Grandma always scolds me and puts pressure on me.

It's wrong for your grandmother to do so anyway. Not the way to educate children.

It's not that you can't scold, at least you shouldn't scold so badly. Your father didn't say anything? Not to say that you can't beat and scold children, at least to some extent. How can grandma scold her granddaughter like this?

Try to reason with her and communicate with her well. For example, tell grandma that I know I'm wrong and I'll change it later. You can also point it out. Tell grandma I'm hurt that you called me that, and tell her not to call me names. Even the granddaughter scolds her like this. Isn't it more terrible for others to make her angry?

I was scolded by my mother once, and it was very ugly, but it was not her own mother who scolded me, but her own quality. When she scolded me, I told her that you can scold me for everything else, not those ugly ones, but that's her quality and personality. She also said while scolding, you told Lao Tzu not to scold like this, and Lao Tzu insisted on scolding like this. This is a terrible curse. I still remember what happened when I was a child. It really hurts. When I was a child, I was beaten and scolded, but I think it hurts more to scold those ugly things than to beat me. There is no way to change this. I'm a mother now. If a child makes a mistake, I will beat him, but at most, I will beat him, not spank him. Don't scold children, because scolding hurts more than beating, leaving a psychological shadow.

You are still 14 years old and have to go to school. Bear with it and live on campus in the future!