After remarriage, what kind of distance will a smart woman keep from her ex-husband?

Will you contact your ex-husband again?

Marriage is a grave for those who are unwilling to pay, and a paradise for those who know the meaning of love. People who want to remarry can understand this sentence. So, if you choose to remarry, will you contact your ex-husband again?

Reader Xiaoli bluntly said: I will not have any contact with my ex-husband. I have blacked out his WeChat. I don't love him, but I hate him more. Hate his betrayal, hate his ruthlessness and hate his irresponsibility.

It turned out that Xiaoli's ex-husband divorced because of betrayal, and the stage of betrayal was precisely when Xiaoli was pregnant. The ex-husband and the previous blind date rekindled their old feelings, saying that they regretted marrying Xiaoli and dating the blind date Xiaosan behind her back every day.

Finally, Xiaoli found that when she asked him what was going on, she wanted an explanation, and all he gave was five words: Let's get a divorce! You know, Xiaoli has just been married for less than half a year, and the baby is about to be born. At this time, her husband filed for divorce, which brought her great pain.

Therefore, Xiaoli hates her ex-husband. Don't talk about contact with ex-husband. I don't want to have anything to do with her all my life. Old age and death do not communicate with each other.

Visible, contact with her ex-husband, as the case may be, if the husband and wife break up peacefully, then remarried can contact again, contact is only courtesy, not hatred, but if her ex-husband hurts her like Xiaoli above, she is absolutely unwilling to have any contact with her ex-husband.

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What's the difference between an ex-husband and a current husband?

Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished. The difference between an ex-husband and a current husband is that the ex-husband belongs to the past, loved, hated and lived together, while the current husband refers to the person who is now certified and lives together.

Ex-husbands are in the past, and remarried women should draw a clear line with the past decisively and greet them occasionally. However, it is disrespectful to the current husband that remarried women often meet and talk and laugh. To put it bluntly, remarried women keep close contact with their ex-husbands, which is broken in four words.

From the husband's point of view, the wife is closely related to her ex-husband. His psychology is exclusive. He will think that his wife doesn't love himself and he will never forget his ex-husband. He will think that his wife and ex-husband are premeditated and come here to empty his property.

Although these ideas may be negative, they may also be misunderstandings. If a remarried woman does not draw a clear line with her ex-husband, she will misunderstand her husband, which will inevitably lead to misunderstanding. You know, her husband has already obtained the license with you, and your relationship with her husband is legal. Her ex-husband has received a divorce certificate. From a legal point of view, there is no guarantee, and too close contact can only hurt the feelings of two people. The situation is grim.

Maybe a woman will say, I don't want to have a relationship with my ex-husband, but we have the same children and he wants to come and see them, so he can't help but see them. Frankly speaking, it's ok to look after children, but you must keep your distance when talking or doing things. It's best to stay with your current husband. Your ex-husband will avoid suspicion when he sees it.

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Don't keep in touch with your ex-husband.

After remarriage, a woman should do this, that is, not keep in touch with her ex-husband. After all, they are divorced. If they keep in touch frequently, one of them will have the illusion that you are still in love and pursue all kinds of things. But will this happen? Triangle relationship? Yes

My husband can't accept a woman's ex-husband Since a woman marries her husband's family, she must be one with her husband. In this way, if there is anything in the future, she will be the first to reach out and help. So, let's look at it from another angle. If anything happens when you remarry, find your ex-husband. Do you think your ex-husband will reach out and help you? He will tell you that we are divorced. What do you want me to do? Do I owe you?

Therefore, women should be rational and put themselves in others' shoes. In fact, no one wants to see anyone who has hurt himself again. They just want to end the people and things in the past. This is not a small pattern, nor is it open-minded. I just want to bid farewell to people and things in the past, dilute the past and welcome a new beginning.