What should I do if my friend who once treated me sincerely has other plans to kick down the ladder?

There are many selfish people in this society. Women may be more selfish than men. This is because women are more family-oriented, with only family in their hearts and less heartfelt concern for outsiders. This is also an advantage, so first of all, don't think this girl is too much, because it is relative whether she is too much or not. There are many similar people in this society now.

Secondly, you should be a little more atmospheric and think about her benefits. Because whether she is sincere or false to you, after all, she has been with you for a long time and really gave you a lot of care and warmth. You should be grateful, at least better than being indifferent to you from the beginning.

Third, from our own point of view, it is good for a person and does not ask for anything in return. She is good to you, and you are good to her. Everyone has done enough. I think that's enough. So keep this good relationship.

Fourth, just because she is not sincere to you doesn't mean you can be insincere to her. If I were you, I would still be honest with her and not hurt myself. You are open, who can hurt you? Secondly, the concealment and kindness to her is also a contempt and hint: I am more open than you, I am sincere to you, I stand with you, and you are a big head shorter than me in this respect.

I don't know if you are married, put yourself in the shoes of a married woman. It is not easy for a woman to live all her life, so as I said just now, it is normal for many women to appear selfish and hypocritical in front of others because they love their families too much. I know that people have different personalities, and some people (such as you) may not get married and start a family, but we shouldn't ask others like this, should we?

If your answer is "I understand all this, but I am unhappy", then I have nothing to say. Baidu is here to answer questions, which may not be suitable for discussion. Ha ha.

Add: At least talk about it here, and you will feel better. Just say it.