07

After listening to Lin Xiao's story, I feel sorry for this woman, because I think she is stupid, stupid and pitiful. From beginning to end, she thought she was smart, but she was actually a plaything of two men.

Let's start with Li Feng. If a man really loves a woman, he can't be so sensible to test. The reason why he did this can only show that Lin Xiao is dispensable to him. It's good to have a good result, but it doesn't matter if he doesn't get it. Moreover, his indifference is only a manifestation of indifference. In the later days, his indifference may be the reason for his derailment, and Lin Xiao's careful thoughts in those days may also be an excuse for his derailment.

Let's talk about Wei Qi. He is a typical love rat who is good at dealing with women. He can grasp the weakness that all women like to be loved and cared for, and provide them with high emotional value, so that they are willing to pay. I believe Lin Xiao must not be the first woman that Qi Wei hooked up with, let alone the last one. Therefore, all women must be cautious in the face of this seemingly warm man who is actually a central air conditioner.

Finally, let me talk about Lin Xiao. I think she is really stupid as an anthomaniac, but I also admit that this is a common problem of many women. When she met the person who moved her, all her senses were forgotten and all her IQ was zero. At this time, they will not consider whether this relationship is moral or not, nor will they consider the consequences. And these women, the final result is often betrayal and regret.

Therefore, I want to remind all women that no matter how much they like it, married men should not touch it, because 99% of men who can hook up with you under the condition of marriage are just for fun. Even if you are lucky enough to meet that 1% person who is sincere to you, the final result will not be much better.

Besides, don't think the man around you is a fool. Most people are sensitive to changes in their other half. He hasn't left now, not necessarily because he loves you, but maybe it's just the wrong time. Every deviant thing you do is to lay a mine for yourself.

Marriage needs to be aboveboard and needs everyone's blessing. The happiness you stole from others will eventually be returned. Even if it is not discovered by others, your future will not be too smooth. Don't ruin your life's happiness because of temporary greed. Many times, women can have no feelings, but they can't be famous. If she doesn't want to make herself miserable all her life, don't be silly.

Heart is the stupidest thing to let heaven stain his love life when he goes to hell. Remember, never.