What if children can't live without their mobile phones?

Let me talk about this problem from my own personal experience with my children. If children at home play mobile phones for a long time every day, it will not only affect their eyesight, but also affect their academic performance.

First of all, parents should set an example.

In some families, even if parents accompany their children after coming home from work every day, their children's mobile phones will not leave their hands, which will make them mistakenly think that playing mobile phones is attractive, so they will follow suit. Parents should set an example if they want their children to give up mobile phones. In my family, as long as the children are studying, I will take a book to read beside them, so that the children can know that their parents can't look at their mobile phones while doing their homework.

Secondly, negotiate the time with your child.

It is unrealistic to want children not to play mobile phones at all. What we can do is to directly discuss with our children when we can play mobile phones occasionally, such as when there are holidays on Saturday and Sunday, but parents should do a good job of supervision. In the long run, children will naturally develop good habits.

Finally, I don't know how old your child is. If he is in kindergarten or primary school, he can divert their attention through other things, such as watching cartoons, reading books, exercising, traveling and so on. If it is junior high school or high school, it is inseparable from mobile phones and even affects learning. I suggest you smash your mobile phone. Although this is a bit undesirable and a waste of money, it can play a certain role.

I think I bought my daughter a mobile phone after the middle school entrance examination, and I can divert their attention through other things, such as reading comics, reading books, sports, traveling and so on. I wanted to put it away during the summer vacation, but she couldn't help making excuses when she came back from school every day. She tried many times to persuade, but she didn't listen. She had no choice but to smash her mobile phone in front of her. Later, when she went to school, she didn't mention her mobile phone, and she slowly forgot it. Unless I show her QQ or look up information during the holiday, I think it's quite good. I hope you can adopt it.

Hello, I'm glad to answer this question.

In today's advanced technology, basically everyone will have a mobile phone. Adults can't live without mobile phones, let alone children. Children's self-control is not as strong as adults. At this time, parents need to guide slowly.

1. First of all, parents play a leading role. Parents are the closest people to their children and the best teachers. Children always play with their mobile phones. You should pay attention to whether you often play mobile phone in front of her. If so, that's right, the child is imitating your behavior. She will think that because mobile phones are fun, her parents always play them, so she should play them, too.

It is also a common phenomenon that contemporary children love to play mobile phones, so don't worry too much. Why is the child's attention always on the mobile phone? Because he has no one to play with. If someone plays with children, basically children can restrain themselves from playing mobile phones. Parents should spend more time with their children at this time, take him out to play and play some parent-child games.

Cultivate his interest in reading and make him feel that books are more interesting than mobile phones, which requires the guidance and encouragement of parents.

4. Mobile phones are not terrible. What matters is how your children use it. It is suggested to standardize the time. It's better to use your mobile phone for studying than playing games.

5. Don't use mobile phone to distract your child from crying, and don't reward him by playing mobile phone.

Thank you. That's the end of my answer.

I have this view about children watching mobile phones: the Internet is a double-edged sword. After all, with the internet, you can know what's going on in the world without leaving home. But children can't play with mobile phones. After all, children's self-control and self-discipline awareness have not been cultivated. I suggest that all the beneficial things put forward by children should be done on mobile phones. Parents must not play mobile phones in front of their children, let alone lead bad children because their children want to, because everyone has a sense of learning.

Now we can see that even a child who can't talk, while sitting in the stroller, his parents have handed him the mobile phone. These children are all wearing Tik Tok, and seeing auto is one of them, but it should have a bad effect on his eyes and eyesight.

Parents drop their mobile phones from their children's hands, and the children are crying and making noise. In short, only when the mobile phone is put back in front of you and in your hand, everything seems so peaceful, everything seems so quiet, parents are happy and children are happy.

In fact, it is not difficult for children to leave their mobile phones. What's more, children's attention is later than that of family and adults. They are good at playing by themselves. Besides mobile phones, they can also play games and publish more places. Therefore, as long as parents avoid mobile phones, children can find their own game points.

