How to treat emotional programs?

There are two kinds of popular emotional programs, one is blind date, and the other is emotional adjustment between couples. Let me talk about dating programs. The earliest program I watched was If You Are the One, which my father took me to watch. I thought it was very interesting. Twenty-four female guests stood there, watching the boys come up one by one. If you like it, turn on the light; if you don't like it, turn it off.

My favorite part at that time was the interview with my friend. At this time, the friends of male guests will explode a lot of materials. I expect my friend to put in a good word for me. Who knows that every time this short film is shown, the lights are turned off the most. People are fighting desperately above, and I am laughing happily below. At that time, I simply regarded this program as a very fun thing and didn't think much.

Later, when I grew up, I came into contact with a new program, Perfect by Guizhou Satellite TV. This program is just the opposite of "If You Are the One". The male guests are resident and the girls come up one by one. These boys are very good, all handsome, and their careers are not bad. There are principals of art schools, shopkeepers of clothing stores, shopkeepers of coffee shops and so on. They look totally handsome and rich, naturally attracting a large number of young fans, and even each of them has his own fan group.

At first, I just thought people were handsome, just watching them look up. But later, as I gradually matured, I was a little budding and had some ideas, so I would go online to learn a lot about them. This understanding has completely subverted my world view. Many people on the internet said that in fact, the male guests of this program are invited actors, and they also asked that if someone came to confess, they could not agree. Some newcomers may come with the idea of finding the other half at first, but gradually it becomes like this.

I remember a male guest, from the northeast, who was the dean of an art college. He is tall and handsome, and I like him very much personally. Many girls came to him to express their love, but he refused. In a program, he suddenly confessed to a girl who came here. Maybe he was really touched, but he was rejected. Then he suddenly disappeared, quietly left the show and didn't find the other half.

One day when I was painting Weibo, I suddenly saw him say that he was in love. The girl he met in his life is said to have met in a restaurant and fell in love at first sight. Now that they are married and have the crystallization of love, the speed really surprises me.

So my view on this kind of programs is, as an audience, don't take it too seriously. After all, this is a TV program, so we just have to watch it and have fun. There's no need to care about the real ones, right?