A woman grows up without a home.

1. In the original family, there will also be a feeling that it is not your own home

A woman may have three homes - her natal family, her husband's family, and her own family.

A girl who grew up in a divorced family has her parents start separate families after their divorce. Her father has a home and her mother has a home. She has no home of her own and feels that she has no real home of her own.

Fathers are the guides for children’s external interactions as they grow up.

In the original family, if a girl can get the love of her father when she is young, she may feel happy and more confident.

With father's care, girls can learn how to get along with the opposite sex, know how to interact with others, and be able to get along with others confidently in their future lives.

Girls will not have a home when they grow up. I hope you will never understand this sentence. What does it mean?

If you are not treated well by your mother's family, this habit will turn into a behavior of learned helplessness, which will lead to an inferiority complex. No preferential treatment will be given.

You have to have a good relationship with everyone before you can feel like you have a home, but it is difficult for people without self-confidence to have a satisfying home.

A family is not a home without the support of brothers and sisters.

After a girl gets married, she will always be a guest when she returns to her parents’ home. If there are older brothers or younger brothers in the family, and the parents believe in favoring sons over daughters, they believe in raising children to provide for old age.

Once you get married, even if your parents are still alive, your natal family will think that you are "the girl you married and the water you threw away" and that you are an outsider. If you marry without your parents' consent, you are eloping and you are no longer a member of your natal family.

After the death of his parents, he became an outsider in his elder brother and younger brother’s family. Because the sister-in-law and sister-in-law who marry into the family are their mistresses, and your natal family has no chance of being with you.

Learn to have others in your heart as well as yourself.

As long as you can be financially independent, it doesn’t matter what your natal sister-in-law or sister-in-law says.

The important thing is to know how to take the overall situation into consideration, "when people are united, the mountains will move", help brothers and sisters if you can, and give money and strength if you have money. If you can't help, you don't have to force yourself. You don't have to try your best to influence the family, and you can't let others think that you are a relative if you have money, and you don't need to kiss if you don't have money.

Get along as harmoniously as possible, and you will still feel like home.

2. The husband’s home is not his own home, it is the home of his father-in-law and mother-in-law

In the past era, no matter how powerful the daughter-in-law was, there was nothing she could do if her unreasonable mother-in-law provoked her. . The most important thing now is to support a family by yourself without affecting your parents' family or your husband's family.

Don’t seek good from others, nor blame others for their badness.

In your husband’s family, if he thinks they are all one family, you should have everyone in your family. Your mother-in-law and sister-in-law also think that they must have what you have, and what they have is yours, which means they approve of you.

If they have something for each other but not you, they will treat you as a guest and an outsider, and you will feel like you are not your own home.

But if you look at it from another perspective, in such a family, you don’t have to be picky, and you don’t have to be too frugal in entertaining guests. It’s important to live your own life well.

A person who is independent-minded and can endure hardships and run a small family can live a good life. Let the other party handle the affairs of the other party's family, try not to interfere or interfere, not for the sake of the husband's family.