Chen Qingling: Jin Zixuan cannot escape the law of true fragrance, his love is worth savoring

"Zhenxiang" is a popular Internet term, which refers to a person who makes up his mind not to do something or to do something, but his final behavior is completely opposite.

Originally derived from the cruel words uttered by the urban protagonist Wang Jingze in Hunan Satellite TV's "Metamorphosis" when he first arrived at a rural home: "Even if I, Wang Jingze, starve to death, I will die outside. Even if I jump from here, I will not eat you." A little something." Later, he was slapped in the face and even said "it tastes so good" while eating.

Doing something after vowing not to do it reflects a psychological state in which the expected thing and the final result are completely different. "Chen Qing Ling" is also a representative of the true fragrance. It has never been favored or criticized, but has been urged to update by the whole network. It has made many keyboard warriors and fans of the original "true fragrance".

And the only love roles in this drama - Jin Zixuan and his senior sister (ahem, this drama also took great pains to pass the review, let's not drag those hot brotherhood into love), Jin Zixuan's feelings for his senior sister are also a model in the true fragrance industry, and they are well deserved. From being disgusted to death to confessing loudly, it also attracted the majority of drama fans to call "true fragrance". Many people are confused as to why Jin Zixuan suddenly confessed to his senior sister.

Love is never blind, everything can be explained. Today we will analyze the heart of little brother Jin Zixuan and find out the truth about his "really fragrant".

Let’s first talk about Jin Zixuan, a man with extraordinary appearance and outstanding abilities. He was born in a fairy sect like the Jin family, and his family is extremely wealthy. Therefore, he is arrogant in character and is known as the golden peacock. But He is kind in nature, upright, has a strong sense of justice, and hates evil as much as he hates it.

The jealous little eyes

We can see from the words he often said when he went to the Wen family for training, he was not completely protective of himself.

Although he is in a high position and has been praised since he was a child, he does not like those who follow others' influence and trample on their thoughts. This is evident from the way he would speak up for those around him who came from humble beginnings.

When Jin Zixuan first met his senior sister, he was very repulsive to Jiang Yanli. He didn't care about the engagement. Even after renting an inn, he didn't let Jiang Yanli and his friends stay. The mention of an engagement, regardless of the fact that everyone would laugh at Jiang Yanli, showed that he did not acknowledge the engagement at all, and that he did not take Jiang Yanli seriously.

Thinking about his individual attributes, Jin Zixuan was very angry that he could not make the final decision on this marriage contract designated by his parents. He was already arrogant and did not want others to decide for him. She was about to get married, but she was hinted every day, intentionally or unintentionally, "You must marry her." The teenage boy was impulsive and arrogant, venting his dissatisfaction on his dislike and dislike of his senior sister.

At the same time, the senior sister's performance was indeed difficult to arouse Jin Zixuan's interest.

From the first whispers discussed between the two female disciples of the Jin family, we can know that among the many female disciples of the Jin family, the one that Jin Zixuan most affirms and approves of is girl Mianmian, and what kind of person Mianmian is. girl? Smart, just, brave.

During Wen's training, Mianmian would remind him to pay attention to his words, and would bravely stand up to explain to Jin Zixuan.

When the noble sect slandered Wei Wuxian, Mianmian would take off his immortal robe and say, "I won't join such an immortal sect."

It can be seen that Jin Zixuan The girls you admire must have some temper, justice and courage, but the senior sister when they first met was cautious, weak and timid, which really made Jin Zixuan indifferent.

Generally speaking, at this time, Jin Zixuan was, firstly, dissatisfied with Jiang Yanli because he rejected being the one to decide the marriage contract, and secondly, he was really indifferent to Jiang Yanli's character.

There were no ups and downs in getting along with Jiang Yanli when he was a student. After Wei Wuxian canceled the engagement due to the big fuss, Jin Zixuan felt a little more comfortable, at least not so angry with his senior sister. Later, he also had peace with her during the siege. The support among the senior sisters.

During the period when he and other immortal sects were encircling and suppressing the Wen family, Jin Zixuan felt that Jiang Yanli was at least an honest person and did not stalk him. However, when he slightly adjusted his When making judgments, the soup incident occurred (Jiang Yanli brought soup into his tent, and Jiang Yanli also said that she had made the soup in the past). Was he going to stalk him? He also takes credit for other people's work and takes it upon himself.

At this time, Jin Zixuan was disappointed with his own judgment, and also disappointed with Jiang Yanli's behavior. She turned out to be a woman who would trample on other people's thoughts at will just to show her good intentions, so Jin Zixuan Xuan lost his temper and said, "Please respect yourself."

And when Mianmian told the truth, he was slapped in the face again. It turned out that he had misunderstood and wronged Jiang Yanli, and he felt guilty about this, so he had a compensatory mentality. , you will feel that you have misunderstood and wrongly blamed others, then your cognition and emotions towards that person will become more complicated, and you will unconsciously worry about that person more in your heart. Because when you feel guilty, you have a strong psychological compensation mechanism for that person, and because of your own inner conflicts, such as blaming yourself for wronging others, you need to reduce your own blame on yourself by affirming and caring for the other person.

