When your parents start to be fickle with you, it's not that they don't love you anymore.

In this world, the people who really "rain for your eyes, but hold an umbrella for you" are not lovers, but parents.

no matter how far you go, they will always be the ones waiting for you to go home; Whether you have a successful career or not, they will always love you as before.

When parents begin to be fickle with you, it's not that they don't love you anymore, but that they are saying goodbye to you for the last time on the journey of life ......

When parents begin to be fickle with you, I hope you have a support.

My cousin Zhiyan divorced a few years ago, and her parents felt sorry for her and her grandson, so they took them home and lived together.

With the help of her parents, Zhiyan began to re-plan her life. After several trips, she got a teacher position in a private school in the city, and her income was three times that of the previous one. Therefore, Zhiyan decided to leave her children with her parents first, and then go to the city with them after she had established herself.

Faced with Zhiyan's choice, her parents expressed their full support. They took her to school, helped her with homework, and made friends with her. However, whatever children of the same age could have, they tried their best to let Zhiyan's children have it.

In the past, my parents, who were not good at using smart phones, bought smart phones just to send Zhiyan photos of their children's life and study every day. And these are the panacea for Zhiyan's work pressure in urban schools.

After three years, Zhiyan adapted to the high-intensity and high-pressure work in private schools, and asked her children to transfer to other schools and her parents to help her with the children.

In this way, after three years, the children were admitted to the key middle schools in the city with excellent results and began to live and board. At this point, Zhiyan's parents decided to go back to their hometown to live.

Zhiyan tried every means to retain her, but Dad said that when the children are old, they can take care of themselves. When we are old, the days with you will always be shorter and shorter. You should find someone and marry yourself again. If we always stay by your side, you may think that it is good to stay like this all your life.

It turns out that what parents are most worried about is their favorite daughter. It is their last wish to let their daughters find someone they can rely on. Leaving fickle, in fact, is the deepest expectation for Zhiyan.

When your parents begin to be "fickle" to you, I hope you can take care of yourself.

it seems that parents get old in an instant.

My best friend Linzi said that when her father was diagnosed with malignant tumor, she felt that the sky had collapsed.

Linzi also has two younger sisters. When they were young, their family was the object of ridicule by the whole village, because there was no son at home.

But Linzi's father spoiled his three daughters and encouraged them to change their fate through reading. By moving bricks on the construction site, the tuition fees of the three sisters from primary school to university were just enough.

I finally waited until my three daughters graduated from college and found jobs, but my old father fell ill.

Linzi said that at that moment, she suddenly understood that it was time for her to protect her father.

Fortunately, the operation went smoothly, and Linzi's father's condition was stabilized.

After going home to recuperate, my father, who has never lost his temper, often shouts at Linzi. For example, Linzi has never paid the water and electricity bills and was called a "bookworm"; For example, if the electric switch at home trips and Linzi can't find the main switch, she will be called a big stupid pig.

Linzi used to be very capable, but since she joined the work, all her time and energy have been devoted to her work, and of course, her part-time job. For this reason, she has no time to be sad, but only wants to seize the time to make money.

Facing Linzi's working condition of sleeping only four or five hours a day, Linzi's father even called us one by one, asking us to persuade Linzi not to work hard as girlfriends.

Linzi said that his father wanted her to be an ordinary girl, do housework, cook delicious food, have a good relationship, get married and have children, and leave the burden of life to his own man to choose, instead of forcing himself into a "female man".

So much so that Linzi can learn to take care of herself and love herself.

When parents start to be fickle with you, they don't want to drag you down.

Cousins and uncles have three sons, who have settled in different provincial capitals. One is a university professor, the other is the chief physician of a 3A hospital, and the other is a department-level cadre, all of whom have enviable careers.

But recently, my cousins are talking about staying in a nursing home. Because my cousin has been in poor health all the year round, now she is getting worse. In order not to worry about her three sons, my cousin has always been taking care of her.

My cousin, who never asked his sons for anything, asked them to pay for hospitalization for the first time.

Now, the three sons came back quickly. They are all prominent people, and they are most afraid that others will say that they are unfilial. Therefore, it is proposed to take turns to pick up the two old people to live.

however, my cousin and uncle refused, saying they wouldn't go unless they were in a nursing home.

helpless, the three sons only need to send them to a nursing home. And agreed to come back to visit in turn every month.

but my uncle waved his hand again and again, saying that he would call them if something happened.

In this way, cousins take care of each other and seldom ask the children to go home. Cousin said, to live in a nursing home, this life is satisfied. Compared with the hustle and bustle of children and grandchildren around their knees, it is also taken care of here, which is quite good.

In fact, which old man doesn't want his children to accompany him, but he is afraid of dragging them down.

when parents are getting fickle, it's not that they don't love you anymore.

I can only accompany you here for the rest of my life. For the rest of your life, you can only rely on yourself.

You are still like that toddler, only this time, they really decided to let go completely.

author: the wind is as light as the clouds.

Your happiness is my blessing.

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