The 6 actresses who are not liked by their mothers-in-law each have their own difficulties. Many of them are disliked because of their fertility problems.

The hottest topic in November is "Wang Xiaofei and Big S officially announce their divorce."

But if the fate of the couple does not really come to an end, no one wants the family to break up and the children to grow up in a single-parent family.

Big S categorically filed for divorce and replied: "It takes a day to freeze three feet."

It can be seen that she is really "dead".

In this marriage, there must be conflicts between husband and wife, but the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law mixed with it gave her even more headaches.

When Big S and Wang Xiaofei were in love, her mother-in-law Zhang Lan nodded in agreement for "Beauty Jiangnan" to enter the Taiwan market.

Big S wanted the wedding to be kept low-key and secret, but her mother-in-law Zhang Lan revealed the details, which eventually caused chaos.

Big S eats vegetarian food all year round to maintain her figure, but her mother-in-law Zhang Lan, in order to continue the family lineage, forces her to eat meat until she vomits.

When the elder S had a seizure and was admitted to the ICU, her mother-in-law Zhang Lan was not in a hurry and only posted the good news about the birth of her grandson online.

This is how conflicts accumulate over time. They will not disappear just because you don’t care about them, nor will they become less just because you tolerate them. It will only eat away at your "bottom line" day by day.

Unable to bear it, Big S finally filed for divorce. But even so, the "ex-mother-in-law" Zhang Lan did not let her go, and even intensified her efforts. On the day when Big S officially announced the divorce, the "ex-mother-in-law" conducted a live broadcast online for 8 hours.

A bright-minded friend said bluntly: "While despising others, while using traffic, the popularity of divorce has been exploited to the extreme."

A marriage, from deep love to sweetness, All you need to get to where you are is a "mother-in-law".

Not every relationship can go to the end, nor can you achieve happiness by being famous and rich.

No matter how famous an actress is, she will still feel aggrieved in her marriage when faced with her mother-in-law, who is "naturally a head taller" than her in terms of status.

This woman with a haggard face and tears streaming down her face may look familiar to everyone.

She was once a model known as "Kobayashi Chiling". Although she participated in some variety shows and MV shootings in her early years, she disappeared in a "whoosh" before she could become famous.

But now, she has taken on a more famous identity as a "star sister-in-law" - Lin Zhiying's wife.

Chen Ruoyi, a 20-year-old model who just debuted, met the big star Lin Zhiying at a car show. The crazy pursuit from her idol made her, as a young fan, dizzy with happiness.

When the two were deeply in love, the man's parents beat them up. But after experiencing setbacks, they finally got married and gave birth to three children.

In the eyes of outsiders, these love stories are romantic and happy, but she said: "I regret it a little."

Lin Zhiying's parents did not agree from the beginning. They thought Chen Ruoyi hooked up with Lin Zhiying for money and resources, and ordered her son to break up.

After the 30-year-old "good boy" Lin Zhiying obediently broke up with her, he begged her to come back behind his back, so Chen Ruoyi had an "underground love" with him without any recognition. This conversation lasted for 5 years, until Chen Ruoyi gave birth to her child.

If a marriage is not equal at the beginning, it is destined to not be smooth in the future.

Sure enough, Chen Ruoyi's life after her marriage was like walking on thin ice.

In order to become a good wife and mother as her mother-in-law said, she quit the business and opened a restaurant and gave birth to three children.

Her life revolves around her husband and children every day. Except for running a restaurant, which gives her some respite, in her 20s, she can only sit at home and do housework in a disgraced state.

Every time her mother-in-law comes to the house, she is most afraid. She is most afraid of hearing her mother-in-law say: "This place is not clean, it is not good to eat here, and the clothes you are wearing are wrong."

Everywhere in the house, from head to toe, will be picked on to perfection. She thought: "Maybe what my mother-in-law said was not something bad, but that Chen Ruoyi, the daughter-in-law, was not good.

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The more I care, the more nervous I become, and the more nervous I become, the more scared I am. Although Chen Ruoyi, who was once glamorous and beautiful, is now known as the "Sister-in-law of the Star", she shrinks in front of the camera and completely loses her luster. She Her face is full of the exhaustion and helplessness of a middle-aged woman whose marriage is unsatisfactory.

