There is no bad marriage, only …

Some people say that marriage is the grave of love; Some people say that marriage is the palace of love; More people say that marriage is a besieged city. People outside the city want to go in, and people in the city want to come out.

Married people advise unmarried people to be cautious and think clearly when they get married, because the life after marriage is too difficult. Unmarried people are afraid to face the disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the disharmony between husband and wife, and the disobedient and sensible children after marriage.

The combination of forest and forest has led to an increasing divorce rate in recent years. According to statistics, the divorce rate soared to 39% in 20 17, and the single population exceeded 200 million. In other words, more and more people are single, and married people are slowly returning to being single.

But I want to ask: Do these single people really want to get married so much? Don't want to start a small family of your own? I really don't want to know, there is a person who loves each other, supports each other, knows the cold and knows the heat?

In the morning, someone across the table is talking and laughing with you, eating breakfast and welcoming a beautiful day. After work in the evening, we can hold hands to discuss which hot pot bottom material is good and which dish is fresh. In the dead of night, I have some intimate words to say. Turn around, and you will see TA beside you.

I believe that most people want to have a harmonious and happy marriage and family.

I have read such a story: A man named Song Ge loves his wife Mujie very much, and he is willing to do anything for her so that she won't be wronged at all.

In the process of getting along after marriage, Mu Jie became more and more arrogant and bossed you around all day. Drink water and wash underwear; Don't touch the mop in the kitchen; Brother Song didn't prepare dinner, so Sister Mu didn't eat a bite. Flowers in Song Ge don't like to be embarrassed for several days; You AE wants to go back to his hometown. MuJie in a bad mood, determined not to go back. ...

Brother Song became more and more depressed, and Sister Mu didn't notice her husband's state at all.

Until one time, you AE was on a business trip and didn't come home until two in the morning. Mu Jie went to work the next morning and asked Song Ge to drive him as usual. You AE was so sleepy that he said, "Wife, take a taxi."

"That won't do," said Sister Mu. What if I'm late? "

Song Ge said, "Then take a bus."

Sister Mu said, "I don't want to take the bus." Then drag Song Ge out of bed anyway.

You AE blew it up and said, "What are you doing? Why can't you understand me! "

Two people had a big fight, which was too much. Sister Mu didn't expect you AE to do this to her. She couldn't accept it, and it was endless. You AE couldn't apologize again and again, and finally he was desperate and said he wanted a divorce. Sister mu is more anxious. She said she had to leave.

The marriage was impulsively divorced under the anger of Sister Mu.

Sister Mu soon realized the seriousness of the divorce. Yes, Sister Mu regretted it, but thinking about the days in the previous marriage, Brother Song relented and resolutely refused to remarry.

Song Ge later met his present wife through blind date. You AE was afraid of his wife's coquetry at first, just like the last marriage, and he didn't dare to be too nice to his wife.

Let her go by herself after work and cook and wash clothes for two people. If she has any requirements, he should weigh them. It is no longer like before, when a wife says a word, she will die without hesitation.

But slowly, he found that women are too different from women.

The wife is very clear now.

You Ge bought her some delicious food, and she rubbed your back while eating happily. Song Ge brought a health care instrument to his mother-in-law on a business trip. She will choose a coat for her mother-in-law next time she goes shopping. Brother Song picked a thorn for her when she was eating fish, so she peeled the apple and cut it into small pieces for him to eat.

Anyway, you AE is kind to her, and she will give him two or three points back.

The married life after remarriage is happy, and this marriage is completely different from the last one. The last one is the gradual imbalance between princess and servant. This time, you come and go, cherish each other.

So he was very lucky to marry his present wife. This marriage has given him ten times as much happiness as before.

It can be seen that it is not a problem of marriage, but a problem of getting along with two people in marriage. Two people who will get along in marriage can always make a difference in life.

I have heard a saying that married people often say: but it is not as people who have been poor together know.

In today's society, everyone is under great pressure. Mortgage, car loan, parents' pension, children's education

If you ask what TAs want most, it should be getting rich overnight.

Can money make marriage happy? I don't think so!

Sister X has been married for more than ten years. She went out in a luxury car, wore a diamond ring, hired a nanny at home, and kept the company public. Such economic conditions are not bad!

But if you think that such a marriage has nothing to worry about, you are naive. Sister X's husband is busy managing the company, and Sister X has no other big pursuit, so life is very leisurely.

People are too sentimental when they are free.

Sister x thinks that her husband doesn't care about himself and is not good enough. Emotional for three days, and make a scene if you don't agree. Everyone around you is persuading Sister X that your husband is so busy managing the company that the environment is not good now. It's hard for the company to run, which makes Sister X more considerate. I also advised Sister X to take some classes or learn some skills. In short, I want to keep myself busy and have something to do.

Husband and wife should understand each other and tolerate each other. Everyone's energy is limited. You want your husband to work hard outside to improve his material life. Then at the same time, you should understand that he works overtime and often travels without company.

If you don't find a way for two people to get along and give you a lot of money, you still feel that there are other places that are not good enough and not satisfied.

Two people who get along well in marriage, every bit of happiness is reflected in life. It has nothing to do with money and marriage age.

F just graduated from junior high school and worked for two years, and then married her boyfriend naked. Both of them have just joined the work, and they have no room, no car and no savings.

I gave birth to my eldest daughter in the first year of marriage and my youngest daughter in the third year. F husband's salary is not high, F works in a small company, and his salary is used to supplement his family.

However, such a young couple live a steaming life in their marriage and live in harmony. In the daily life of F's family, F's husband sends F to work in the morning, his eldest daughter to kindergarten and his youngest daughter to grandma.

After work in the evening, F will pick up the eldest daughter and the youngest daughter, let them watch cartoons in the living room, and then cook, wash vegetables and cook. F's husband will take his two daughters to take a shower when he comes home.

When F was cooking, F's husband had almost finished bathing his daughters. At this time, F will take a mobile phone and take a warm video of her husband bathing and dressing her daughter. A family of four stutters when eating. F's husband will feed his youngest daughter and pass water to his eldest daughter. While eating, F talked with her husband about the interesting things that happened during the day and the growth of her daughters.

Perhaps the economic life also made the young couple F have difficulties, but the marriage life taught them how to support each other and understand each other. This kind of marriage makes people feel more energetic and hopeful.

The quality of marriage is actually the quality of two people getting along. In other words, there are no bad marriages, only couples who don't know how to get along.

Just like some people say that smart phones are not good, because of the emergence of smart phones, people covet mobile games, play mobile phones without restraint, and stare at mobile phones for a long time, leading to myopia or various eye diseases.

Can this push the problem to the mobile phone? Similarly, two people who don't know how to get along in marriage can't manage a marriage well. Can they blame the problem on marriage?

Everyone will find it difficult to establish a marriage and family. Actually, life is bitter. There is a paragraph on the Internet: Is it bitter? Tired? That's right! Comfort is for the dead. Although this is rough, it is not rough; But being tired is not an excuse for us to escape. We should face it bravely and create a new life.

Man is a gregarious animal. As long as we live in a group, whether it is family, school or work, we will have different views and different views with the people we come into contact with. Often at this time, we will continue to communicate, seek common ground while reserving differences, so as to achieve harmonious coexistence; What is needed in marriage is this spirit of cooperation.

Gorky said: Marriage is the combination of two people's spirits, and its purpose is to overcome all difficulties and hardships in the world.

As long as two people are together, understand each other, work hard together and grow up together, such a couple has never had a bad marriage.