In a word, most people's mentality is very realistic.

1. When everything meets your needs, whether material or spiritual, you will feel satisfied and secure. When craving can't meet your needs, you will be in another state of mind.

Everyone has what he wants and what he wants to be (not what he is). However, the root of trouble is desire.

3. A person's psychological and emotional changes will change with whether foreign things can satisfy you or not, changing all the time.

4. One person is the same. When you find him, you will know your true colors.

In winter, the stars in the Milky Way break free from the shackles of the sky and turn into snowflakes and fall into the river quietly. This is the Milky Way.

6. Fall in love with you and leave quietly because I love you, because I love you.

7. When you have had enough waves, you will find nothing.

8. The dream is very simple, but it is just kissing you before going to bed and waking up with you.

9. Just like me. Anyway, I'm cute, beautiful and generous.

10. The temple is white, the children and grandchildren are full, and the Iraqis have gone.

1 1. I tried my best to forget you, but I thought too much. Instead of forgetting, I buried it deeper in my heart.

12. I just like you, so why bother embarrassing myself.

13. Thank you. Now let's be honest with each other. We talk about everything. Like two children, we don't have too many secrets.

14. Why can't I feel your love when I say I'm cute? I am cute, not I love you.

15. I really hate myself. I want it, but I am afraid of disappointment.

16. I don't know what I long for, and I'm afraid I'll think about it, so I can only fill my time with things.

17. You'd better leave my sight. I don't like you now.

With all due respect, most people are of low quality and diligent.

With all due respect, most people are poor writers/strangers.

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Who is to blame for trying hard for half a year but not becoming a full member?

Sister Mo has a group of former colleagues who usually exchange and share company dynamics and industry information, which is not lively.

At about two o'clock in the afternoon, someone lost a link in the group and read the story with the title that an intern failed to become a full-time intern after six months' internship with his former employer. As a result, everyone talked with each other and had a good time.

The story is roughly as follows:

The protagonist Maruko is a schoolgirl who is extremely interested in beautiful things, especially gadgets with a sense of design, and also likes to take photos and share them. By chance, she got an internship with her former employer by virtue of her photos posted on the Internet.

The former employer is a well-known enterprise in the industry. Like many young people who have just entered the workplace, Maruko cherishes this internship and works hard. Wen can put pen to paper, settle down to work hard, be obedient and conscientious, showing the characteristics of a diligent and versatile little expert, and his work is getting better and better.

Seeing that half a year has passed, Maruko made a formal reply as he wished. She spent a week preparing ppT, summarizing the results, planning the future, having data, thinking and confidence. It is reasonable to say that there should be no big problem.

However, the supervisor finally told Maruko that her defense failed because her job responsibilities were not what the team needed most, in other words, it was dispensable.

With such a big gap, the young Maruko girl is naturally unconvinced. Why can't the old lady become a full member after working so hard? So I found a big V to contribute, express my dissatisfaction, and then look for opportunities.

The first few colleagues have expressed their opinions, and all kinds of gossip, some people say that Maruko is ok but not top-notch, some people say that the supervisor did not plan her direction in advance, and some people joked that her face value is average and she can't enter the supervisor's eyes.

The reasons they explained may all be reasonable. In the eyes of Mo Jie, an old bird in the workplace, Maruko's work is really progressive and her ability is at least above average, but she made a fundamental mistake, that is, she spent most of the past six months working hard at low quality.

One of the most obvious evidence is that she talks about how hard she works, how good her work performance is and how confident she is, but she doesn't mention her communication with the supervisor anywhere.

The former owner is a well-known company in the industry. Every year, a large number of interns sharpen their heads and want to go in. So there are many competitors of the same age in Maruko. If an employee doesn't even know what kind of person the leader wants to recruit, it's strange that he can become a full member unless he is lucky.

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Low-quality diligence is often more terrible than laziness.

In order to avoid misunderstanding, Sister Mo first clarified that I am not defending laziness. Diligence itself is definitely worth encouraging. There is nothing wrong with these old sayings, but their quality is low.

What is low-quality diligence?

If we combine diligence, laziness, low quality and high quality, we can draw four types of people:

First, high quality and diligence:

Such people are diligent in hands-on and thinking, with high efficiency and good output, and can accomplish their goals with high quality.

If you look carefully, the boss of your own company, the backbone of your team, or a well-known entrepreneur, politician, scientist and artist are probably such people. Without long-term high-quality efforts, few people can start from scratch or rise to the top level in their field.

Second, high-quality laziness:

This kind of person seems lazy, but he knows when to be lazy and what to do. They don't lose the key link, they sing while eating hot pot to get things done, and they usually do it well.