When shopping with her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, she is always a foil, carefully trying to please them, but she still ends up being disliked.

She is even more afraid to go out with her husband. When she first fell in love, she was ridiculed by fans for being "too ugly with her buck teeth." Now she is even more afraid of being photographed with her husband and being criticized.

On a variety show with her mother-in-law, Chen Ruoyi cried nervously and said: "It would be great if I were just Chen Ruoyi. After becoming Mrs. Lin, I was under a lot of pressure and could easily collapse. "

The most feared thing in a marriage is losing oneself.

Today, in the name of love, we are humble and forbearing.

But after many years , do you have any doubts about who you are living for in this life?

This year, the most "lamented" actress is Michelle Reis

Just in April. , Li Jiaxin's 103-year-old mother-in-law, Mrs. Xu, passed away, but before she could enjoy the joy of her daughter-in-law becoming a mother-in-law, the bad news came that "the 40 billion inheritance was finally lost." Xu Jinheng and his wife could only receive 2 million in pocket money every month. Money.

Li Jiaxin, who was once known as the "most beautiful Hong Kong sister", used her beauty to commit crimes when she was young. She was the most hated actress among wealthy ladies. She fell in love with the playboy Ni Zhen when she was 16 years old, and she was an underground man for 13 years. Lover, and has repeatedly intervened in the families of married wealthy people.

Compared with the "rich harvester" Guan Zhilin, Li Jiaxin is a game lover, but she has a clear purpose of "marrying a wealthy family". /p>

However, it is not easy to get into a wealthy family. Li Jiaxin, who has a rich love history and worships money, is exactly the type that Xu Jinheng's parents hate the most. Therefore, Li Jiaxin, who wants to be the daughter-in-law of a wealthy family, does not have a very comfortable life after marriage.

This "rich family mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" drama has begun before they get married.

Mrs. Xu said: "I don't agree with the breakup. "

Li Jiaxin turned around and pulled Xu Jinheng to register secretly.

Mrs. Xu said: "When you enter my house, you must kneel down and offer tea. "

As a result, on the second day of the wedding, Li Jiaxin refused to come to the door.

Mrs. Xu said: "Hurry up and have a baby. "

Li Jiaxin publicly stated that she maintains her figure and is considering surrogacy.

Therefore, judging from the early "battle situation", her daughter-in-law seems to be slightly better.

Li Jiaxin handled her husband well, and the Xu family's parents felt sorry for their son, so they could only admit it by pinching their noses.

But soon, the situation suddenly changed, and Li Jiaxin's "not having children" angered her mother-in-law.

Mrs. Xu made it clear in anger: "If you don't want to have children, get out of here. "

At this time, Li Jiaxin suddenly realized that the arrogance and showoff in the past were completely vulnerable to her mother-in-law, who was "naturally taller than her". What's more, this was a "life and death power" that determined their economy.

After recognizing the situation, Li Jiaxin quickly changed her battle plan, being flexible and humble.

In order to please her mother-in-law, Li Jiaxin learned painting and wine tasting. Kneeling down respectfully to serve tea, she went to give birth to her son honestly.

Finally, Li Jiaxin's efforts paid off. She got the approval of her parents-in-law and was qualified to attend official events in the name of daughter-in-law. During the holidays, we can go back to the Xu family's old house for a reunion.

After the grandson was born, the parents-in-law were so happy that they spent 5 million from their own pockets to throw a "100-day banquet" for the grandson and rewarded Li Jiaxin with 100 million yuan.

Everything seems harmonious, warm and happy, but is this really the case?

What Li Jiaxin never expected was that after the death of her father-in-law Xu Shixun in 2018, 40 billion He arranged all the inheritance into a family trust fund, and with a monthly pocket money of 2 million yuan, she was about to cry without tears.

Once her dream of being a wealthy family was shattered, she was unwilling to change. I place my hope on my mother-in-law, Mrs. Xu.

Li Jiaxin behaves as a more virtuous wife and mother, serving her mother-in-law at first and taking care of her son at second. She also shows affection to her husband every day. It can be said that she is exquisite in all aspects.

