What if parents spoil their grandchildren too much?

Your parents dote on your son? Well, I'm in the same boat, and so are my parents!

But then again, how can grandparents not love their grandchildren? It's just that they only know that they love their grandchildren and are good to them, but they ignore the disadvantages of doting on their children!

Now, let me tell you how I persuaded my parents and educated my children.

One: raising and raising should be separated!

They all want to raise children. In fact, a little attention should know that raising and education are completely different concepts!

What does raising mean? To put it bluntly, it is the same as raising pigs, chickens and fish at home, but it is only fat.

So what does education mean? This kind of education can be very learned! Education is education! Let children know what is good, what is evil, what is beauty and ugliness, what is propriety and decency, what to do and what not to do, how to do this and how to do that. ........

Our parents' doting on their grandchildren is only the most basic and simple stage of raising them. They may not have the concept of raising and raising at all, and simply think that being good to their grandchildren means raising. For example, many grandparents will hold schoolbags for their children when they pick up their grandchildren from school. They would rather pick up the garbage thrown by their grandchildren in the trash can than reprimand their grandchildren for forming the habit of putting garbage in the bucket. This is that they don't know how to educate their children correctly, and they don't know the importance of letting children establish correct values from an early age!

In view of this situation, I deliberately sat down with my parents and had a formal talk, explaining in detail the difference between raising and not raising, so that they could know that what they are doing now is only raising grandchildren. If they are sterile, their grandson will grow up to be a cripple who can't live without grandparents and parents, and can't stand a little wind and waves!

Two: It's your father's fault that you don't teach.

It's my father's fault for not teaching! This sentence comes from Saint Amethyst. I knew it when I was a child! But I really don't have much time to educate my children now!

I have to work six days a week, go out at seven in the morning and usually get home at eight in the evening. My wife is as busy as I am. In the past, we left our children with our parents, slept at home most of the weekend, and had no time to accompany them, let alone educate them. Later, I gradually found that my parents loved their children too much, and I realized the seriousness of the problem, and I remembered that I was the father of the child and had an unshirkable responsibility for his education!

After talking to my parents, I began to educate my children seriously.

I told him that grandparents and parents can only teach you life skills, so you should take care of yourself in the future! For example, in the future, I will carry my schoolbag and wash my clothes myself, and no one will feed me when I eat. .........

Usually, the two words I say to him the most are "myself": go by yourself, do it by yourself, think by yourself, take it by yourself and go by yourself. .........

Although he cried badly at first, after more than a year of "torture" by me, he has gradually learned to be independent, and his parents no longer dote on him.

Finally, I wish you find the most suitable way to solve the problem as soon as possible!