Of course, the playground found by children may need the company of parents, and parents may need to pay time, so from this perspective, parents must also be able to accompany their children and calm down to accompany them.

Leaving the mobile phone is a false proposition. The key reason is that parents are unwilling to let their children leave their mobile phones and have to accompany them.

If children at home play mobile phones for a long time every day, it will not only affect their eyesight, academic performance, but also affect their interpersonal communication. So, what should children do if they always play with their mobile phones? Let's talk together.

Parents should set a good example.

In some families, even if parents accompany their children after coming home from work every day, their children's mobile phones will not leave their hands, which will make them mistakenly think that playing mobile phones is attractive, so they will follow suit. Parents should set an example if they want their children to give up mobile phones.

02. Negotiate time with your children.

It is unrealistic to want children not to play mobile phones at all. What we can do is to directly discuss with our children how long we play mobile phones every day, and parents should do a good job of supervision. In the long run, children will naturally develop good habits.

03. Work with children.

Sometimes children find playing mobile phones attractive because parents don't want to spend time with their children. At this time, we should try to change the previous mode of getting along, spend more time with our children, and make them feel that doing other things is very interesting.

04. Let children make more friends.

Sometimes children always play mobile phones because there are not many friends to play with, so we can create opportunities for children to associate with more friends of the same age. This way, when children play together, they won't always think about playing mobile phones.

Counterquestion: Why do children need mobile phones?

Parents or grandparents, when you have no time to take care of your children, have you ever tried to coax your children with mobile video?

When you don't know how to calm a crying child, have you ever tried to coax a child with a video on your mobile phone?

When children are not eating, have you ever tried to let children watch videos on their mobile phones while eating?

If the child is a piece of rough jade, then the family background is this meat cleaver. When you can't understand your child's behavior, think about yourself and your family and find out why.

When Huabao was more than 20 months old, it was also from the beginning of curiosity to slowly indulging in brushing videos. From the beginning of observing the agreed time to the later cheating and occupying the mobile phone. In order to adjust Huabao's concentration on mobile phones, Grandma Kobanawa tried not to use mobile phones in front of Huabao and found reasons to avoid handling them when necessary.

The time spent brushing the mobile phone is reduced, and the time spent on parent-child interaction of Kobanawa Huabao is increased. After a period of persistence, Warburg asked me to play with toys whenever he was free, and stopped thinking about mobile phones. In recent days, Huabao suddenly wanted to take my mobile phone to see photos. I thought I had to negotiate with Warburg to get my phone back. Unexpectedly, after a while, she returned it to me and asked me to play ball with her.

It is a living habit for children to indulge in playing mobile phones, and this habit often comes from observing and learning from their parents and elders at home. In order to change children's habit of indulging in mobile phones, parents should set an example, increase their time with their children and divert their attention. Parents and elders at home should first reduce the frequency of using mobile phones. At the same time, increase parent-child interaction, so that children can experience fun in other interesting projects, such as making friends, sports, traveling, reading, handcrafting and so on. This habit can be adjusted slowly.

The harm of letting children use smart phones too early;

First of all, the use of smart phones will make children have a loose attachment to an object or behavior, which will continue to become attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, conduct disorder, personality disorder and so on in children and adolescents. If you don't adapt to the society, the probability of separation symptoms such as anxiety disorder and reactive disorder is also high. Children who frequently use smart phones since childhood are more likely to have obsessive-compulsive disorder, depression and social phobia.

1, which hinders brain development.

Children under 2 years old develop their brains rapidly. Frequent use of smart phones at this time will cause uneven development of the left brain. During this period, although the brain has gradually matured, the function of the brain is not perfect, and the regulation ability of the autonomic nervous system is not strong. Stimulated by external factors, it will bring negative emotions, cause anxiety, anxiety and inattention.

2, easy to cause sleep disorders.

Perhaps everyone knows that children's frequent use of smart phones will cause vision loss. But even more frightening is that it will cause sleep problems. Children watch mobile phones before going to bed. Too bright pictures will affect the secretion of melatonin, leading to sleep disorders.

