Let's just say that. (3) obeying children's own wishes is the greatest hobby.

A few days ago, I wrote about making up lessons, mainly about making up this and that myself. To tell the truth, in retrospect, many of my make-up lessons still have subjective initiative in them. On the contrary, since I became a baby's father, I have always been in a state of letting my baby's mother go.

Let's talk about early education first.

I had never heard of early education before raising a baby. After raising the baby, the baby's mother knows that there is still early education in this society, in order to let the baby "not lose at the starting line."

Now it's called information development. Before early education, there was another kind of "education" called "prenatal education" I won't say anything about it. Whether it works or not, different people have different opinions. Early education can be discussed with you, mainly because I have two children and adopted two different early education methods.

Before talking about babies, let me talk about my early education. I once said in make-up lessons (1) and (2) that I got good grades in chemistry, mainly because my old lady was a chemistry teacher. Before I went to kindergarten, my mother took me to class in order not to delay my teaching. However, the class can't take me into the classroom for fear that I will affect the students then. What should I do? My mother strangely found me a small stool and let me sit between the walls of the back door and the front door of the classroom. She is in class and I am listening outside. I am also surprised that I can attend a class, although I don't know what my mother said. Now it seems that this is the legendary "early education".

Dawa's early education. It is really called raising the first child, and it is also called raising a baby. What brand of diapers should I use and what brand of milk powder should I drink. Then, when I was in kindergarten, my mother thought of early education. After this comparison and that comparison, I finally found an early education institution called "Win at the Starting Point". It takes more than an hour to go every time. I have forgotten the charge for a long time now. Just teach children to do aerobics and play games, sometimes three or five children, and sometimes meet the baby alone. The original purpose of the baby's mother is to let the baby adapt as soon as possible when entering kindergarten. Finally, the baby entered the kindergarten and cried for three months before giving up every time he was sent to the kindergarten. This cry, all kindergarten teachers know the baby.

A few years after Erwa's early education, I gave birth to another baby. When I was raising a second child, I had a little experience, so many things were less troublesome. For early education, because of the "complete failure" of the older baby, the baby mother has been hesitating whether the second baby can go. Finally, my old lady gave a solution, and went to the nursery. It's easy to say, but it's actually quite annoying to do. Where there is a nursery, it is a question whether it is good or not. The old lady is stubborn in this matter. She ran to the first nursery first. After being sent in, Erwa said she didn't want to leave every time she came back. At first, the old lady thought it was Erwa's own fault. Later, she learned that the school teacher had a problem. So I stopped decisively. But I still didn't give up. I finally found a private kindergarten with kindergarten classes near my home. So, I chatted for a long time and came back to eat and sleep at noon. Although the price is several thousand yuan a month, Erwa is still willing to play with the children after changing to a new place. In the end, Erwa entered the kindergarten without any obstacles.

In fact, the meaning of writing this passage is that parenting is very important in the family life of ordinary people. Things like this can not be pushed to the market to solve, or the government to guarantee. The most important thing for children is to be able to integrate into the group, instead of learning something through early education in twos and threes. The final effect will not be particularly ideal.

Let's talk about hobbies.

Cultivating children's hobbies, whether to let children find their own hobbies, or to cultivate hobbies professionally, or to have artistic hobbies, can actually be discussed a lot.

Let me talk about myself first. When I was in primary school, my mother found me a hobby, painting. Anyway, she is very interested, accompanying me to class and sketching. As a result, when I drew the library, I couldn't draw well, and then I told my mother that if I couldn't learn, I wouldn't learn. My mother is also frank. She won't learn unless she studies. It is estimated that she is a people's teacher. After observing me for a while, she felt that it was really not the material and gave up.

I guess the old lady because I don't have any artistic hobbies. So she entrusted her hopes to her granddaughter and grandson. Every time she told me that she wanted to learn piano and guitar, she also vowed to buy piano and guitar for her children. Of course, she didn't buy it in the end.

I'd better talk about the cultivation of Dawa's "hobby".

Dance. The beginning of learning dance was recommended by Dawa kindergarten teacher in the middle class. At first, my idea about learning dance was simple. I should exercise. Dancing can also exercise, which is also good for the baby's growth. I never wanted to be a professional player. When Dawa began to study, she met a very good dance teacher, Hu Yunqi, who taught her for a year. Later, when she was in a big class, Mr. Hu asked her students to teach. My own baby dances well no matter how, because our generation of artistic parents don't understand. Later, I asked Mr. Hu what he thought of Eva's dance. When you meet a good teacher, your opinion is very pertinent, saying that the baby works hard and can attend classes. This is a dance action, there is no aura. As soon as I heard it, I understood that this dance is really to keep fit. Later, in the year of studying in a large class, I also tried to keep my baby in shape. But the baby mother always thinks how good her baby is, because a high-quality public primary school recruits art students and wants her baby to take the exam. The result is of course similar to that of the teacher.

Play ball. I regret it now that I think about it. I should let Eva do what I want. I like playing badminton myself, and I think playing badminton is very simple, without physical contact, which is very good. So I signed up for a badminton training class, which was also quite good. I went to four times for 300 yuan. But after playing for a while, Wa is too young to master this grip and technical essentials. Later, I thought I learned it by myself. Although I didn't play very well, I could learn by myself and stop without professional teaching. When I was in primary school, Eva told me that she was going to sign up for a football class, and I was stupid. It's not good for a girl to sign up for a football class. I didn't ask her to sign the death certificate. Now that I think about it, I still have to respect Eva's idea. Now Eva sometimes prefers to play basketball with her brother, so I don't care too much. Keep fit, why care about the body.

Art, when it comes to painting, I think it is quite worthwhile. By coincidence, I found a training school that is still public, under china welfare institute. Soong Ching Ling's concept of doing public welfare for children has been carried forward, with low fees, but good quality of teachers. My initial idea was to let Eva learn painting, mainly by giving up halfway, and I wanted to realize it on Eva. It is estimated that every parent will have this idea. Learning to draw in this institution makes you very comfortable. The school teacher will never tell you that the price will increase next semester at the end of the semester, and then you can buy cheap classes now. If I remember correctly, the price of 15 class 1200 yuan has been maintained for many years, and we were told to increase the price, 15 class 1500 yuan, but if we quote the other three classes together, we can still get a 20% discount. As a result, parents are very interesting, saying that the price increase should have been long ago, which is also a spectacle.

The school is the Shanghai Grade Test Center of China Academy of Fine Arts. If you learn to paint, you have to take a grade test to prove how good your painting is. Eva finally got into animation level 9. However, regarding painting, I had an exchange with Mr. Shi Jing at school, and he was very sincere. This is the way we communicate.

I said, Teacher Shi, what do you think of my baby's paintings? Can you keep studying?

Shi said: Your baby's paintings are all made by your own diligence. It's not easy for her to get where she is now.

I said, do you think you can learn sketch after that?

Shi said: of course, you can learn, but after junior high school, your studies are also very busy. You'll know then.

In fact, you can also see the clue from my conversation with the teacher. It is impossible for children to be professionally trained in painting, that is, to paint casually.

So I have been telling Eva that letting you learn painting is not for your professional development, but for you to know how to dress up and do photography in the future. If you apply for architecture in the future, you can also apply for some painting basics.

Say so much. In fact, what I want to share with you is that we should try our best to make up lessons for our baby, especially our hobbies. You needn't worry about how to play the piano. After all, life is limited, and it is best to find what you like.

(To be continued)