Are there any ancient poems that can politely refuse a person?

China has a long history of 5,000 years, and many ancient cultures are circulating, especially Hanfu, Guzheng, ancient songs, ancient poems and so on. Many people are curious about how poetry was used to express rejection of something in ancient times. Bian Xiao found the following ancient poem for everyone to enjoy:

Ode to women

Year:? Tang author:? Ji Zhang

You know I have a husband and you want to give me a pair of pearls.

Affection is lingering, and it is tied to a red mattress.

My tall building rises from the garden, and my lover holds a halberd in the bright light.

Knowing that your heart is like a bright moon, your husband vows to live and die together.

Return your double beads, my eyes are full of tears, and I regret not meeting you before I got married.

This poem was written in the Tang Dynasty. Zhang Ji, a poet, was a man with political opinions, and Li Shidao was one of the envoys of Pinglu self-cleaning at that time. He wants to win over Zhang Ji, the great disciple of Hanmen. His position of advocating unity and opposing separatism in political participation is consistent with his teacher's, and this poem expresses the meaning of refusing Li Shidao's seduction, and writes a famous article, which gracefully shows his refusal attitude. If we only look at this poem on the surface. This poem is a love poem. Its main meaning is that you know I am a married man, but you still have to love me. This gentleman is not the first person to pay tribute. What I mean here is a little condemnation. This poem is full of folk songs, and some descriptions are psychological depictions, which make people feel infinitely tortuous, implicitly expressing their position, but will not make the other side disgusted.

Later, many people like to use it? Tears return to Zhu Xuan, when you hate, don't marry, right? This poem expresses oneself, likes each other, and is ambiguous about it, but because I already have the other half, I have to refuse it euphemistically, and it makes people feel very affectionate. Every time someone sees this poem, there will be a sad feeling, and some even have it. If we are single, will there be a better ending, which will make people have infinite reverie? This poem is also very good.