So hard to forget, a loved one?

1, no longer contact, no longer disturb some things, knowing that it is irreparable, but still insisting because it is unwilling; Some people, knowing that they no longer love, still cling to it because they can't bear it; Sometimes, you have to move on knowing that there is no way out, because you are used to it. Sometimes, walking in a crowded street, I will subconsciously look for that familiar figure. Sometimes, through the glass window, when I was in traffic jam, I accidentally saw the familiar license plate number, which stung my heart instantly. So, all day, I was in a trance, imagining what to say if I met him head-on. Is he as sad as I am? Forget it, if you don't love, you just don't love. From the moment he turned and left, there was no room for you in his world. All you have to do is draw a line. Return what belongs to him and bring what belongs to him back to his own world. Delete all contact information such as WeChat, QQ and telephone from now on, and don't ask for his information through friends. Tell yourself over and over again, that's it, forget it! 2. Don't run away, don't wait. Maybe for a long time, I can't accept the fact that "he doesn't love me", and I still have such complicated expectations and fantasies in my heart. Especially in the dead of night, I will suffer from insomnia, crying and heartache. The good and bad things in my mind are like automatic playback, going back and forth over and over again. The more I recall, the less I want to believe in reality. Even if you scold him a thousand times, you will still feel a little distressed and gentle. I miss him countless times, and it is not boring to go back and forth, so it is very painful. Maybe it's not that I can't let him go, but that I can't let myself go. I don't know how many times I have experienced frustration and frustration. In the end, you have to recognize and accept the fact that he can never come back and you can never go back. How unworthy those days of self-indulgence are, a waste of a better life and a blasphemy against the future. 3. Don't be afraid and don't refuse love. Falling in love with someone is very simple, maybe it's just a moment to look back, or it may be a joke on the internet. Love is a godsend, which will make two people who originally lived in completely different worlds meet and make two people in different places fall in love. The appearance of love is so casual and caring. You have to believe that when God closes a window for you, he will open another door for you. When this reluctant feeling dies, there must be someone more worthy of you waiting for you, who will meet and rely on, and everything has its own arrangements. Before that, if you are obsessed with beauty, love will have providence. People will meet countless people in this life. You never know where someone will be fascinated by your smile and say "never see you again" to your ex-lover! Say "hi, hello" to your future life! Maybe one day, when you look back, the person who can't let go is irrelevant. Author: as light as the wind, as light as a cloud. Your happiness, my blessing. So hard to forget, a loved one? In the forests of Norway, there is a saying: "Everyone has his own forest. Maybe we've never been there, but it's always there, always. Those who have lost are lost, and those who have met will meet again. " Somewhere in my heart, there is a forest, and there is always a person in that forest, occupying the position of absolute protagonist, whether it is owned or lost. The man was there all the time and never left. In fact, I know that it's not that he doesn't want to go out, but that you don't want to let go. After all, he used to be a relative, and after all, he was a person who once brought you happiness and tears. He used to be sharping in your mind, giving you warmth and looking forward to the future. How can you forget if you forget? You used to make every day dull and warm. You went to many places together and looked forward to the future together. However, I don't know when your relationship has become more and more distant and distant. Until the end, you lost the person you love forever. You can only miss the good times when he was with you. In the face of the fact that you finally lost him, you may have been suffering, but there is nothing you can do. Maybe you still love him deeply, maybe you are no longer affectionate. But after all, you are a person who once loved deeply. Why did you put it down when you said it? Saying no love means no love. It's like you've never given your heart. However, no matter how much you give up, you will eventually understand that the only way to forget someone you love deeply is to be rude. Only when you are absolutely unfeeling can you stop thinking, only when you are absolutely unfeeling can you stop looking, and only when you are absolutely unfeeling can you stop expecting. Perhaps, choosing unfeeling is the best way to bid farewell to the past. Despair for yourself and for him. Perhaps in this process, everyone is suffering. But no matter how painful the process is, forgetting him is just a last resort. When you block your heart, you are very calm about some terrible news about him, as if he were just an ordinary passer-by in your life. When you have separated, you have broken all your feelings. When you pretend to be indifferent to his affairs, you feel that the next second you can devote yourself to the next relationship. In this way, without him, you can really forget everything in the past and the future. Only the pain during this period, only you know. However, what can you do besides being rude? Perhaps, everything is destiny takes a hand, destined that he can only be a passer-by in your life journey, and destined that you will go to the two ends of the world. In the face of people you once loved deeply, you will feel powerless. The only thing you can do is numb yourself. In fact, sometimes, running away is not necessarily a bad thing. You can choose to travel, choose to change places and change your mood; You can also choose to work, choose to devote yourself wholeheartedly, or even accept another relationship, leaving no room for you and him. When you are so rude, that's when you really forget someone. You learned to divert your attention just to be rude, forget him, forget everything about him. Things will always pass, no matter how painful they are, they will always be forgotten. One day, you can really handle what happened calmly. Maybe a lot of things are blurred, but the feeling of love always exists. At that time, even if you meet him again, you can be a stranger or say hello politely. Sooner or later, you will understand that the person who once said that he loved you left for various reasons. In the face of losing someone you once loved, there is no need to entangle or grieve for it. Since it is lost, it is destiny takes a hand. All you can do is be rude, numb yourself and distract yourself. In the rest of your life, you will meet someone who is really suitable for you. He will love you, care about you, and accompany you for life. So hard to forget, a person you love deeply, 3 1, tell yourself that she no longer belongs to you and force yourself not to think about her. If you want to forget someone you love deeply, tell yourself that she no longer belongs to you and force yourself not to think about her. Whenever you miss her or think of her, tell yourself, "Why do you miss her? She has nothing to do with you "and" why do you still miss her? " 2. Keep yourself busy. You don't have time to think. She wants to forget someone. You might as well keep yourself busy every day, enrich yourself, so that you have no time to think about her at all, and put all your thoughts and energy on what needs to be done, such as career. When you put all your time, mind and energy into your work, you can think about things in your career every day, so that you won't miss her anymore, and you can slowly take her away from you. Find a new lover and replace her from the heart. When you want to forget someone, but you find that you can't forget and can't let go, you might as well let yourself find a new lover and focus on another woman. Maybe you will find that you like another woman, and you are in love with another woman. Gradually, another woman took her place in your heart, and before you know it, a new woman appeared. 4. Cut off contact with her and gradually forget that if she wants to forget someone, she must completely cut off all contact with her, stop contacting her, stop paying attention to her and erase her from your life. Don't let her appear in your life, even in a circle of friends. Don't let yourself see any news about her, and don't have any communication with her, so that you can forget her slowly. Time can help. Whether you are a man or a woman, you can try to forget the person you once loved deeply in this way. Although it is hard and painful to forget someone, the fact is the fact, and you must face it. Escaping can only make yourself more painful, and facing it bravely may not be so painful.