Why don't many women want to go back to their parents' home? The three reasons behind this make people feel emotional. Why?

"Married daughter, spilled water", this sentence is no longer applicable in this era. Many women nowadays, even if they are married, will not almost never go back to their parents' home as before.

In the old days, if a woman got married and then went back to her mother's house, she would be looked down upon. People will think that she must have come back from her husband's family. Although this is not necessarily the case, many things pass from person to person, and some bad things will happen.

But even so, there are still some women who don't want to go back to their parents' home. As for the reasons behind it, some people are emotional.

I am unhappy in my marriage. I'm afraid that when I go back to my parents' house, my parents will find out and worry about myself.

I used to be unhappy in my marriage, so I went back to my parents to complain, but now I don't want to go back and worry them. Just like many people who work hard outside, they say that they are very good in the face of every inquiry from their parents.

Even if their marriage is unhappy, they don't want to go back to their parents' home. No matter how well they disguise themselves, their psychological defense will collapse in the face of repeated inquiries from their parents. As parents, their daughter's behavior can be seen in their eyes.

Parents prefer boys to girls and think that "the married daughter is the spilled water", which makes women feel chilling.

There will still be people who prefer boys to girls, just like the recently concluded TV series "Everything is OK". Such a family will think that the married daughter is the spilled water, and even if the daughter goes home, she will not like it very much. So, women simply don't come back.

My hometown has such an example. A woman's maiden is very close to her home, separated by a river, but she hardly asks her maiden. Even when she goes home, her parents think that she is already a foreigner and should leave immediately after sitting for a long time.

My family is not good, and I finally got married. How can I want to come back?

For some women, marriage is a second life. In my first life, I was treated badly, bullied, suppressed, discriminated and questioned in the family where I came from. The best way for such a woman to leave here early is to get married.

Once they get married, especially in a distant place, it's like being reborn, and they almost lose contact with their family. They naturally feel homesick, but they are more lonely.

In fact, every married woman will want to go home. After all, that's where she was born and raised. Those who really don't go home are badly hurt by their families.

Parents should be the harbor for children, who can come back at any time and then be comforted. Please show more concern and tolerance to those women who don't want to go back to their parents' home.