Isn't love just talk?

Tu Lei, a love tutor, once said: "Commitment is too worthless, only action is the truest, because love is not spoken with the mouth."

Yes, it is easy to say I love you, but it is never easy to prove that I love you.

True love is not spoken, love is in the details.

In The Road Few People Walk, the author thinks that true love is a will to love both oneself and others.

True love is an action, an action generated by will.

I am convinced that love is not just in my mind, just thinking about it; It doesn't stay in its mouth, it just talks; It's about having sex.

Whether in love, parent-child relationship or other interpersonal relationships, we should learn to see and feel each other's love with our eyes, instead of listening to each other's love with our ears.

As described by Zhu Ziqing in his essay "The Back", when his father bought oranges for himself, he struggled to climb to the back of the platform, which invisibly expressed his deep fatherly love.

A father's love is not just a father saying, "Baby, I love you."

It is also the deep love expressed by my father's silent actions.

I once heard a touching story.

Dad is a retired soldier, and I finally got into a key military school outside the province. When I set out in the morning, my father was still reading the newspaper and didn't even say a word about taking care of himself.

I was disappointed to pick up my luggage and leave, but at the moment of closing the door, I saw the newspaper that my father turned over.

I suddenly found that my father's love for himself is not hidden in the language, but reflected in the details.

In fact, the same is true of love. To judge whether the other person loves himself or not, you should not just listen with your ears, but also look at the details with your eyes.

When a couple are having dinner with their friends, the man is chatting with his friends while the woman is eating.

Suddenly, the woman dropped something, so she bent down to pick it up. At this moment, the person talking to her friend reached out and covered a corner of the table to prevent the woman from kowtowing.

This detail touched me and made me believe in love again.

Love is not lip service, but inner expression.