3, hinder physical development

Children who are already good at playing smart phones show a negative attitude towards physical exercise. This will result in delayed physical development and low motor function, which will affect height growth. In addition, it has a great influence on fingers. The hand always keeps an action, and the flexibility of the finger is not exercised, which will affect the development of the finger for a long time.

In order to see the mobile phone, children always unconsciously lean forward close to the screen. Keeping the posture of neck or waist for a long time will cause spinal deformation, scoliosis and other syndromes, and may also cause early symptoms of cervical spondylosis. Only through various sports can children stimulate bones, develop and promote physical growth.

Why children rely on mobile phones.

1, social dependence

There are 200 friends in the mobile phone address book, 300 friends in the WeChat circle of friends, and more than 4,000 friends in various QQ groups. Such a strong personal relationship makes it difficult for children to give up.

2. Game dependence

There are a large number of online games in mobile phones, and the achievements and experience accumulated in the long-term "battle" have made children's sense of accomplishment bursting.

3. Entertainment dependence

There are not many friends and games in the mobile phone, all of which are movies, music and photos, which make children feel high and always want to touch the mobile phone when they don't want to do homework.

Summary: If children are particularly dependent on mobile phones, as parents, it is best to analyze what kind of children they belong to first, and then prescribe the right medicine.

How to help children quit cell phone addiction?

1, establish parent-child agreement

Parents should realize that mobile phones can be tools but not toys, and the content and time of using mobile phones can be controlled through parent-child agreements. In addition, help children to enhance their self-control ability.

Step 2 divert interest and attention

Once the child is addicted, don't worry too much. You can help children to quit slowly. Parents can divert their children's attention, such as reading with their children at home, or taking them out for a walk and chat, making more friends and cultivating their other interests, which are all good ways to divert their attention.

Parents should set an example and set aside time for company.

If children want to play less electronic products, it is particularly important for parents to set an example. Therefore, after coming home from work, parents should put their mobile phones aside and play with their children, which is an ideal way to quit their children's electronic addiction.

4. Don't use playing mobile phone as a reward.

This is a mistake made by many parents, such as always taking electronic products as rewards and "allowing you to play mobile phones for x hours" as an exchange condition for obedience. It is often easy for children to regard playing mobile phones as their biggest appeal, and once the habit is formed, it is difficult to change.

5. Make children aware of the danger.

Choose the right time to let children experience some changes after being obsessed with mobile phones. In addition to poor eyesight, cervical and lumbar pain, lack of sleep and other physical health problems, children should also be aware of psychological hidden dangers such as reduced learning efficiency, unrealistic interpersonal communication and irritability.

What if children can't live without their mobile phones? This should be a very headache topic, and many parents will be troubled by this problem. My two children, I often watch mobile phones, but the children are not interested. At most, they will come to watch familiar video sounds, but they are not interested in playing mobile phones.

Why do children like mobile phones so much? I think we should solve the problem from the source. First, find out what attracts them in the mobile phone. Video, photos, or games? Why do children like these things? Or more often, I see adults playing mobile phones every day, so curious babies also think mobile phones are fun and a "good thing".

Some parents, especially the elderly, take care of their children. As soon as the child cries, he will immediately hand over his mobile phone to coax the baby. They think this is really a work of art. Nothing can't be solved by a mobile phone. Over time, children also rely on it. Actually, I can't say they like it. Maybe it's just a habit. Just like a pacifier, holding it is a comfort.

So, what should I do? My humble opinion is as follows:

First, cultivate children's more hobbies, and let them find things more fun than mobile phones, such as parent-child games, outdoor park sports, racket ball, playgrounds, watching musicals, singing and dancing, etc. I think children like these things very much. For example, my family sometimes likes watching TV. I said I wanted to go out to play. Would you rather stay at home and watch TV or go out to play the slide on the playground? Most children choose to go out. Adequate outdoor exercise every day is also good for their vision development.

