How to make friends?

Question 1: How to make friends? A true friend should be when you are hurt, she will find you the first time, and then stay by your side silently without saying anything. When you have finished crying, she will tell you to dry your tears and face it bravely.

A true friend will give you space, and she doesn't need you to be like a blank sheet of paper in front of her. But she will try to get to know you and go straight to your heart. When you are willing to share your secret with her, she will listen quietly and keep her mouth shut for you.

A true friend will throw cold water on you mercilessly when you are complacent; Will cruelly pull you back to reality when you indulge in beautiful fantasies; Will silently bless you when you succeed.

A true friend has nothing to hide from each other. Laugh exaggeratedly when you are happy; When you are sad, you will cry openly; When you are wronged, you will angrily scold those people. Because you know, in front of each other, you don't need to be reserved, you don't need to be strong, and you don't need to swallow. You know, just be yourself in front of each other.

Get a bosom friend in life and die without regret!

Yes, what is a true friend? Do you have any real friends now? Do you have any real friends in this bait society? Maybe you do, but it won't be as true as this passage says! Maybe I'm a little absolute! But it's also true. Who can't blame? This is the present society. Don't let anyone trust anyone, and don't let anyone trust anyone. Everyone has a sense of wanting to protect themselves. Only emptiness and a lonely heart! Everyone in my classmates will work harder than anyone else. Whoever finds a rich husband,,, even if they have connections, they just use each other. There is only intrigue between colleagues. So it's really hard to have a real friend! Who doesn't want to have a real friend? I really want to find someone to cry with when I am injured, and I can also find someone to share happy things with. No need to hide, no need to be reserved, no need to be strong! I believe you are as eager to find a true friend as I am! Tired, drinking and chatting together is enough.

Can you find real friends? It's too difficult! Otherwise, how can someone say that life is a bosom friend and die without regret? ! ....

Question 2: How to make friends correctly? Different people have different ideas. In my opinion, a friend is someone who points you in the direction on your way forward.

A friend is a person who solves your difficulties, a friend who knows you, a friend who cares about you, and a friend who gets along with you day and night.

Instead of talking about people because you have some trivial shortcomings. Because no one is perfect! Besides, your friend

He is not a perfect man!

Friends are gold, friends are silver, friends are sunshine, friends are the moon, friends are stars, and friends are you when you go to the Black Coast.

A person who lights a lamp. Friends won't leave you because you are in difficult times. Friends won't leave you because you are here.

People who abandon you at the bottom of their lives.

A true friend will not follow suit and sprinkle a handful of salt on your injured wound. Friends don't treat you because of a little person.

People who plant things are far away from you, but at this time, lend a helping hand, care about you, care about your people.

A true friend never forgets righteousness and interests. They don't follow the trend, flatter useful people and kick useless people away.

People. True friends don't abandon friendship because of a little self-interest.

True friends are not selfish. He will be desperate to find someone you care about when you need help. He is always right.

Your most loyal person, he will promise your previous words and deeds, and will not forget you because you are temporarily unhappy.

True friends are moral. When you are in trouble, he won't give you any pressure and make you breathless.

A true friend will be rational and wise. At this time, he will not see your troubles, nor will he stand by.

Watch this. He will talk to you behind your back, he will talk to you privately, and he will never tell others directly what he thinks of you.

Listen carefully. In other words, he will save you face.

A true friend can do anything for a friend, give orders to a friend, and feel sunny for a friend, especially for you.

Take good care of it.

I like to get along with friends, I like to make friends, I like to have heart-to-heart communication with friends, and I hope to treat friends sincerely.

Spiritual communication.

Everyone has his own way of life. If you ask others to do this, you can't force them to do it your way, much less.

Your parents didn't ask for it. Besides, you are an outsider, and no one can impose their own methods on others.

Therefore, friendship and communication with friends should not be imposed on others.

You have your own ideas about treating people and things, and your ideas may not be accepted by others, so you can't be the same in treating friends.

You have your way, and I have my pursuit.

Making friends depends on sincerity, and making friends depends on your own character. To be a true friend, you won't leave just because you are in trouble.

Driving you is not your real friend. Even if I leave you in the most difficult time, you don't have to be sad because you can

Recognize what a true friend is, and make more friends when dealing with friends and when friends need you most.

Don't stand by and stay away from your friends. Such friends are true friends.

I like real friends. I like to make friends with real friends. This is my consistent principle. Making friends is at your most critical moment.

Only in this way can we see through what is the truest friend and what is the truest friendship.

