Talk about the wonderful hobbies of husband and wife

As the saying goes, it takes a hundred years to cross the boat and a thousand years to sleep. ? It is a rare thing that two people meet in the vast sea of people and have the honor to become important and precious people in each other's lives.

However, the married life of many couples is not as peaceful and happy as imagined, because most people often have disputes in their married life because of their different interests and hobbies.

In fact, we all think that our life will be harmonious and happy when we meet a person with similar interests, but when we meet? Soul mate? Opportunities are really hard to come by.

It can be said that it is common for couples to have different hobbies, but if they want to get along for a long time, they must be able to tolerate and accommodate each other.

Whether the interests are the same or not is not the criterion to judge whether a relationship is good or bad. Two people fall in love with each other's differences, so their hobbies are different. The key is how to get along.

First, respect each other's hobbies and don't force yourself to cater to your partner's preferences.

There are many lovers whose hobbies can be said to be worlds apart.

For example, you like to stay at home and help plants, while he likes to travel and take exciting adventures. Then when you decide on your vacation travel plan, you will have differences.

Some people's way of dealing with it is to express their dissatisfaction through quarreling and cold war, forcing the other party to accommodate themselves.

I have to say that this practice is selfish. When two people live together, the most important thing is to be tolerant of each other.

You don't have to bother to please your partner and force yourself to cultivate the same preferences as each other, but you must respect each other's preferences and don't slander each other easily.

When two people consciously stand on opposite sides because of different interests and hobbies, the emotional gap naturally arises.

Second, don't impose your ideas on each other, and understand each other's thoughts through communication.

It is natural for everyone to have different hobbies because of their different living habits, growing environment and education level.

Husband and wife can get together by sincere love and frankness, not by hobbies. Even if they have completely different hobbies, they can get used to each other gradually through a long time.

When faced with some choices in life, remember not to impose your ideas on each other. If you have something you like, he naturally has his favorite hobbies.

You may not fully understand each other's preferences, so it is always right to choose respect.

In daily life, we can also communicate with each other and learn about each other's hobbies. Although you can't love each other so much, at least your other half will think you respect him.

Third, cultivate a brand-new hobby, learn new things and enhance the relationship between husband and wife.

Since the hobbies are completely different, it is better to explore a new field that neither of us has touched.

In the process of learning new things, you will find different partners, and your relationship will be sublimated unconsciously. Learn to accept each other's original hobbies, don't set restrictions on your marriage, try new things bravely, and cultivate your wide range of hobbies.

When you look at all your hobbies with an inclusive heart, you can naturally accept and understand your partner's love. * * * The same hobbies need to be cultivated by both parties, and this unique learning experience is also a gift given by marriage.

The essence of marriage is that two people gradually discover each other's bright spots when they get along, and all differences and sharp edges can be gradually smoothed out through love and tolerance.