And what if this misunderstanding makes you realize that this person’s shortcomings are actually entirely your misunderstanding and misjudgment, while the real situation is an advantage from the other side? It will completely turn into a reversal from dislike to love. Jin Zixuan originally thought that Jiang Yanli was hypocritical and showed off, but the truth was actually the complete opposite. It turned out that she had been doing it silently and never said it out loud. It was not utilitarian. If he hadn't caught him, he might never have known about it. Jiang Yanli didn't argue or explain after being insulted by him. Therefore, Jin Zixuan began to turn around.

After the Wen chaos subsided, when the Jin family hosted a banquet for various immortal families, Sect Leader Jin mentioned their marriage again.

At this time, Jin Zixuan originally looked at Jiang Yanli differently out of a compensatory mentality, and was a little more willing to accept the marriage out of a compensatory mentality. However, the Jiang family actually rejected the marriage. Brother Jin Zixuan once again discovered that the Jiang family had no intention of clinging to him, and that Jiang Yanli's kindness to him was not just for the sake of following the trend.

After getting rid of those inherent prejudices, he once again thought about Jiang Yanli's personality. She cared about him very much and gave silently without asking for anything in return. Although he made this girl look embarrassed and sad again and again, he still Miss Jiang, however, holds no grudges. She is such an open, thoughtful and extremely gentle girl.

In fact, both liking and disliking come from a person's characteristics. For example, a boy may be very arrogant. After being in contact with him for a long time, we find that this person is actually very kind and warm. Hate or like, often just when this person appears one-sidedly around you, whether the advantages or disadvantages are discovered first is not complete and objective.

Dislike or like are both excessive concerns. If we don’t pay attention to a person, how can we hate it? The real lack of attention is indifference. When the knot of the disliked person’s heart is untied, or the original From another perspective, the shortcomings turn into advantages, and excessive attention will lead to liking. There is a thin line between dislike and liking.

What really impressed Jin Zixuan was when Jiang Yanli showed unprecedented bravery and neither humility nor arrogance when the Jin family held a hunt.

On the day of the hunt, one-third of the prey on the entire Baifeng Mountain was taken by Wei Wuxian. Jin Zixun used Wei Wuxian to hunt so much that the other 5,000 people had no prey to hunt. , blaming Wei Wuxian for being the son of a domestic servant, having no rules and being too arrogant.

However, when everyone gathered around to insult Wei Wuxian, Jiang Yanli stood up and said, "I ask you to apologize to Wei Wuxian." (The original lines are very long, very exciting, and not disrespectful of etiquette. , and reprimanded her legitimately for saying such things about my brother. (See Chen Qing Ling, episode 25)

When Mrs. Jin advised her that this was the matter of the people they were hunting, and that she should leave it alone, Jiang Yanli said, "For others to insult him, it is not a trivial matter to me."

Jiang Yanli not only took on the role that the Yunmeng Jiang family should take, but also reasonably and bravely safeguarded Wei Wuxian's dignity. , she is not a weak woman. This time, Jin Zixuan saw a certain side of himself in Jiang Yanli and things he did not dare to do.

It is conceivable that although Jin Zixuan is a great and upright person, there are times when he does not dare to be angry or speak out when facing his father. He often needs to be submissive to his father. He knows that he is a A just person cannot be so brave every time, but Miss Jiang safeguarded the justice in her heart and protected her brother in front of so many people.

This time he knew from the bottom of his heart that Miss Jiang was not just a submissive person. He also knew that Miss Jiang was not a person who couldn't argue. It was just that she didn't want to argue many times. He also knew that Miss Jiang was not someone who couldn't argue. Miss Liao Jiang is also a very emotional person who does not distinguish between superior and inferior. Whether it is her younger brother or a domestic servant, she will always protect him.

He saw himself in her, saw the parts of himself, and also saw the parts of himself that he expected. Therefore, Jin Zixuan fell deeply in love with Jiang Yanli, which was the fundamental reason why he was able to be honest about his feelings later on.

Before this incident, even though he knew that he liked Jiang Yanli, he was still like a proud child. When he invited Miss Jiang to join the Lanling Jin family’s private hunting ground, Jiang Yanli When he refused, he just asked angrily: Do you not like to see hunting or do you not like to see me? If you don't want to come, forget it.

I gave you a chance to get close to you and get to know you again, but you still don’t appreciate it. Forget it if you don’t, but after Jiang Yanli asked Jin Zixun to apologize to Wei Wuxian, Yunmengjiang Shi said not to disturb everyone, and when he left first, he loudly admitted and said, "I wanted you to come."

Each of us hopes to see our existence in this world objectively. , when we meet someone who thinks what we think, values ??what we value, and reacts the same way as we do in different situations, we not only experience a strong sense of closeness, but we also see, through this person, Own. When you find that all of the beliefs, values, qualities, characteristics, and behaviors that define who you are are expressed in another person, you have a sense of recognizing "yourself" in her.

I wish everyone can meet their own love and see a better and braver self from another person.

(This article was first published on Toutiao)