Friendship is a person's need, a person's necessity, a person's yearning and a person's friendship.

It is indispensable in life. We are all eager for friendship. We all cherish friendship.

Friends are sincere, friends are sincere. Life with friends is a happy life.

There is a bright moon and a cool breeze in my heart. Sit down and observe the changes. Speech is silver, silence is gold.

Life is inseparable from family, friendship and love! ...& gt& gt

Question 3: What should we pay attention to when making friends? How can I make friends? First, the problems that should be paid attention to when making friends

In addition to sincerity and tolerance, we should also pay attention to the following 10 questions:

1. Listen to your friends.

As a friend, you should learn to listen. When your friend encounters setbacks and troubles, he will find someone to vent his emotions. As a friend, you can listen to each other sincerely and patiently, which opens an emotional outlet for your friend. When a friend tells you something, you should not only listen patiently, but also insert one or two words of emotional comfort from time to time, or give some advice to your friend, so that his feelings will get out of the swamp and he will feel that having a friend like you is the real reliance. In this way, the feelings between friends will be deeper and the friendship will increase day by day. A lady was extremely depressed because of her marriage, so she called her girlfriend to pour out her troubles. However, these days, just as this girlfriend was busy with her work, she couldn't find time to listen to her friends. As a result, this lady finally ended her life in anger because she couldn't bear the emotional repression for a while. If I had taken the time to listen to that friend's story and made some comforts, my friend would not have hit the wall.

2. Friends should also be divided into relatives and friends.

Although friends are the friendliest or most reliable contacts in the social circle, human nature is complex, so when interacting with friends, we should also carefully consider and distinguish between relatives and friends. By nature, most people who become friends have similar interests and personalities, similar interests, similar educational level, lofty personality, empathy and so on. In terms of communication reasons, there are embarrassing friends, friends who never turn their faces, friends who are in need, friends who are friends of gentlemen, friends who have forgotten the past, friends who have met once, friends who live in the market, friends who live in the past and friends who have old friends. No matter what the reason is, friends, after contact for a period of time, should have a choice, should have relatives and friends. For example, some friends are sincere and pure, and naturally they can be sincere and caring; However, some of them are invested in you for some utilitarian purpose. Once the benefits are not achieved or you are too poor to be useful to him, he will leave you Such friends can't be close. What's more, it is better to keep a certain distance.

3. Enough is enough and ask for human feelings. People can't make friends without human relations.

However, people can never ask for more. You ask for help once, and people help you. If you don't know much about it and push your luck again and again, your friends will be bored and disgusted with people like you, and the relationship between friends will be unsustainable. Others engage in friendship coercion in order to meet their own needs, regardless of each other's tolerance, which is also an act that makes friends disgusted.

4. Show up when friends need it most.

Facing the mixed society and changeable nature, no one can guarantee that everything will be fine, Dont Ask For Help, and no one boasts that he will never be in danger. Therefore, people are always eager for help when they encounter difficulties. Therefore, as a friend, when others need your help, you must show up in time and sincerely reach out to help your friend and help him tide over the difficulties. As long as you grasp this principle of communication, your friendship with friends will increase day by day.

5. There must be a "degree" in communication.

China has a very philosophical saying that "extremes meet". In life, anything that goes too far will go to the opposite side. The same is true of communication between friends. The past is very close and prone to cracks. Only by grasping a moderate degree can the friendship between friends become eternal. This is because everyone's culture, morality, personality, attitude towards life, work potential and family situation are different. The size of this difference is sometimes proportional to the frequency of communication between friends, that is, the more frequent and intimate the communication, the greater the pull. Therefore, communication between friends, regardless of time, distance, etc. Should be kept apart from each other, in order to achieve the artistic conception of "wanting more, feeling deeply", to be happy with the arrival of friends and miss them because of their departure.

6. Don't idealize your friends.

There are no two identical leaves in the world. Although friends have similar temperament, similar interests and similar temperament, after all, a friend is a living person, and there will always be some differences with you, some shortcomings and secrets that you don't want people to know. Therefore, when communicating with friends, don't idealize your friends, and don't take "I" as a reference for all your words and deeds. First of all, you should tolerate your friends' shortcomings. Therefore, once a friend's shortcomings are discovered, we should tolerate his shortcomings with the generosity of "the general can ride on his forehead and the prime minister can kick on his stomach" and choose ... >>

Question 4: How to make friends after 90? 1, be close to friends who strictly observe the precepts. When making friends, you can get close to this person who strictly abides by the precepts, because after getting close, you can lighten all your desires, and you can lighten many of them.

