How does it feel to be called aunt at such a young age?

What does it feel like to be called aunt at such a young age?

Haha. I am 60 years old this year. I remember twenty-seven or eight years ago, when I was in my early 30s, I went to the market to buy vegetables. The young man selling vegetables looked like he was only in his 20s. He said, "Auntie, your vegetables have been weighed." He was really embarrassed at the time. Did he think he was that old? Looking back now, nearly 30 years have passed. People at that time really didn't know how to dress up and were not particular about their clothes. It was normal for people in their 30s to wear clothes in their 40s.

I can only lament that time flies by so fast, and it’s 2020 in a flash. I am also approaching 60 years old. I am grateful for time. Time has kind of let me go. Now when I go to the supermarket or the market to buy things, I am called sister again, and some call me beauty. Some people call beautiful girls, and they feel happy in their hearts. I hope that when I am 80 years old, everyone will still call me sister and become a beautiful sister forever.

I am a man, but I have also had the experience of being "respected for my elders" many times.

As for the feeling, it must be sour, sour, sour, sour, sour...

That was in 1987, when I was finally transferred back to my hometown from other places. Taught in No. 2 Middle School. One evening, everyone was sitting in the dormitory yard chatting until their respective ages. A cafeteria worker sat across from me and asked me loudly: "Are you over 50?" I was embarrassed to ask, and my face turned red. You know, I was only 24 years old at the time, and I was at a tender age.

In the 1990s, my wife opened a small bookstore next to the elementary school, with a freezer at the door that doubled as a cold drink. One day at noon, my wife went home to cook, and I left work to guard the shop. The head of a family bought an ice cream cone and stored it in the freezer, waiting for his children to eat it after class. He said to me: "When your daughter comes, tell her that I put the ice cream in the freezer. After class, my son will come to get it." I didn't react for a while and looked at him helplessly: "Ah! What did you say? ? ""Tell your daughter that the ice cream is in your freezer, okay?" "I'm dizzy! I had to nod my head in disbelief: "Oh oh oh..."

I ran a composition class, and a parent of a student opened a small shop opposite my writing class. One day after class, this child ran to her mother and said, "Mom, why is the teacher so old? His wife is so young. I don't think the teacher is worthy of his wife." But I was standing at the door of the classroom and heard it. That was so sour. , comparable to Shanxi mature vinegar.

Alas, am I really that old?

I have been called grandma, how do you think I feel? It almost made me mad. If I hadn't seen that he was an old man, I would have beaten him to death.

What happened at that time? When my child was in elementary school, the mother of one of her classmates gave birth to a second child. She would sometimes pick up the eldest child from school with the second child in her arms, so I got to know the little brother of my child’s classmate.

One day I was playing with my children in the square, and the little brother was carried out by his grandfather to play. The little brother had just learned to walk! The old man was exhausted, and then I stepped forward to tease my little brother, thinking about helping the old man look after the child!

I forgot that the old man didn’t recognize me, so I helped him take care of the kids for a while. The old man was so embarrassed that he even asked his little brother to call me grandma. Damn it, what a look! To be honest, I look much younger than her daughter-in-law.

I seriously suspect that the old man is up to no good! What the hell! As soon as I heard this, I turned around and left. Typical good intentions are not rewarded!

I haven’t reached the age of grandma yet! Some people just don't have good eyesight, but they still want to show that they are young! It's really overestimating one's abilities.

Let me talk about my own situation. I look older and I don’t care much about my clothes. I have been called uncle for a long time. However, I got married relatively early, at the age of 24. So I don't mind if people call me uncle or uncle.

But once I got a little annoyed. I was doing computer repairs and sometimes needed door-to-door service. At the beginning, the hostess (who was about the same age as me) just smiled and said hello, and after serving tea and water, she started to help her. Maintenance of the machine is progressing smoothly.

After a while, when her husband came back, the hostess started calling me uncle, and she called me uncle several times in a row. I couldn’t help but feel a little annoyed. I paid 100 yuan for a job that originally cost 50 yuan. Just because her uncle screamed a little uncomfortable.

I later learned that there was a reason why she called me uncle, because her husband was a jealous man. It seemed like I was wrong to blame him.

