The ex-girlfriend sent a message saying (love is patience and kindness). What does this mean?

Love is patient and kind; Love is not jealous, love is not boastful, not arrogant, not doing shy things, not seeking its own benefits, not getting angry easily, not being evil, not liking injustice, only liking truth; Always tolerate, always believe, always hope and always endure. -Blessed are those who listen to Jesus, and there will be peace, joy and satisfaction. Paul said from the beginning that love is patient and kind. A sister listened to the radio and heard our church service. She wrote to me and said, "Pastor Paul, I heard your message about suffering last Sunday. I don't think you know what you are talking about, because you have never tasted anything in your life. You've never really been hungry. You often have enough clothes and live in a comfortable room. But I was poor when I was young. " Wearing it on us makes us feel ashamed! In order to avoid being laughed at by others, I go to school from the back alley every day. When my father couldn't pay the rent, we had to sleep on the street all night. Pastor Shi! Do you know what suffering is? Only I know what it's like to sleep on the street with an empty stomach and shabby clothes. "Yes, I always eat well, wear warm clothes and live comfortably. In fact, this sister doesn't know that everyone will suffer, but this is not the case. Some people have to suffer on an empty stomach, which is very miserable! Some people will suffer from inner emptiness, which is even worse! Some people have a backache, and every step will hurt clearly; For many years, I have been unable to stand up and be a human being, which is a very tragic suffering. Others suffer from heartache, which is more tragic than back pain. Occasionally, young men and women come to me and say, "Reverend! I have been in pain for many years. I've been looking for a woman to marry me for half my life, but I haven't found one. I'm really bitter. "Other young people said to me," I have suffered all my life because I found an evil woman to marry me. "Some people suffer because they can't find a place to live. Others suffer because they don't know how to get along with others where they live. I hope everyone can see this tonight. We are always suffering, but everyone has different ways. Thousands of people, whether Christians or people of other religions, whether they know peace of mind or have tasted the grace of God, are suffering. Suffering by itself will not make us Christians. (2) Patience, Paul said, "Love is patience. Love makes you "endure" indefinitely. There is no comma after the word "patience" in the original Bible, but some people think that love is enough patience. I've had enough, even holding my fist in front of God and saying, "God! All right! That's it! I can't take it anymore! "Many years ago, an elder of my church came to my office to talk to me. He seems to be getting angry. I asked, "Jimmy! Where is your trouble? " He raised his fist and threw it at me? The face said, "Reverend! I've had enough! There is nothing I can do about this son! He refused to do what I asked him to do. He always comes back late when he goes shopping at night. I don't know where he goes or what he does. He comes back late every night. Yesterday I finally said to him,' Son! If you go out tonight, I hope you will come back within a certain time. I explained to him that if he didn't come back within a certain period of time, I would lock the door and he would find another place to live! Reverend, my son didn't come back last night. I don't know where he went, but he didn't come home at my appointed time. After waiting for over half an hour, I decided to get up and lock the door. He's gone forever. I don't know where he went. "What's the matter with the theology of the elder? He is a clever and good man. He knows the Bible, and he thinks his patience with his son can stop at a certain stage. Of course he knows that a teenager will have many problems. 17-year-old son and 40-year-old father will have different views on things. Young people sometimes have rebellious and disobedient psychology, but he thinks he has the right to say, "I can only put up with this son's rebellion so far!" "Do I have the right to tell God that I have endured to a certain extent, and then I will stop? You can notice that the elder has forgotten God's love. That was not the case. God's beloved son can say that I can only stop here, but we will do as much as God wants us to do. I have no right to decide where to tolerate it. Maybe a week, a month, a few years or even a lifetime. (3) I can't describe kindness until now. The true form of Christians. Paul finally added: "Love is kindness". Please note that the word "kindness" does not exist alone in the Bible. " Kindness and patience are linked. It seems that kindness points to the source of suffering and patience. It is not enough to say that God's love is kind. We want to see God's love and hope. Should we kick him at this time? The Bible says, "No! If your enemy is hungry, give him food. If he is thirsty, give him water to drink. " (Luo. 12: 20) If you are really a disciple of the Lord, be kind to your enemies and those who make you suffer. "In the era of Jesus, Palestine was ruled by the Roman Empire. At that time, there was a law called "one mile law", and Roman soldiers had the right to demand it. People in his jurisdiction work for him. Soldiers have the right to order a person to immediately put down his work and provoke a burden to let him walk. But the soldier can only let that man walk with him for a mile. At the end of a mile, he must let the man go back to his original place to work. But you can imagine how much Jews hated this law at that time, and Jesus taught them a lesson. ...