Please tame me.

I once saw The Little Prince and thought it was a fairy tale for children. Now I see it again, and suddenly I understand that the fox said to the little prince, "Please tame me!" " "I feel that the word' domestication' is particularly important to us in life! It doesn't mean who feeds who, but that each other forms a relationship with each other over a period of time. From then on, each other is a unique existence in their own lives!

The fox said, "to me, you are just a little boy now, no different from others." I don't need you, and you don't need me. " To you, I am just a fox, just like thousands of other foxes. But if you tame me, things will be different. We will be attached to each other. For me, you are the only one in the world, and for you, I will be the only one in the world. "

At this moment, the little prince remembered his roses. The flower once told him that she was unique in the whole universe. However, in this rose garden, there are five thousand flowers exactly like her. The little prince seems to understand the fox's meaning and feels that the roses on his planet have domesticated the little prince!

So the little prince went to see the roses again and said to them, no one has domesticated you, and you have domesticated no one. You are just like me and the fox, nothing special! You are beautiful and fragrant, but you are empty! My rose is the same to a passerby, but it is more important to me than all your flowers combined, because I water her, cover her with a glass cover, protect her with a screen and kill those caterpillars for her. I have heard her pour out her sadness, or cry roast meat, and even heard her silence … because she is my rose!

Thinking of my husband's usual attitude towards me, although dull and silent, failed to satisfy me, but he also expressed his special love for me in his own way! For example, give me enough free space and time, and trust me forever. No matter how late you come back, you will leave a lamp for me. In winter, I will help wash the quilt and thick cotton-padded jacket ... I will choose suitable clothes for him, cook a good meal and say warm words ... Husband and wife 12 years talking and laughing, quarreling. We have devoted time and energy to each other, so we feel that the meaning of each other's life is completely different from others! Good intimacy can nourish your life, and no other relationship can replace it! It takes time for your rose to make it so important, so be responsible for your rose!

"See the wheat field over there? I don't eat bread. Wheat is useless to me, so the wheat field won't remind me of any memory. This is a very sad thing. But, because you have blond hair, once you tame me, it will be wonderful. Every time I see golden wheat, I will think of you, and I will fall in love with the wind through the wheat waves ... "

It's like I suddenly like to be alone and look at the stars in the sky with tears in my eyes. It used to be hard to accept a person's death. In this book, the little prince said that he came from another planet and it was time to go back. His body was too heavy, so he left it on the earth! Ni Ping said in Grandma's Quotations: When a person walks on the ground, there is a star in the sky! What a beautiful explanation! Because grandma and mother-in-law have left us, I prefer to believe that they have returned to their own planet! When I think of them, I will look up at the stars! Thinking of her mother-in-law's critical illness, she said, "Min, you're teasing all the adults and babies!" "There are eggs she usually gives us, and fresh vegetables planted in vegetable fields ... I know they are the most special existence in my life! The fox said: you are responsible for everything you domesticate!

The fox said, "You'd better come at the same time. For example, if you come at four o'clock in the afternoon, I will feel happy from three o'clock. The closer to the meeting time, the happier I am. By four o'clock, I even began to be restless. But this is normal, because happiness also comes at a price! However, if you don't have a fixed time, come whenever you want. I don't know when I can dress up my heart ... At this time, the ceremony is still necessary. Rituals can make one day different from other days and one moment different from other moments. "

This is the best analysis of the sense of ceremony I have ever heard! Tomb-Sweeping Day has fixed time and holidays every year, and this year is no exception. Sacrificing ancestors has become a ceremony for people to mourn their deceased relatives! Last night, the baby said that he would go back to his hometown to visit his grandmother's grave. He woke up early this morning and wanted to go back. As a matter of fact, he just went back last month. There is no wireless network, no children and no playground in his hometown ... but he wants to go back to his grandmother's grave! Tomb-Sweeping Day is a special day for the dead relatives and those who miss her! The fox said: a person can only see the real thing with his heart, but the essential thing can't be seen with his eyes!