There is also a situation like this. For example, I have a good friend of my uncle, but he is younger than me. According to our habits, I should still call him uncle. He was also a bit uncomfortable at first. As you grow up, you'll get used to it.

So it’s good to get used to some things, because it’s not a big deal, and you don’t have to worry about the gains and losses of a sentence or two with ordinary people.

Brother:Sister::Uncle and Auntie are polite titles. If you call aunt:sister-in-law, you have to distinguish them clearly. It’s okay if you know them, but you can’t call them random names if you don’t know them.

Everyone Well, I am Sister Liu San from Sichuan. I am very happy to be invited to answer this question. What does it feel like to be called aunt at such a young age?

To be honest, I still feel a little uncomfortable when I hear such a title.

For example: I often encounter this problem. Although I am not young, I am not that old. One day, a woman came to buy something from me. She called me aunt. I felt a little uncomfortable when I heard that. You immediately thought, are you really old? Then I looked at how young this woman was. In fact, she looked like she was over 50 years old. She still called me aunt. Really. Then I thought about it. Maybe others were just being polite and just called me aunt. Don’t think about it. too much.

There are also many old ladies in Guangdong. It seems that they are all in their sixties or seventies. She still calls me aunt. I just get used to it.

Also, when they call you aunt, just think of it as a courtesy, just a title, not because of your age. If you think about it this way, you won’t feel so uncomfortable. . This is my own experience, thank you for reading.

Let me tell you about the feeling of being called uncle for the first time.

I was born in 1997 and am now 23.

I remember the first time I was called uncle. I must have been 20 or 20 years old when I called him "Uncle"

It was when he was helping a teenage boy kick his football back

He said "Thank you, uncle" ”

I was confused at the time. Thinking about it, it turned out that you were calling me. It was really the first time.

It’s like when you were originally called “Zhang San”, and then suddenly someone called you “Zhang San”. I call you "Zhang Si", and "Zhang Si" is also your name

But the title is just a code name

As you grow older, you will definitely have a role. "Uncle", "uncle", or "aunt" or "aunt" etc.

He is just what others call you when you reach a certain stage of your age

But at the same time It also reminds you that you have grown up! ! !

We have entered another stage of life! ! ! !

At the same time, you have to think about what you need to learn and what responsibilities you will assume at this stage.

Different titles represent different relationships between you and that person. "Uncle and "Son" "Dad and son" etc.

You have to think carefully about the rest

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A person's quality, morality, etiquette, and family education are all reflected in a person's behavior. Especially among young people in this era, 60% do not know how to rank, regardless of age, the ones who grow up are young and beautiful. You can also call someone young, if you look older and look older in the dark spots, then you are definitely a generation behind. It's really not surprising, not surprising.

I remember the first time I was called auntie. I was around 40 years old. I seemed to be going to the market to buy vegetables. The young man selling tofu saw me walking past his beach stall and warmly greeted me to buy tofu. In fact, I have bought tofu from their store, and it was really good, but the call made me uncomfortable, so I pretended not to hear it and went to another store to buy it. Later, when I thought about it, I was right. My son was already a teenager at the time. This guy was only around 20 years old, so he should be called auntie.

Since the title "Miss" has lost its distinguished status, young ladies are generally called "Beautiful Girl" and older ladies are called "Beautiful Sister". I am used to being called pretty girl or pretty sister. This voice is so harsh to my ears.

Ha ha!

In Guangdong, married people are called aunties no matter how young they are, and unmarried people are called sister no matter how old they are.

I remembered that many years ago, there was a female colleague in my work who was two years older than me. My son was still young at that time, so he naturally called her aunt when he met her. As a result, she was very unhappy and corrected her on the spot. elder sister". When she returns to work after the New Year, she has to give her a red envelope (Guangdong custom: only unmarried people can receive red envelopes). In fact, it's just a title. Being called aunty doesn't necessarily make you look older, and being called pretty doesn't necessarily make you look younger. Do you believe that those shopping mall promoters call a 60-year-old lady pretty when they see her? Ha ha.

I think calling aunt is a respectful title, and it is much better than calling sister-in-law. If you are not married, calling you sister-in-law is more embarrassing.