"Don't treat your mother-in-law as your own mother." I hope your mother's blood and tears can help you understand the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Why?

Before every girl enters the door, I believe that her mother-in-law will make such a verbal promise to you or her in-laws: Don't worry, I will treat you/your daughter as my own daughter.

How many naive girls take this sentence seriously and regard their mother-in-law as their own mother. However, whether this is the case or not, it is really a difficult lesson for every family.

What is the most obvious difference between mother-in-law and mother?

One is to joke with my mother or play a little temper, and the next day it seems that it never happened; You and your mother-in-law are both like this, and your performance is really varied.

Every child is the apple of his parents' eye, so it is inevitable that children will joke with their parents or lose their temper. When you lose your temper with your mother, maybe before the next day, her mother will take the initiative to make up with you and prepare delicious food for you, as if nothing had happened.

But unlike her mother-in-law, if she lives with her mother-in-law, it will inevitably lead to disputes with her mother-in-law, especially those girls who are outspoken, always say something irrelevant, the speaker is unintentional and the listener is interested. Your fleeting words are deeply branded in the mother-in-law's heart. Even better, my mother-in-law will think that you are a child and will not care about you.

If you can't hide anything, you will immediately complain to your husband and his son. At this time, the husband who makes sandwiches will have a steady stream of strength; There is also a kind of mother-in-law, who will keep all these bits and pieces in mind and wait for you to pay them back twice one day.

Just like my mother-in-law, I am also a straight-tempered woman, and sometimes I say what I want to say. I always feel that my mother-in-law will not take it to heart. After all, after all these years of marriage, we all know each other's temper.

But I was wrong. I quarreled with my husband before the end of this year. In fact, the source is a trivial matter. I was in a bad mood and wanted to vent. This is the first time I have quarreled in front of my mother-in-law.

Unexpectedly, when quarreling, my mother-in-law actually stood up. She stood in front of her son, pointed at me and listed all my "crimes". I don't know when many things happened.

I was shocked at that time. When I said I wanted to go home, my mother-in-law immediately told her son that you should take her home. It's a shame to quarrel like this. My whole heart was cold at that time.

On holidays, I never prepare gifts for her, especially on Mother's Day and birthday. I didn't expect it, but I'm ashamed.

Second, girls can chat with their mothers, but can their mothers-in-law?

Girls always need someone to talk about their true feelings. Before they get married, they always tell their mother that she will give you advice and suggestions from people who have experienced it, and sometimes make suggestions and decisions for you.

But after marriage, sometimes because of time, place and other factors, many girls will choose to talk to their mother-in-law.

Really, you are so naive. You underestimate the strength of your mother-in-law. While listening, my mother-in-law may give you some simple answers, but she doesn't know how to laugh at you.

It's just that you don't know anything, and you have a good time talking to her every time. There are even more outrageous mothers-in-law who will share your thoughts with family or friends.

In fact, my mother-in-law just didn't regard you as her family, otherwise she wouldn't be unaware that this is the truth that it's a dirty linen in public.

Third, buy things for your mother at a low price and your mother-in-law at a high price.

Every time I buy something for my mother, my mother blames us when she asks about the high price.

Blame us for wasting money. Don't buy any more. Her reproach is from the heart. She is always reluctant to use some things she bought for her, and will always keep them for a long time.

This is mom, always trying to save money for us, so the price of buying things for mom is always low, so that mom can eat them in time.

If I buy something for my mother-in-law, if the price is low, her mother-in-law won't say anything to me, but when she turns around, she will tell others that you see my daughter-in-law earns so much money and always buys us cheap goods, and she always wonders if I have bought all the good things for my mother.

Sometimes if you are not satisfied, just take over and put it away for a long time. Therefore, when buying something for my mother-in-law, I really should quote a price to make her feel that she deserves it.

Counting the difference between mother-in-law and mother, it can really be said that for three days and three nights, unmarried girls, what her mother-in-law said to you before marriage is really only 30% credible. Nothing is good. In the event of a war, my mother-in-law will tell you your "crime" in detail, and sometimes she really doesn't know how she died.

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China has often been a hot topic for many people after dinner. There is always a wall between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and that wall is your husband and her son.

Although her son married a daughter-in-law, there is actually another woman who shares her son, so you are her enemy. Don't believe her "lies" that will treat you as a daughter.

Because all this is without the conditions of war, once you touch the interests, you are an outsider.