I hate my mother-in-law What should I do?

I think you can look at your relationship with your mother-in-law from another angle, which may be better. You hate her very much, which only proves that your mentality is not good enough. I suggest you adjust your mentality, such as the following, which may improve your aversion to your mother-in-law:

1, be tolerant of your mother-in-law. I think this tolerance is respect and filial piety for the elders. When two people have some life frictions, it is not easy to tolerate with love. It's not easy to think about being a family. Only when your mother-in-law brings your husband into this world can you be happy. Think about it, no matter how annoying her mother-in-law is, you can tolerate and endure.

Don't expect too much from your mother-in-law. It may be how good the mother-in-law of many girlfriends is, and what kind of mother-in-law do you want. I think everyone has their own choices. Your mother-in-law doesn't have to be kind to you and devote herself wholeheartedly to your small family, so you should be grateful if she does well. If she doesn't do well, don't be demanding!

3. Strengthen communication with children as a link. Have you talked to your mother-in-law? What's your relationship with her? I think you should get married after being in love with your lover for so long. How can you communicate less with your mother-in-law and want to have a good relationship? I heard many people say that the relationship between the child and the mother-in-law is much closer after birth, so I suggest you take good care of the postpartum, communicate with the mother-in-law more, express your thoughts and increase the feelings of both sides.

4. Keep a proper distance from your mother-in-law. On the one hand, we should strengthen the contact with our mother-in-law and enhance our feelings, but we need to relax our feelings. Oh, you're too close to her, it's easy to catch fire! Any intimate feelings are prone to conflicts, and friends can slowly bridge the gap through time or something. Mother-in-law will be more painful. Don't say nothing because you have a good relationship with your mother-in-law. This is a big no-no.

Treating elders needs sweet words and sugar-coated shells. Girls with sweet lips are always particularly popular, and I think people who praise others are also very popular, especially middle-aged and elderly people. For your mother-in-law, you can praise your husband more, that is, praise her, spend holidays and buy something your mother-in-law needs. These little details will be seen by your elders.