2. Be close to friends with wisdom. This man is very wise. Master here refers to wisdom, not cleverness, because you can get lost after getting close to wise friends. A humble and humiliated friend should be close. If this friend is modest and can swallow his pride, you can be close, because being close can eliminate my laziness, that is, arrogance and complacency.

3, always be close to friends with words, and people who always hold words, such as friends, often speak ill of you and don't listen. . . . If you write what you say, you can get close to such friends, because you can learn a lot from the words and understand a lot of truth about being a man. Friends who always hold words can be close and solve problems, because people who know words can solve your problems.

4. Friends who are hard to listen to should be close to you, and be hard to listen to you, because these people are true friends, remember that this is true. Some people use their straightforwardness to call names and use their straightforwardness to say that others are not good. These are uneducated in themselves, because they have deviated from their true integrity, and true advice is called honesty. Only those who treat others sincerely can be called frank and sincere, and friends who are loyal when most is least heeded can be close, because they can tell you your mistakes.

A brave and diligent friend should be close and diligent, and you can make friends with him, because when you are close to such a person, you can achieve quick results. Quick success means hard work and quick success.

6. Be close to friends who are light on money and loyal to others, because friends who are light on money can help you get rid of meanness.

7. Friends who are kind and love things should be close, kind and caring, and compassionate. You can make friends with them and get close to them. Don't waste, people who love things can pay.

-Vernacular Buddhism

8. Friends

9. You forgive me

10, friends have listened too much.

-The Analects of Confucius

Question 5: How do we make friends online? (1) correctly understand the duality of the network, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses.

Enhance self-protection awareness and learn to protect yourself.

Improve your safety awareness, don't disclose personal information easily, and don't agree to the requirements of netizens at will.

Try to find familiar friends or teachers to solve problems in real life.

⑤ Constantly improve your discrimination and awareness, and improve your ability to resist temptation.

⑥ Abide by network rules, ethics and laws.

Question 6: How should modern society make friends? Friend: In the 1980s, it was called mutual assistance, but in the real society, it was called mutual utilization. Some people say that it is * * * resource sharing. There is no interest relationship, and friends who can communicate sincerely are true friends! The most basic condition for being friends is that you should associate as friends before you can become friends. A friend is not the first person who thinks of you when he or she is in trouble, but the first person who thinks of you when you can help him or her. A friend who knows that you will try your best to help you when you are in trouble is a true friendship. In today's real society, all those who have economic interests are good friends. Ordinary friends just chat together occasionally. Good friends want to take advantage of you, close friends are ambiguous, and close friends and girlfriends will try their best to help you when you are in trouble (only when your economic environment (good or bad) has changed greatly, do you really need to know which is a close friend and which is a best friend). People who don't help you when you are in trouble are also friends! That's just a fair-weather friend. (Warm voice prompt: This answer is only my humble opinion, I hope it won't bring you misunderstanding. ) I hope my answer will help you!

Question 7: What principles should we grasp when making friends? (1) Equality and reciprocity. Giving and sharing must be two-way, so as to achieve a win-win situation or win-win situation.

(2) tolerate others. Respect differences, strengthen communication, make more interesting friends and gain lasting friendship.

(3) adhere to the principle. True friendship is sincere, healthy and uplifting, but we must adhere to principles and cannot maintain the so-called friendship at the expense of principles.

(4) Be cautious in making friends. Make good friends, be willing to make friends, and not make bad friends.

Question 8: Who should we make friends with? Friends in life can be roughly divided into four types. One is that they don't think of us when they are happy, and only come to us when they are helpless. Such a friend is often the last person to share the pain of others, and only wants others to bring joy. He poured all his pain on others, but soon forgot it.

One is that he only finds friends when he is happy, but keeps the pain in his heart alone. Such a friend usually understands the pain of others, but when we lose the pain, he catches it.

One is that no matter when and what mood you need others to enjoy, you feel that you are not as happy as you are alone, and you are not as sad as you are sad. When you are in love, you are eager to announce it to friends all over the world. When you are lovelorn, you should also tell your relatives and friends immediately. He always has company, but he is also curious about good things. He always wants his friends to tell him the most intimate things like him.

There is also a kind of friend who is not particularly close to people. He has his own unique lifestyle, and he is happy and sober. He is broad-minded, thoughtful, excellent in speech and has some unpredictable mysteries. The biggest advantage of being friends is that they are good at listening. Like the sea, they can tolerate the happiness or pain of others, but they are unmoved. Because he knows the key to solving problems, he encourages others to be happy and be kind to others.

