What if the mother-in-law is too partial to her son?

The mother-in-law is too partial to her son. You should talk about this problem with your husband alone. Tell him to tell your mother-in-law indirectly about you two and tell her to stay out of it.

Besides, since you know that your mother-in-law cares about things between you, you can't say anything in front of her. Wait until she's not there.

Finally, if you can live separately from your mother-in-law, try to live separately. You should have your own position. No children now, relatively free.

Think more about the pros and cons of this relationship.