My mother wanted a grandson, but my daughter-in-law became unpopular when she gave birth to a girl. What should I do?

Of course, you need to deal with this problem. Your mother's feudal thoughts are very serious. You should enlighten your mother and tell her about fertility. In today's society, boys and girls are equal, and you can't decide for yourself when you have children. A mother-in-law cannot be so selfish. You need to deal with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law If you can't handle it well, you are quite incompetent.

First of all, you tell your mother that the genes of the leftover men and women come from you. The sex of the child is random. Today's society pursues equality. What's the difference between boys and girls? You weren't born your granddaughter. Besides, your wife and your mother-in-law are both women, and it is very painful to have children. I don't know how chilling you are, and which woman dares to marry our family.

And it is not good for your daughter-in-law, and you are wronged. When I go home and tell my parents-in-law, there are two more contradictions. So, I suggest you tell these words to your parents. As a son, your mother should love everything you say.

If there are conditions at home, and now the state supports the birth of a second child, then discuss with your wife to have another child. Of course, you have to respect your wife's choice. Take care of your wife and be a caring husband when you go home. My mother-in-law has just given birth and is still giving her a hard time. Be sure to let your wife get over it. Some women just don't care about their husbands after giving birth, and many women's mother-in-law also make things difficult for postpartum depression.

Make my wife happy first. The feudal thoughts of the old people were cultivated from childhood and gradually enlightened. Never mind it, it's weak. Men's weakness in marriage is the most terrible, so what awaits you may be divorce, and the problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law need you to resolve.