Even if you don't go out, you can have a lot of fun, such as playing cards with children (a good thing to enlighten numbers), reading books, playing chess and chatting with your heart.

Second, parents should try not to play mobile phones when they are with their children. In fact, if you find that you haven't left your mobile phone for a few hours, there aren't so many important things to deal with and so many emergency contacts to contact you. If the other party is in a hurry, he will definitely give you a voice call.

In fact, parents know that many times when they get home from work and sit on the sofa, they start watching Tik Tok endlessly, all kinds of irrelevant news. Children have been looking at your mobile phone, and they must also want to know what is interesting about their parents' mobile phone. Parents are role models for children to learn.

Third, mobile phones are not a scourge, nor can they be completely ignored. For example, many learning apps can be used now, and schools also have various video punching cards. We must make rational use of it, such as learning English, dubbing with mobile phones, and telling children that these are all done by adults, and children can't play with mobile phones privately.

Children's self-control is very poor, and they really need the restraint of their parents. If it's not good, you can't ignore it. Younger children will attract attention in other ways. Older children must try to make him understand the benefits, such as affecting his eyesight and his study (to be clear, it will affect your final exam results).

Companionship is the longest confession. When your children need you, spend more time with them. Don't let them think of their mobile phones as "parents" and "friends". Don't miss the best opportunity to accompany them.

Mr. and Mrs. Zhao left their children in the care of the elderly because of their busy work.

Now I'm just in the first grade, only to find that my children are playing mobile games when they come home from school, and they don't want to write homework. Reasoning with him and quarreling with him, he still refused to study.

In fact, it is not difficult to find out where the problem lies.

Children don't like to play with mobile phones and lack the company of their parents.

They are now at the stage of being curious about the world.

Many things attract them more than mobile phones.

But many parents ignore their children's inner needs.

All these premises are based on parents' willingness to spend time and energy with their children.

Children's bad habits are mostly formed by their parents.

Many parents of children aged 3 to 5.

When the child is clamoring to play games and wants you to play with him.

The easiest way is to give your child a mobile phone to play with.

In exchange for the silence of the whole world.

Because children get better, parents have more time to do other things.

But once children get into this habit,

Trying to change again is even more exhausting.

We adults may not be able to control the time when we use our mobile phones.

What's more, children without self-control

When the child wants to pick up the phone

Bottom line: How about Mom taking you out to play?

We can get his attention.

Take your children to an amusement park or zoo to feel the joy of nature.

Do something he is interested in and let him know that there are so many interesting things in life besides mobile phones.

Many children have developed the habit of playing mobile phones during holidays.

Many of our young parents are too busy to stay with their children.

Mobile phones have become a tool to replace parents.

In fact, you can buy some educational toys, such as puzzles, Legos, DIY clay and so on.

Few children can refuse the temptation of toys.

These toys can not only improve his attention, but also develop his imagination.

Why not do it?

The so-called words and deeds are based on the premise of asking children to do it.

We should set an example ourselves.

No matter where you go now,

You can see countless mobile phone controls.

Whether friends get together or go home from work, they will unconsciously pick up their mobile phones.

Children are another mirror of parents.

Whatever you do, he will learn.

If you always play games on your mobile phone at home.

Then most children will also be interested in mobile phones.

Let's try to put down the phone.

Read a picture book to your child, have a heart-to-heart talk with your lover, and go out to see a movie as a family.

Are all good lifestyles.

Let children use mobile phones.

We should restrict, not prohibit.

The more you don't let him do anything at all, the more you will arouse his curiosity.

Even rebellious, secretly playing mobile phones.

The first thing parents should do is to play with their children and participate with them.

When children play games, they can also participate and give appropriate guidance.

When children watch animation, watch it with them.

Only in this way can we know what children see and like.

And they have more * * * languages.

You can also find opportunities to share your views in the discussion.

It is not the children who look after the children, but the parents who look after the parents.

