As a daughter-in-law, will you take the initiative to chat with your in-laws?

I often talk to her about the news and TV series she watches, as well as the life and study of her precious grandson. I will also tell her what decisions to make at home, at least to make her feel that we respect her. In front of my mother-in-law, I never talk about other people's mother-in-law relationship. Once my son said to us, "Mom and Dad, you all listen to grandma." "Yes, this is not obedience, this is respect." The little guy nodded sensibly.