However, her mother-in-law finally passed away, but her will remained unchanged, which made many people feel sorry for her.

Years of hard work have come to nothing in an instant. Is it worth it to stay down and be small all these years? The unspeakably complicated emotions are probably only known to her.

After all, ginger is still old. For Xu Jinheng’s parents, who have seen intrigues in shopping malls and conflicts between wealthy brothers, family inheritance is the most important. The eldest son died young, the younger son was lustful and lustful, and the only daughter-in-law Li Jiaxin was ambitious, so of course the old man had to be careful.

So, of course, Li Jiaxin's "abacus" completely failed. Although the daughter-in-law of many years has become a mother-in-law, she still has to live in the shadow of her mother-in-law and will never be able to turn over.

On the road of life, the temptations of fame, wealth and wealth are constant, and everyone has the right to pursue them.

Sometimes, shortcuts are a good way to success.

But although the road can be walked, it is not easy. It's not yours, and you can't take it away no matter how delusional you are.

The fundamental reason is that her "road to seeking a child" is too difficult.

Lin Yichen, known as the "God Harvester", married second-generation rich Lin Yuchao in 2014. When they got engaged, Lin Yichen said happily and sweetly: "I will have a football team in the future."

As soon as the words "have more children" came out, she was happy when her husband's family was happy, and her fans were also happy to see her happy. Unfortunately, no one expected that six years had passed and she hadn't even given birth to a child.

Seeing that she was approaching 40 years old and becoming an advanced maternal age, her parents-in-law looked ugly with anxiety, and Ariel Lin was also worried in her heart.

At this time, news about Ariel Ariel's marriage change, infertility, and being used as a nanny in her husband's family slowly spread out. This was simply "making matters worse" for Ariel Ariel, who was not having an easy life.

As a last resort, Ariel Ariel could only take the initiative to stand up and explain and calm the turmoil as soon as possible. But in fact, netizens did not buy her reply because her explanation was not in line with "common sense."

Ariel Ariel’s husband, Lin Yuchao, lives abroad because his family’s business is in the United States, while Ariel Ariel lives in Taiwan. Xiao Swen once asked Ariel Lin about the reason for their separation, and she said, "Both of them need space."

As soon as this was said, fans directly stamped it as "too fake". Because Ariel Lin stopped working early to prepare for pregnancy, but her husband was thousands of miles away. Even if the Virgin Mary was reincarnated, she would not be able to give birth to a child alone.

In addition, Ariel Ariel has been living with her parents-in-law since she got married. This kind of rich life is actually quite sad. Ordinary people are not willing to live with their parents-in-law, especially when her husband, who is the "lubricant", is not around. In fact, she has to be subject to more control, let alone private space.

Later, there were rumors on the Internet that news was obtained from Ariel Ariel’s relatives and friends: "Because she cannot have children, her parents-in-law want her to divorce, so she lives such a humble life."

Living with my parents-in-law, I get up at 6:30 every day to cook and send my parents-in-law off to work at 7:30. When her husband is not around, she tries her best to look old-fashioned and correct.

During the banquet at Zhang Luo’s mother-in-law’s family, she stood holding the dishes for the elders.

When I went out with my mother-in-law, she diligently stepped forward to help me.

Father-in-law Lin Yichen once praised her and said: "There will never be such a wonderful daughter-in-law in the world."

However, no matter how well she did, it was her fault that she could not "give birth".

Ariel Lin once said sadly: "I have tried everything that can be tried, but it still doesn't work."

She has tried artificial in vitro fertilization many times, including injections, egg retrieval, and implantation. The pain was so painful that she almost died, but she still gritted her teeth and carried it on alone.

She tried various home remedies, and even though she felt nauseated and vomited, she still insisted on eating. But what he got in exchange was a trance, endocrine disorders, and his body almost collapsed.

After the uproar, fans fell silent collectively. Money can't buy her happiness, but Ariel Ariel feels happy.

Finally, her efforts paid off. This year she finally gave birth to a daughter. After returning to work after giving birth, she became a little more rounded and beautiful.

