How to actively chat with girls

Take the initiative to chat with girls to deliberately misinterpret, thick-skinned, push-pull humor.

1, deliberately misinterpreted

First, let's look at a group of dialogues:

Woman: Have you eaten?

Man: I did, but now I'm hungry when I see your fleshy face.

W: Do you think my skirt looks good today?

Man: Oh, if you like me, just say so. You don't have to wear a skirt to attract me.

This is a typical deliberate misinterpretation of girls' meaning in chat, just like flirting at ordinary times, which can make girls' mood get good ups and downs in chat. When you hint that she likes you, the girl will subconsciously think that she is pursuing you, not you.

2, the skin is thick enough

Since ancient times, beautiful women love heroes, so when chatting with girls, we can also play a cheeky "hero" role appropriately. If you want to pursue a girl you like, you must be bold, cautious and thick-skinned. Next, let's take a look at this group of dialogues:

Woman: Do you think I'm beautiful?

Man: beautiful people never say they are beautiful, just like handsome me. They never say I am handsome.

Woman: That suit of yours doesn't suit me very well.

Man: I'm so handsome and my clothes still fit, so I won't give other boys a way out.

Appropriate narcissism can make girls know you better, and your handsome appearance can attract girls' attention instantly. After all, few boys can praise themselves so unscrupulously, and girls will think you are special, and they will also have a curiosity about you, so they want to know you more.

3. Push-pull speech

If you want to improve your relationship with the girl you like while chatting, you can try pushing and pulling. For example, when chatting, don't just please, you can belittle girls appropriately.

For example, "the oil on your face can be used for cooking." At this time, the girl's mood will definitely fall to the bottom. When you want to refute you, you should pull the girl back in time and say to her with a cheeky smile, "but this still doesn't affect your prosperity and beauty." For such naughty you, the girl will definitely laugh and cry, but what is certain is that you must have gained a lot in her heart.

4. sense of humor

Interesting souls are one in a million. The most important thing to chat with the girl you like is to have a sense of humor. Humorous chat atmosphere can solve many unnecessary embarrassment and easily take a cold picture.

Therefore, when chatting with girls you like, honest people should prepare more funny jokes or expression packs, and use them in time when necessary, which will make girls feel that you are a humorous person. Of course, using these skills all the time is not the way. Only by learning and growing up, can girls feel your humor all the time and make her happy, which is a long-term solution.

Matters needing attention

1, keep the mystery

Mystery is a necessary condition to maintain feelings, so chatting with girls, in order to avoid always talking to death, we should keep the mystery properly when getting along with girls, don't let girls fully understand you from the beginning, and don't let girls get too close to you. The only condition for you to be closer is intimacy.

2. When she was snubbed.

When a girl begins to like chatting with you, or when you chat every day, she will be more enthusiastic, indicating that she has begun to get used to your existence. At this time, if you want to impress a girl more deeply.

Or when you are testing whether a girl likes you or not, you can give her a proper coldness when chatting, and go back after three or five minutes when you reply to your mind, or occasionally sell her a pass to see how worried she is, so that you can know her feelings for you.