How can lovelorn people get back together?

People who are lovelorn want to get back together to a great extent. So how can we get back together?

People who want to get back together, I will never ask you why you broke up. Parents disagree, problems in different places, inappropriate personality, too busy to be in a good state, hello, I don't deserve it. These reasons are just appearances, and ultimately it is because the other person doesn't love you enough. If you are attractive enough, you are the only one in the other person's heart. No matter what the reason, he won't want to give up on you, unless you don't want each other, but such a situation will torture each other to death.

Why? Because it's human nature. At first, two people feel good, which is the most essential attraction. If powerful people can keep this state all the time, and even use the deepening of their feelings to make each other more inseparable from themselves, then the attraction will only be stronger.

You broke up because the attraction between you two was out of balance. The attraction between each other is getting stronger and stronger, and your attraction to him is getting weaker and weaker. The most common situation is that when you spend time with your partner, his energy is increasing and your ability is weakening. No matter who your objective attraction is, you will consciously tell each other, oh, I am so great in your heart, and his heart will be strengthened. Because of your low energy, your attraction will not only decline, but also weaken the social interaction around you. This is what we often say, why we are lovelorn and unwilling to get to know a boy.

What should I do? !

The first is disconnection. Yes, because I said that as long as you are objectively more attractive than the other person, you have a great chance to pull the other person back. The reason why the other party doesn't come back now is because he is angry. No matter what you do now, he thinks you are trying to get back together with him. So his thinking of not wanting to get back together will never be reversed. He thinks you just love him very much, and he is awesome.

Only when he is disconnected will he realize that you don't seem to care about him that much. At this time, his thinking will be reversed, his consciousness will disappear, his subconscious will come back, and he will remember your true attraction again. At this time, there is a chance to make a comeback.

Don't play a good hand.

After the disconnection, if the other party tests you from time to time and asks about your recent situation, it means that your opportunity has come. But don't jump on each other as soon as you come back, then you are absolutely dead, because breaking off diplomatic relations leads to low energy of each other. As soon as you fight back, his energy will become higher immediately, and he won't feel that he really lost you.

People are very cheap. The only thing you can do after breaking up is to say better. I'm not just talking about appearance, earning ability, knowledge, hobbies and so on. The most important thing is the heart. You can do it yourself without worrying about losing him. If you think you can find something better than him, then even if your objective attraction is low, you are strong.

I met two people, Cancer and Virgo, who only hurt me.

Let me tell you something. Cancer is a love rat, but I was imprisoned at that time. It's silly to think about it now. When I pulled away completely, he teased me with a trumpet from time to time. I was completely heartless at that time. I also met Virgo now.

Virgo is a great boy, but you know, Virgo has many problems. Whenever something happens, you want to solve it yourself. You should pay attention to those girls who are worried and like, just like yourself. I had a quarrel with him and he was angry with me. I've been urging him to stop sulking and solve the problem at once. Facts have proved that this practice is stupid.

We should not always solve problems in our own way, but calmly think about what the other party wants most. He needs to calm down, so you just have to calm him down. So I quietly gave him time to think for himself, and he came back. ?