However, there is still a hidden worry behind this beautiful smiling face, and the pressure on her to continue the family lineage is still there.

The long road of seeking children, I don’t know when it will end. In the future, even she probably doesn’t know the direction of her marriage.

Just because something is not said does not mean it does not exist.

Marriage is not a one-man show, love requires more response.

In the world of love, there is no need to be so humble. No one is sorry to anyone, only those who do not know how to cherish others.

In recent years, there seems to be a serious polarization among actresses when it comes to marriage. They must either marry into a wealthy family or find a "little fresh meat" husband.

Marrying into a rich family has always been the normal standard for "actresses choosing a husband", but finding a husband who is younger than yourself seems to be quite popular among TVB's veteran actresses.

Chen Songling is a veteran TVB actress. He became popular in Hong Kong after his debut in 1986. He is a leader in singing and acting skills and can be called an all-round artist.

Before the age of 40, Chen Songling had a rough life. She was once used as a "cash machine" by her parents and agents.

She was forced by her parents to "debut" since she was a child to make money to support her family. After becoming famous, she was defrauded of all her property by her agent. Sadly, after she was shunned by the company, she became seriously ill and lost her fertility. At the worst point, she even ended up living on the street.

Probably because Chen Songling’s life was too hard before, God sent her her current husband Zhang Duo, a young man from Northeast China who is 8 years younger than her.

Despite the age difference of 8 years, the geographical distance and the differences in food culture, the couple are still as loving as ever after ten years of marriage. Although her husband Zhang Duo is young, he is mature in thought and knows how to tolerate and care for her.

If there are any problems in this marriage, the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem" should be the first to bear the brunt.

Chen Songling once used one word to describe her mother-in-law on the show - weird.

Zhang Duo's mother is a "well-known double standard" "child's mother". She "loves her son to the core", but she "hates Chen Songling" as her daughter-in-law.

This kind of double standard is reflected in all aspects of life. When they enter the house together, she will always only see her son and completely ignore the existence of her daughter-in-law. I brought gifts to my son and daughter-in-law. My son bought the best ones, but my daughter-in-law only had a few strips of garlic.

At her son’s and daughter-in-law’s house, she always acted like a “grand master” and commanded her daughter-in-law to do various things, and she always felt that it was natural for her to do so, as if “her daughter-in-law was born to do this” She should be serving her son."

While exercising together, she saw her son running back and forth out of breath and distressed. But he didn't even look at his daughter-in-law, who was also sweating profusely next to him. He even grabbed the towel from his daughter-in-law and ran to give it to his son, not caring that his daughter-in-law would catch a cold or get sick.

What’s even more frightening is that this mother-in-law is also a “drama queen”, and she has two skins in front of others. She said different things in front of her son and daughter-in-law. In front of her daughter-in-law, she was rogue and arrogant, but in front of her son, she deliberately showed herself aggrieved and helpless. Sometimes, they even secretly stir up emotional conflicts between the two of them, wishing they had better get divorced.

Facing such a mother-in-law, Chen Songling also had a headache. The mother-in-law made it clear that she just didn't like Chen Songling as her daughter-in-law, and she had been deliberately targeting her.

Chen Songling has always known that the root of the conflict between the two is that she cannot get pregnant and will never be able to let her mother-in-law enjoy the happiness of a family. This has always been her mother-in-law's worry.

Chen Songling's body was infertile due to surgery, so she and her husband chose "DINK".

It is precisely because of her guilt on this issue that Chen Songling "always looks down upon her mother-in-law." Faced with her mother-in-law's indifference, criticism and harsh treatment, she can only endure it silently.

Sometimes I really can’t bear it, but after venting my anger, I have no choice but to forgive.

Being a daughter-in-law is not easy. In order to be considerate and loving to her husband, Chen Songling can only grit her teeth and endure it.

It is estimated that Zhang Duo's mother is aware of this and shows no mercy when it comes to manipulating her daughter-in-law. She has the attitude of "I am just tormenting you, so what, if you have the ability, just divorce my son."

Perhaps one day, these forbearances will turn into sharp conflicts and suddenly break out. But now, life continues to go on, and all Chen Songling can do is "endure."