For example, when Sister Mo went to school, there were several such schoolmasters around her. She doesn't study hard at ordinary times. She attends classes normally and sleeps occasionally. She always goes out for rest and entertainment after class and never goes to cram school, but her final grades are always among the best.

Good laziness is not something that ordinary people can learn. They are smart and talented, know how to combine work and rest, and work and life are correct. People are more annoying than people!

Third, low quality laziness:

This kind of people don't want to be diligent, don't want to use their brains, have no pursuit of life, just muddle along, eat and support, and mix in the dark. A proper lazy person, Sister Mo won't give an example.

Fourth, low-quality diligence:

Finally, focus on people with low quality and diligence.

Literally, diligent people should have low quality, such as the Maruko girl at the beginning. She can't help but say that she doesn't work hard and her work is quite effective. It's a pity that she used all her energy in the wrong direction, which is a kind of low-quality diligence.

There is another kind of person:

Every minute counts. Their schedules are full and they have no free time all day.

They get up early and get greedy for the dark. They have seen the city at six o'clock. Tired and hurried, they took the last bus home.

They are full of chicken blood and have heard too many inspirational stories. They always pay attention to the comments of the big coffee in the industry and linger in various social occasions. If you don't agree, add WeChat and send friends to work overtime.

As a result, the instructors selling successful inspirational courses are financially free, but they do nothing and stand still.

This kind of person is also a typical low-quality diligent person. He puts on a diligent attitude and even believes in himself, but he does not enjoy the fruits of his efforts and even wastes a lot of time, energy and money.

Most people want to change the world, but few people want to change themselves.

1, if you don't make trouble for yourself, others will never make trouble for you. The trouble is all your own making.

Don't exchange health for money just because you are young. When you get old, you will understand that money can't buy health.

3, fate is responsible for shuffling cards, but it is ourselves who play cards!

4, success, often living next door to failure!

5. Life is a journey. What matters is not the destination, but the scenery along the way and the mood of watching the scenery.

No matter how long the road is, you can walk it step by step. No matter how short the road is, you can't walk without taking your feet.

7. Most people want to change the world, but few people want to change themselves.

8. The greatest pleasure in life is that everyone says you can't do it, but you have finished it!

9. Great undertakings are not accomplished by strength, speed and physical agility, but by the strength of character, will and knowledge.

10, on the way to realize the ideal, we must eliminate all interference, especially to see those beautiful temptations clearly.

The injured QQ space says that the sentence of blessing belongs to a few people, and most people are sad.

First of all, I didn't even know the tears in the end? For who?

Second, holding hands and breaking up come from the same hands.

Every time I cry, I fantasize that someone will hug me tightly.

Fourth, use my generosity to complete your blue sky.

Sometimes, it's not that the other person doesn't care about you, but that you take the other person too seriously.

Six, touching melody, I would like to die in intoxication.

Leaving you is not terrible. What is terrible is how to put away my dependence on you.

Eight, missing is the most powerless thing in life, humble.

Nine, the end of the season, with shallow lyrical steps and inappropriate sadness.

Ten, a moment of love in my life occupied my life's thoughts.

Eleven, once together, turned out to be lovers like strangers.

Twelve, as long as your heart is cruel enough, nothing in this world will make you sad.

Thirteen, the strangeness of old age is also a long-term feeling you give.

Fourteen, even if the world is deserted, there is still one person who will be your believer.

Fifteen, with emptiness and loneliness, I walked silently.

Without those memories, I wouldn't be so sad.

Seventeen, we are all hiding our sadness, and who knows the pain in our hearts.

This city is so empty, this memory is so intense, and this street is full of traffic. Who can I hug?

19. I always knew that the sun rose in the east and set in the west, but I didn't know that the position of the sun had not changed at all.

Twenty, some words, you don't say, doesn't mean I don't know; Just because I don't say it doesn't mean I don't care.

21. Love is appreciation, not possession and transformation.

22. Happiness belongs to a few people, and most people are sad.

Twenty-three, every time I tell others to face tomorrow with a smile, but how should I spend tomorrow?

I spent my youth in unrequited love just to be with you.

25. Everyone who says he doesn't believe in love actually has an impossible person in his heart.

26. Don't give me unnecessary comments if you don't know my story.

Learn to be yourself and gracefully let go of everything that doesn't belong to you.

28. Did I overestimate your trust or underestimate your tyranny?

Twenty-nine, I am in the paradise of being loved, enjoying the scenery of being loved.

Thirty, flowers are flying all over the sky, and dreams wake up and fall.

Although we are no longer together, I can still feel you around when I close my eyes.