Mother-in-law prefers boys to girls, and her thoughts are more traditional. How can she get along with such an old man?

Although the mother-in-law is a bit patriarchal, but the mother-in-law is not the most critical factor to determine the happiness of the family. Superstition is not very important. Superstition is generally used in special things and has little influence on daily life. Mother-in-law's preference for sons has two small effects. First, whether there are boys in the next generation; Second, for young couples, can a bowl of water be flat? Let's solve problems one by one, and then we can live together.

If the mother-in-law is right, she is wrong, or there is no right or wrong, then it doesn't matter if she listens to her mother-in-law. Marriage is good, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good. Other people can't have the same idea about everything. Many times, in some small things, people can get along more smoothly. Everyone has shortcomings. A mother-in-law who prefers boys to girls may have other shortcomings. Understand others and be kind to yourself, and marriage will be happier.

A sleek, sleek husband can always convince his mother. After all, the son's opinion has a great influence on the mother. If you have any different opinions with your mother-in-law, you might as well talk to your husband first to see which side he thinks is right. If you are right, it is better for your husband to communicate with your mother than with your wife.

Understand that the mother-in-law is an elder after all, she is right, we listen; That's not true. We can choose to ignore it. There is a little preference for boys, in fact, just calm down. Speaking of it, the husband is the son of her mother-in-law, and the daughter-in-law is still an outsider after all. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a worldwide problem. I don't want a good reputation, I don't want to be impressed by my mother-in-law, I just want to live up to my conscience, be a kind person, and try my best to understand my mother-in-law's shortcomings. At this time, the husband, as a lubricant between his wife and mother-in-law, plays a very important role, which depends on his personality.

Have a heart-to-heart talk with your mother-in-law. If you want to solve the problem of having children at home, you should let your family know some benefits of having boys and girls. Only in this way can the family gradually open their hearts and maintain a peaceful attitude! Some old people think that girls are useless and are afraid that there will be no one to support them in the future. In fact, this is a traditional concept of raising children to prevent old age, so to solve this problem, we must let the elderly know that girls can achieve great things, and show them some books by strong women, and they will gradually change their ideas.