The so-called relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is just a by-product of marriage. Interests are related, and it is about the same man, so how can we be truly as close as a family?

Getting along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a kind of practice. If you can get along, you can be harmonious, and if you can't, you can be patient. A happy marriage in this world can never be achieved by one person.

This old lady may not look good, but she has a very famous son, Wu Qilong.

In 2019, Hong Kong media reported that the day after Liu Shishi gave birth to her child, Wu Qilong’s mother brought two bottles of mineral water to visit her daughter-in-law who had just given birth.

After this report came out, it caused a burst of ridicule: "Is this what a mother-in-law should do?"

I don’t know what Liu Shishi thought when she saw this report. I just I want to say: "If this were my mother-in-law, I would probably give your son a look."

The daughter-in-law has just blossomed. Even if the relationship is not good, as a mother-in-law, she must at least pretend to be a mother-in-law. It has to make everyone look good.

But Wu Qilong’s mother is so different. Others send warmth, but she “sends cold water”.

Liu Shishi is probably used to it, because this is not the first time she has been "slapped in the face" by this mother-in-law.

In March 2016, Liu Shishi and Wu Qilong got married. What shocked everyone at that time was not how luxurious the wedding was, nor how loving the bride and groom were, but the bizarre speech of Wu Qilong’s mother.

During the interview, she took the initiative to express her guilt to her former daughter-in-law Ma Yashu, saying that she was sorry for not giving her a decent wedding. Putting these words on a happy occasion like a wedding, it was a slap in the face to Liu Shishi. Marrying a second-hand old man is already a grievance, but on the wedding day, you have to be teased and trampled by your mother-in-law. This mother-in-law really seems to be full of malice.

I don’t know if Liu Shishi regretted it at that time, but her parents must have felt extremely uncomfortable.

While the wedding was going on, no matter how bad her mother-in-law was, Liu Shishi could only bite the bullet and endure it.

After marriage, although Liu Shishi and Wu Qilong were in love, they had no children for nearly four years. At this time, rumors suddenly spread on the Internet: "Ma Yashu remarried and gave birth to a child, but Liu Shishi is still not pregnant. It should be Wu Qilong's health and cannot give birth."

As soon as this evil wind started to stir, Liu Shishi was very worried. Awesome and very common sense, he said in a general way: "I was too busy before and I didn't like children, so my husband accommodated me and didn't have children."

But the slap in the face always comes so unexpectedly. Liu Shishi finally got pregnant and has not yet It’s too late to make it public. When some media heard about the news and asked Wu Qilong's mother for confirmation, she publicly blamed the blame and said: "Before, the outside world said that Shishi could not give birth to a child, which put a lot of pressure on them."

Seeing this, I guess the people who eat melons will They couldn't help but cover their faces. How unlucky Liu Shishi must have been to have her mother-in-law be such a "drag behind" her. Moreover, she was not very clever at all and made the rumors that had been suppressed intensify.

Later, I heard that Liu Shishi suffered from postpartum depression after giving birth.

Having such a mother-in-law on the stall is not only tiring mentally and physically, but also mentally tortured.

Not long after the birth, Liu Shishi quickly returned to work after the baby was able to let go.

Maybe it was because she was afraid that her mother-in-law would "give birth" again, or maybe she wanted to escape from the home that made her feel tired. The real reason is probably only known to her.

Ma Yili once said: "Although falling in love is easy, marriage is not easy, so do it and cherish it."

In a marriage, there is not only touching love, but also trivial matters.

No matter how famous or rich you are, the person who is naturally higher than you in status is still your mother-in-law, not your mother.

Home is everyone’s home. Happiness depends on whether the male owner can reconcile.

If your husband’s status is correct and he understands your difficulties, he can just do his part as a daughter-in-law.

If your husband is cowardly, I just advise you to endure it, to be worthy of others and to be yourself.

There has never been a truly disharmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this world, only the grievances that the daughter-in-law cannot bear.

There has never been a truly harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this world. It depends on whether you care and whether you want to tolerate it.

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Author|Irene

Editor|Eighth Aunt