When children play games with their parents, it is easier to follow their parents' instructions.

Instead of playing mobile phones, I turned a deaf ear to the request that my parents can't play anymore.

Finally, you take the phone away and the child starts to cry.

Playing together can help children and parents build close trust relationships unconsciously.

On the one hand, make the child obedient, on the other hand, make him feel that you know him and support him.

On the other hand, let him agree with the rules you made.

Allowing children to watch mobile phones and play games is itself recognition and support for children.

Then when making the rules, you can invite your child to participate in the formulation and let him know your good intentions.

For example, watch your mobile phone for no more than an hour every day and tell your child about the impact on your eyesight.

You can't watch it before going to bed, or there are temporary and important changes that need to be postponed.

Let's discuss and decide anything together.

It will make children feel more involved and responsible, and make children more able to abide by the rules.

Of course, it is not advisable for children to play mobile phones without restriction, and it is very difficult to completely prevent children from touching mobile phones. After all, even homework is notified by mobile phone now.

It is better to focus on the long-term than the immediate problems.

Cultivate a close relationship with children

Help children develop healthy online habits.

How to let children use mobile phones to gain more knowledge?

It's much better than worrying about how to make children play mobile phones less.

Of course, all this is based on the premise that you are willing to spend time and energy with your children.

Please give your children more company and grow up with them.

Now is the era of being inseparable from mobile phones. Smart phones make our life more colorful and bring us more convenience. People with low heads can be seen everywhere in the street, and adults are still so addicted, not to mention children who have no self-control ability. Faced with a variety of mobile phone information and network world, children feel that this is a wonderful world, a kaleidoscope, and they rely more on mobile phones. If children are left alone, they will become addicted to mobile phones basically without control. Once addicted, if parents can find it in time and intervene in time, it is not hopeless.

First, download programs that are useful to children on your mobile phone and watch them with your children when you have time.

Any addiction needs correct guidance and gradual withdrawal. First, control the time of playing mobile phones. For example, if you make an appointment or give your child a mobile phone, the power supply will be controlled, and it will automatically shut down after a certain period of time. Secondly, help children download some numbers, puzzles, word recognition games or software to improve their interest in learning. This way can not only calm children's emotions, but also make abstinence a gradual adaptation process. At the same time, interesting learning software can help children master some knowledge.

Second, provide children with toys or games that are more meaningful than mobile phones.

Children are obsessed with mobile phones because they don't know anything more interesting than these. When you don't let your child play with anything, you must have something more meaningful to replace it, so that the child will give up voluntarily. If parents can spare time to accompany their children to do manual work, build blocks, knead mud, play digital games and tell stories to their children, it will not only make them give up playing mobile phones, but also add color to their childhood memories. Otherwise, it is not only futile to strictly stop and interfere blindly, but also make children miss, feel more mysterious and addicted to "forbidden" things, and even steal to hide and play, forming a vicious circle and becoming more addicted.

Third, parents should try not to play mobile phones in front of their children.

Parents are children's first teachers, and they are ubiquitous teachers in children's lives. Parents' behavior will leave traces in their children's eyes. Parents' hobbies have a subtle influence on their children. If you want Eva to be what kind of person, you must be what kind of person first. Therefore, parents should do more meaningful things, spread positive energy, and put an end to bad behaviors such as playing mobile phones and mahjong in front of their children.

Fourth, divert attention.

Parents can divert their children's attention when they play electronic products or can't stop. For example, use toys to attract children, or play a family game with children, tell them interesting stories, draw pictures with them, or take them out for a walk and visit the park. , are all good ways to divert attention. But nothing is more effective than the company of parents. If parents are willing to spend time with their children, children are also happy to put down their mobile phones. What really affects children is not the mobile phone itself, but us. Parents should make correct guidance, help their children make progress, and influence their children with love, patience and educational wisdom instead of punishing them blindly.

This method is only used for remediation. I hope that parents and friends can spend more time with their children and nip Internet addiction and mobile phone addiction in the bud.