How is your classmate relationship in the college class?

Thank you for inviting me. In my college class, I have little contact with other students except my roommates. In fact, in college, everyone is an adult, so the relationship with high school classmates is completely different.

In high school, everyone always works hard towards their own goals, and the way to work hard is to listen to lectures and brush questions every day, so students feel more like enjoying each other. After all, we are people who share joys and sorrows. We have classes together, eat together and sleep together every day. At that time, students were in the best years of their lives, so they were self-disciplined and greeted every precious day in the best state. When you encounter problems that you can't solve, you can discuss, help and answer each other. The intimate contact in class and the life at 3: 00 every day have also narrowed the distance between us, and the friendship between classmates has been strengthened day by day, just like brothers and sisters. In addition, students are basically from the same place, and they can also communicate in dialects, so there are many topics to talk about, so the relationship is relatively close.

But this relationship is difficult to maintain in universities for the following reasons:

1. In college, everyone in the class comes from all corners of the country, with different life experiences and language barriers. When we meet for the first time, we can only say hello in Mandarin, so it is difficult to have intimate relationship.

2. College time is more relaxed and free, and everyone has a wider range of activities and more activities to choose from. Only when students sit together in class, but they can't talk in class, and there is basically no communication between classmates, resulting in a very small number of people afraid of society. After studying in college, I still can't recognize all my classmates and can't name them.

3. There are few activities in university classes, and the activities follow the principle of voluntary participation. Except for class gatherings, basically only a few students will participate in other class activities.

4. Unlike high school, universities have fewer courses and more time for themselves. Many college students spend most of the day in the dormitory, and these hours are just with their roommates, and they get along with each other day and night. Therefore, from the perspective of the relationship between university and classmates, roommates are the closest.

5. There is a lack of spirit of mutual assistance in the classes of universities. Except for the group homework assigned by the teacher, all the other homework was done by myself. Moreover, unlike high school, universities regard the homework assigned by teachers as a task, and only want them to finish it quickly, regardless of quality. Everyone basically doesn't pay much attention to this kind of homework, so there will be no "revolutionary friendship" between classmates like high school.

So in college, apart from my roommates, my relationship with my classmates belongs to. Generally speaking, I can name them, but the relationship is light.