Using water as an analogy, the first type is river type, which flows all its garbage to the sea; The second type is pond type, they are good at collecting other people's and their own pains; The third type is wavy. They always go ashore in waves and never stop. The fourth type is the sea type. They accept all the rivers without losing themselves.

Of course, this division of friends is not absolute, because friends are divided into thousands of aspects, just general types.

What kind of friends are we going to make? Or ... what kind of friends do we want to be?

Carlisle Ji Bolun has two dialogues in Friendship: "Your friends are here to respond to your needs. He is your garden. You sow with love and reap with gratitude. He is your dining table and wall lamp, because when you are hungry, go to him and ask him to be safe. " "Say hello to your friend. If he must know your low tide, let him know your * * *! What's the point of finding friends just to kill time? Find him and enjoy life! Because he meets your needs, not fills your emptiness, and makes the sweetness of friendship laugh and share! Because the mind finds its morning in the dew of trivial things and becomes refreshing. "

In the era of agricultural society, friendship is very simple, because it rarely involves interests; In youth, friendship is pure, because there is more connection between mind and spirit, and less entanglement of desire; Middle-aged people in industrial society, friendship often becomes a complex entanglement, and the word friend is also erratic. It is difficult for us to walk along the coast alone and listen to each other's voices. It's rare to talk to a person about something pure in a teahouse. Friends form a group and want to fill a large glass of wine in the beer house. Eat meat in the restaurant and shout together; Even in a dark place like karaoke, I'm looking for a floating sound.

Once upon a time, where there was friendship, we got a clear heart, comfort and care, wisdom and peace. Nowadays, many times, friends make us turbid, indifferent, lost, stupid and uneasy. Modern people have become a pattern of "river", "pond" and "wave", and few people are looking for an ocean thinking.

In modern society, solitude and solitude have become very important. The so-called "solitude" means that when a person is alone, he can be happy, full of soul and life, even if he sits quietly in the afternoon. The so-called "waking up alone" is not confused by music. The lifestyle that people think we should live often doesn't suit us. So why not wake up alone?

Only when you can wake up alone can you become a sea person. When the river rushes in, when the pond is full of water, and when the waves pass by, we can tolerate it without destroying our cleanliness. Ji Bolun said:

"When you break up with your friend, don't be sad, because your favorite beauty will be more obvious when he leaves you, just like a climber looking at a mountain on the flat ground, that mountain will be more clear." ...& gt& gt

Question 9: How should college students make friends? As contemporary college students, I think we should make friends. To have a good interpersonal relationship, we must pay attention to emotional compatibility. Generally speaking, people always like people who like themselves and have a good impression on people who really evaluate themselves. Once you get someone's appreciation, love and praise, your self-esteem will be satisfied because of your praise, which will lead to psychological closeness and affection for this person, thus reducing mutual friction and interpersonal conflict, achieving emotional harmony and providing psychological conditions for good interpersonal communication. Praise others sincerely, and in turn others will have a good impression on you. Some people often pay too much attention to themselves and can't find the value of others. If you can observe carefully and pay more attention to others, you will find that everyone has something worthy of praise. Affirming and praising the advantages of others will bring benefits to yourself. Generous and open-minded, learn to observe each other's psychology and be honest with each other. Our society is a pluralistic society, and the relationship between people is becoming more and more complicated. The complexity of society leads to the richness of personality, which inevitably leads to the intensification of contradictions among individuals. To maintain good interpersonal relationships with people around you, we must learn to seek common ground while reserving differences and have a generous and open-minded psychological quality. We must be considerate of others and be honest with each other. In life, we have misunderstandings with our classmates who live together day and night. When we are treated unfairly and not accepted by others, you will be anxious and irritable, which will definitely affect your study, life and social relations. What are we going to do, make a scene? Why don't you just break up These are not the best ways, they can only put themselves at a disadvantage in communication and affect future communication. On the contrary, if we are open-minded, we may be more calm, consider the problem from the other side's position, understand the feelings and feelings of others, misunderstandings and grievances will often disappear, and others will accept you happily. As the saying goes: be generous, cluster friends. It is difficult to be a broad-minded person, but we college students must pay attention to the cultivation of this quality in daily life and communication in order to better adapt to life and society. Among our classmates, they are either cheerful or deep; Or implicit, or frank; Or open-minded, or cautious, its personality is rich and diverse. So learn to be a caring person, be good at observing other people's moods, take the initiative to care about others, and let them feel your kindness and warmth in different ways. Take roommates in the same dormitory as an example. They have frequent contact, because they have many contacts and opportunities, so they are the easiest, and because they have many contacts, frictions and contradictions, they are the most difficult. This requires each of us to pay attention to observation and try our best to meet the needs of others, such as drawing water to sweep the floor, cooking for sick or busy students and making up lessons. However, there is a general tendency of self-centered communication among college students. Many people only emphasize that others should know, understand, accept and respect themselves, but neglect to understand and respect others equally; Only pay attention to the realization of their own goals, but ignore the interests and requirements of others, and so on. Under the control of this tendency, they often blindly communicate with their own temperament regardless of the occasion and the mood of the other party, leading to an embarrassing situation in communication. Imagine a person is at a low psychological level, but you announce your achievements in front of him. What will happen? ! Therefore, many times, we need to put ourselves in others' shoes. Only by caring for each other and exchanging sincerity for sincerity can we achieve spiritual communication and emotional harmony. Honesty and trustworthiness is the basic principle of being a man. In our college students' communication, if a friend cheats you, your self-esteem will be hurt and you may not be able to trust him as before. Similarly, we should treat others honestly and sincerely to gain their trust and understanding. It shows a person's self-esteem and inner sense of security and dignity, which can make people gain the trust of others in communication, and then attract people with the same excellent quality to their side, and establish a relaxed and happy social circle without pretending to be themselves. Making friends is a process of constant selection. Hypocrisy cannot be hidden forever. Once discovered by the other party, it is the greatest harm to friendship. Therefore, when we get along with others, we should be broad-minded and considerate and sincere. Only in this way can we get real friends and get along better with others. Master certain social skills. Skills in communication are like lubricants in interpersonal relationships, which can help people improve communication and understanding, shorten psychological distance and establish good relationships in communication activities. Many students with interpersonal barriers are >>

