Women have no position at home unless they earn money with their children.

Women have no position at home unless they earn money with their children.

Women take care of children without making money and have no position at home. Work is very important to everyone. Only by working can our life become better. Now more and more women give up their jobs to take care of their children. The following is some information I have compiled for you about women who don't earn money with their children and have no status at home. Let's have a look!

Women who have children and don't earn money have no place in the family. 1 They didn't know until they got married that it was the most pleasant time in a woman's life to bid farewell to the days before she was single. You can shout three times, you can't stay up for a long time, you can eat irregularly, you can make a hullabaloo about, you can dress up as you like, you can spend all your money to ask your family for it, and you can find someone who likes you to buy it for you.

It's too difficult to be a woman when having children. The child is too young to go out to work. To this end, many women become full-time wives for their families, cut off their economic income and take care of their families wholeheartedly. If your husband understands your hard work, that's fine, but this is not the case in reality. Many men, because their wives don't earn money, are cocky in front of their wives, and he doesn't compromise at all on family matters. Women are humble because they have no financial resources. When you encounter a big expense problem, you have to ask a man for advice. You can't buy whatever you want! Sometimes I even spend some money, but my mother-in-law is always cynical. Everything depends on her son, calling you a black sheep. Such examples abound around me.

Coupled with the long time at home, gradually out of touch with society, less and less topics with her husband, and less and less feelings between husband and wife, this is one of the reasons for the emergence of more and more mistresses. If a man feels that he has nothing in common with you, he will look elsewhere for spiritual comfort. Of course, in your opinion, this is just an excuse for men to cheat. You have devoted all your youth to this family, and as a result, you have nothing, no face, no money and no family. ...

To put it bluntly, the reason for these problems is that you gave up yourself for your family. You have no financial resources. I can't buy my favorite clothes, bags and cosmetics at any time ... many things can't be done according to my own ideas. When your mother-in-law says you are the black sheep of her family and you spend her son's money, you can't reply to her loudly. This is the money you earned, so you can spend it as you like!

Therefore, a woman's family status at home mainly depends on whether you have money or not. If you have your own income, you can always do what you like. At the same time, we should also cultivate our hobbies, chat, drink tea and go bungee jumping. Especially a woman with a family, don't revolve around her husband and children all day, please leave some time for yourself.

Women with children don't earn money and have no position in the family. 2 for money, friends can fight; For money, husband and wife can become strangers; For money, relatives can turn against each other; This evil money society. The reason why women's social status has gradually improved is not only because of the imbalance between men and women, but also because women's economy has become independent, and women's contribution and value to this society is no longer just to have children and do housework.

At any stage, there is a big difference between women who earn money and women who don't. Women who earn their own money and spend their own money will get their due dignity, independent personality, see a wider world and have better and more life choices.

In marriage, the difference between a woman earning money at work and spending money with her children at home is really realistic and cruel, but you should know it as a woman.

First of all, when you are in love.

It is said that men will spend money for you if they love you, but men may spend money for you not because they love you, but also for some purpose. As for women, you should know that you can buy bread. As long as men give you love, women who will make money by themselves care about their own feelings, not the emotional exchange between two people. Women who don't make money care most about men's money. As for whether two people are suitable or not, the other is.

Second, after marriage

A woman who makes her own money will generally not be bullied when she marries her husband's family, because having money means having confidence and is not afraid of her husband's family making things difficult. In her husband's family, she has the right to speak and status, without looking at her mother's face. She buys whatever she likes, and is most practical when she pays for it herself.

A woman who can't make money herself reaches out and asks her husband for money when she buys something. Her parents couldn't hold their heads when they came to her husband's house. She never dared to spend a penny more for herself, and was called a prodigal bitch by her husband. She depends not only on her husband's face, but also on the faces of all her husband's family. She has no right to talk about big things and small things. Her life all day is washing clothes, cooking and taking care of children.

Third, at the time of divorce

A woman who earns her own money, even if divorced, will not worry about not being wanted or how to spend the rest of her life. In the face of men's unfaithfulness and injustice, she can leave naturally and won't cry when divorced. Even without love, she at least has her own dignity. Love is good, but if not, money is the best.

What women who don't earn money are most afraid of is that there is no hope in the lower body after divorce, and the problem of raising children has become the biggest difficulty. What if the child remarries? If you don't remarry, you can't raise children at all, so many women live a life of humiliation for their children.

Women don't earn money to take care of their children and have no position at home. In modern society, the economy is so developed that women become full-time wives. If it's a woman's decision, it's because she chickened out. If it's a man's decision and he makes a mistake to himself, it's really selfish.

I told this general idea to the girls who interviewed. She said she knew it would happen, but she still felt that she didn't want to suffer and take risks. She believes that the man who loves her won't do that.

What is hardship? You really haven't seen hard work. Look at the moving company and the workers on the construction site. Can you be diligent in making phone calls in the office? Is it hard to visit customers in an air-conditioned senior office building? Is it hard to listen to your boss, read books carefully and look up information online? It's interesting for such female employees to look at their interpersonal relationships. Their friends in the company are not conducive to business progress, but have male charm. They can play or chat together instead of working together.

This is the reason for the high divorce rate in China today. The so-called Chinese divorce keeps happening, and in my opinion, it will continue to happen. Why are women just tools for giving birth to children and become nannies after giving birth? Should she devote all her energy to her family? Don't forget, she has a good education and dreams. But what changed her life course?

Of course, a man without a career will be even worse. His distress is that he has never eaten sugar in his life, which is worse than that of a woman.

This article is dedicated to all working women. Because the world is complicated, it is likely that some people will think what they say is extreme and extreme. After all, all happy families are the same, and each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. Women should be spoiled and loved. Men should educate women to be enterprising and look so cold and inconsiderate. Only the boss can be so mean and pragmatic, but it is this despicable boss who gives women the same promotion opportunities as men in the company. He felt sorry for those confidants who had fought with him, and the female staff with business talent he worked hard to cultivate withdrew from the professional stage early. Those women who pursue equality secretly think that women are weak.

How charming a woman who pursues her career is, how strong this charm is, how charming her hard-working figure is, how charming her endless talent is, and how much she can stand the scrutiny of years. Such women should give them more consideration and care, because it is worthwhile and necessary. Jonathan Lee's Song of the Noble has several classic lyrics: "It takes a reason to get the result, all in a flash ...". The difference between an idea and a lifetime. Happiness lies in thinking twice.

Those female employees who are still naive, pampered and complaining about depression, if your career goal is no goal, how can I ask you not to be late for work? I don't know the day when your boyfriend asked you to resign in a word. They have received too much care, they have plenty of time to rest and have fun, and they will spend the rest of their lives in laziness. What else can they talk about? I don't find them attractive, especially to me. I hardly bothered to pretend to stay when they resigned.

Because I told jokes that they didn't understand, I told the tragedy that they took as a joke.

Come and talk to all the female compatriots! If God is kind to you and gives you a capable husband and a superior life, please don't restrain your fighting spirit; If God doesn't love you enough and makes things difficult, please don't kill your confidence and courage to struggle forward.