My wife failed in IVF for the sixth time and has spent hundreds of thousands. Do you still want to stick to it?

Don't force it, children follow fate, or adopt. How do you feel that your focus is on spending hundreds of thousands, not that your wife has suffered so much after doing it six times?

Personal experience: Six IVF failures, physical and mental trauma. My ex-husband left me after my sixth failure, leaving me with a woman with her own children ... Anyway, I suggest you not to be like my ex-husband. As for persistence, I don't think it is necessary. Being a man is not the purpose of life, but self-cultivation. I personally don't like it.

As a test-tube mother, I want to say two things. First of all, from your wife's point of view, six times and hundreds of thousands are completely different. What she has done as a test-tube mother is beyond your imagination as a husband. Six test tube failures are indescribable harm to her health, and the man only contributed a little sperm. In addition, she has to face the pressure of her in-laws and the indifference of outsiders. I guess your wife is on the verge of collapse, too. In the process of making test tubes, I witnessed many failures. My husband filed a divorce directly in front of the doctor, and my husband's family accused me on the spot. The real society is so wonderful. Whether a family has children or not, it is the woman who ultimately causes infertility. So when you proposed to spend hundreds of thousands, you wanted to give up psychologically. As an experienced person, I suggest you put aside economic reasons. If husband and wife can't get along, it's better to give up before it's too late. If couples have a good relationship, it is also good to spend the rest of their lives together. If you are still obsessed with children, let your wife live and live well.

As a woman, I sympathize with your wife.

Let me talk about my own experience. Married 12 years, never pregnant. Laparoscopy, water supply for one year and test tube once all failed. At that time, he was treated in Wuhan People's Hospital for three years. The diagnosis given by the doctor is bilateral tubal obstruction, immature uterus, and there is basically no possibility of pregnancy. So I had to give up diagnosis and treatment, but I was still unwilling. After running in the hospital for more than ten years, I was heavily in debt. To save my marriage, I adopted a baby girl. Five years later, because I got pregnant unexpectedly, everyone thought it was a miracle. When I gave birth to my son at the age of two, I was pregnant with twins. I am now two men and two women. So don't give up easily. God will work miracles. At that time, the doctor diagnosed my naive uterus. Since both fallopian tubes can be pregnant, they can be pregnant naturally. Therefore, you can't believe everything the doctor says. Sometimes you have to have it in your life, and you have to insist on it all the time Now every time I see someone else's infertility, I think of what I suffered in those years. That's the real complaint, fear of being teased by others, fear of wasting money because of failure, and fear of not wanting to have children. Now, a group of children are around me, and it is hard and happy to take care of four children by one person.

[Sandra smiles] Six times ... Adjust yourself physically and mentally, and come back later. I think I'm under too much pressure. I remember who it was. Zhang Ting seems to be 1 1 time. If you have a son, you will succeed. If there is no fate, you can only accept it calmly. It's definitely harmful to your health, but if you can have a baby, I'm sure your wife will also be willing. Motherly love is great. As for money, it depends on your family situation. If you are in debt and can't stand it, just be alone. On the other hand, you may be happy without children.

The same thing, comforting others can find 10 thousand reasons to convince each other. When such a thing happens to me, a million reasons can't explain myself!

Whether you are sad for money or for your wife, give up! When you ask this question, you actually have the answer in your heart. When you see the same answer as you think, you want to ask and get some satisfaction!

I have lived for decades without children, and that kind of life, I think, is similar to knowing that I will be buried underground in a few decades. Why should I study, work, get married and start a business?

There are only two options. If you feel heartache for your wife, you should make plans for Dink. Money for his wife's heartache.

Close your eyes and ask yourself before you make a decision!

Persist, after success, you will feel that no matter how much money, no matter how much suffering, and having a slowly growing child in your stomach, it is worth it!

I have done it many times and finally succeeded. I will make more money. In more than half a month, my calf will be born, which I think is worth it.

In fact, I think this question is amazing, because one of my former colleagues has done IVF three times and failed. The two people basically gave up this idea, but after a year they naturally became pregnant. Finally, the hospital experts made an explanation about pregnancy, and whether the mentality of both parties is relaxed still has a great influence on this result. Simply put, it means aiming, not stimulating. What should come will come eventually!

Please give your wife a hug and comfort.

Wife first

First of all, my wife is lucky and has suffered a lot of pain that you can't understand. To comfort her is to suffer for you. If you have no children, she doesn't have to work so hard.

Second, help my wife block all the outside ears. It is not terrible that the test tube is unsuccessful. Not having children is not terrible. The human heart is terrible.

Finally, live in the present and comfort your wife.

If you really can't, just adopt one.