Question 10: What are the principles for college students to make friends? Master the principle of making friends and establish sincere friendship.

Friendship is the need of life and one of the most beautiful feelings of human beings. People are not vegetation, who can be ruthless? Life is inseparable from friendship, and career is inseparable from friendship. As the saying goes, a fence has three piles, and a hero has three gangs. If a person wants to achieve something, he can't do without the help of his friends. Establishing sincere friendship with friends will make people energetic and happier! As a college student, it should be like this!

The principle of making friends 1: Make good friends.

A good friend is a friend who can help him make progress. The help mentioned here includes character and knowledge learning. We should make friends with people who can help us make progress and have a good influence on ourselves in some ways. In life, everyone hopes that they can make good friends and let the power of friendship help them make progress. Then, each of us should also improve ourselves at the same time and strive to be good friends in the eyes of others.

Principle 2: Make friends with friends.

A friend is a friend who can point out his mistakes bluntly and criticize and help himself. Sincere friendship is not only manifested in enjoying happiness with friends, solving troubles for friends and sharing misfortunes for friends; It is also manifested in frank criticism and sincere suggestions on friends' shortcomings and mistakes. Happy friends need the yardstick to listen to harsh advice and the courage to correct mistakes. It is precisely because friends dare to criticize each other that friendship is doubly pure and precious. Therefore, in the face of friends' outspoken criticism, we must not be angry or even bear a grudge against our friends, but should accept it gladly and sincerely thank them for making friends.

Rule 3 of making friends: don't make bad friends.

A bad friend refers to a friend who has a bad influence on his moral conduct. There are many types of bad friends, but what they have in common is that they unconsciously influence you with bad things, corrode you, make your moral character retrogress, and even make you embark on the road of illegal crimes, thus ruining your life. Friendship, like other emotions, also has a quality problem, as well as quality differences and advantages and disadvantages. When you meet a bad friend, that kind of friendship must be of low quality and harmful. Therefore, you must not make bad friends in your life.

Making good friends, being willing to make friends and not making bad friends are the three principles of our friendship. Only by mastering these three principles can we establish high-quality friendship, which will play a positive role in promoting our lifelong development.

Under the premise of mastering these three principles, what skills should we master to make friends? There are many ways to make friends. Here are some suggestions:

1. Extend a warm hand

Humor is very popular

3. Take the initiative to help others

Be sincere to others, never break your word, and let everyone believe in themselves.

5. Serve the group and classmates, be tolerant and generous.

6. Be considerate and helpful, and often chat with classmates.

7. Open your heart with your friends.

If you do this, then sincere friendship will always be with you!

Let your best friend accompany you for life.